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well my dad was rushed in hospital monday night, now they have done that many tests since he has been in there and they have taken loads of blood and have now narrowed it down to his bowels , well we went to see him last again and o my god he looks so ill it took my breath .

 

he has not eaten since saturday, they will not allow him to eat or drink until they get to the bottom of whats wrong with him .

 

now my dad has worked hard all of his life he never had a day off through sickness up until 10 years ago when he had a massive heart attack he got over that, then he had to go to leceister hospital to have a camera put down his throat to check his heart was functioning ok .

 

well my step mum, my wife and myself all went along with him so he was not alone , we was all there when he went down and everything was ok, he was calm happy with what the doctor told him .well it was meant to be a 1hour op which turned out to be 2 half hours we knew there was something wrong .

 

well dad came out the op room and back to the ward where we were waiting for him , he looked fine untill he tried to speak to us but he couldn't, he had a stroke while having the op, he lost his speech his use in the left side of his body .

 

so that was another set back in his life but my dad is not a quitter and the man he is , he got on with what he had to do,and learnt to walk and talk again ,i am so proud of my dad for that , anyway he is not 100 % better but gets by . then 3 years ago he had another heart attack, there is nothing like kicking someone when there down is there .again my dad being the man he is, he got over that .....and now this has happened.

 

i tried to go to work this morning but i could not work when i got there , its there every where i turn ,l could not sleep last night thinking about it and i can't think about anything else but what has happened .when will it end .......... :wallbash:

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mate , life doesnt ever seem to be easy , god im only 23 , and ive learned life is deffo , a cruel bitch mother , which is slowly swollowing each and everyone off us ,

all i can do is wish you , your dad and your family the best ,

hope it gets alot better and not worse ,

 

HH

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Firstly hope your dad is on the mend..But Wag life is a bag of shit you just got to make the best go of it ,as the sayings go your only here once and it aint a rehersal.

 

Best wishes to you and yours at this time

 

Steve

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wag i know what your going through mate lost my old fella aged 71 18 mnths ago he`d had heart trouble from a young age and battled for years with illness i spent the last 5 days at his beside i watched him go from the strong hard man he`d been , the man who`d helped me on many an awkward dig and had run the lamp with me on many a winters night helped me build kennels and pigeons lofts i lost a dad a mate a mentor the man who made me what i am .. take some time out from work if you can spend some time with him ,i hope things work out ,be strong ;)

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The sad fact is we are all fighting to live and living to die. All the best to you and your old man. Make sure he knows all the posetive things you think of him and also be proud of yourself for being a caring son.

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spend as much time with your Dad as you can buddy and hope all is well. i go out huntin with my 18 year old lad every weekend and try to spend as much time with him as poss as ive always thought that life is too short. bet not many dads are as lucky as me to have a son with the same interests. I.E. hunting with hounds, terriers,lurchers,ferrets, fishing and dog shows Thinking of you and your family.

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Life is very cruel and also very very unfair,seems all the good people are taken from us or are effected by some life threatining illness or other. My brother passed away 9 yrs ago and he was only 14,hard times i tell you,that was from cancer. My thoughts are with you and your family,all the best mate.

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