Guest bullterrier Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR MISSUS MATE ...JOHN Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Fieldsporthunter 1,864 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 well last june the missus had a mis carrage which really tough for her to get over ,all she ever wanted was child of our own as i have one from another relationship.It took her a long time to come to terms with it and then two weeks ago she hits me with it "baby im pregnant again".This time ot felt beter i was sure it was going to work this time.Anyway i was out lamping monday night when i got the call off her saying she was bleeding so i sped home and rushed her to hospital for tests .Today the doctor rang with that dredded news another baby lost .Im absolutely gutted and dont even know what to say to make things right,what do you do in circumstances like this cause at this stage im bloody lost sorry to hear bad news scent, my lass is pregnant. i cant imagine how you feel. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scrubworm 0 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 one of those tough times that get thrown our way in life ,i do wish you both well . great to see you sharing this bad moment with other people .cheers. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
droid 11 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 Sorry to hear this scent. My thoughts are with you and your partner. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tiff 36 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 as said, be there for her but don't hover or coddle her too much or you could smother her. Try to stay in when possible rather than leaving her in by herself all alone. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nbk 0 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 sorry about what happened but hope everything alright with the missus snd my regards.... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scent 509 Posted November 20, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 sound for all the nice comments as they say time is a great healer Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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SA1Gunner 0 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 Very sorry to hear that fella. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
rabitin girl 16 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 Sorry to hear your sad news Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Malt 379 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 Gutted for you Scent mate. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tallyho 181 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 im so sorry for the both of you, and my heart goes out to both, it will happen in the end keep your chin up. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SNAP SHOT 194 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 Gutting news mate, for the both of you, my thoughts are with you both at this trying time............SS Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mrs sweepy 0 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 When i was three months gone i fell down the stairs. I kid myself for as long as i could that everything was ok. As you can guess it was not. For a long long time i blame myself . And would not let anyone near me. Its ture when they say time is a great healer. And since then i have had the other child. I found the lot of people did not know how to handle what had happen to me . And i was told on many occasions that it was not the baby as such. We could try again. And my all time fave. It was not meant to be. To lose the baby is a very lonely grief. In some ways i think it is the lot harder on the man. As i found i was griefing for the baby that i had lost .While my poor husband was not only feeling the lost of the child . But he also had to stand by and watch myself fall to bits. All i can say is you are not alone as many on here have already said. I know that my husband felt like he could do nothing for me in the first few days after it happen. But when the time came and i reached out for him . He was their ready to pick me up again. Thats all you can do for each other. Take care and you are both in my thoughts Suzy Quote Link to post Share on other sites
richie 1 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 scent i know what youre going through, my Mrs had a miscarriage at just over 3 months, then the second time she fell pregnant was the best news ever, we were well chuffed, then shortly after claire began to bleed, so i rushed her down to the hospital & we were told that we lost it, they sent her home & said that it would fall out "naturally". that night i had to get her back down the hospital as she was doubled up in pain, the fetus was removed, to my horror when i returned back to the ward, the nurse left it on the table in front of her in a jar ! f****d her head up for a while.. we were having IVF treatment, so the next time will cost just over £5000.. chin up ! my thoughts are with you & your Mrs... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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