Arguments with the other half

[Guest SJM]

For someone to really be your "other half" they have to think along similar lines, share the same interests and be heading for the same place you are, otherwise all they will really become is a thorn in your side. How can someone be your other half if you barely talk except to argue or you dont know what theyre thinking half the time? I reckon a true other half is a very hard thing to find. You dont even really know yourself until your in your thirties, what you want when your 18 can be completely different to what you want at 30/40/50 etc. Be happy with yourself and your own life and f**k everybody else thats my motto. The more you focus on yourself and turn things inward, the less you want or need other people. Theres a great satisfaction in being completely self reliant. It means you can take or leave other people and theres great power in that, people are drawn to it rather than repelled as you would think they would be. Cant give you any advice other than whats allready been said, weigh up the good and the bad and if the bad is more prevalent, give yourself a shake and ask yourself why you are putting up with this when you have the rest of your life ahead of you to live it the way you want to!

[Simoman 110]

For someone to really be your "other half" they have to think along similar lines, share the same interests and be heading for the same place you are, otherwise all they will really become is a thorn in your side. How can someone be your other half if you barely talk except to argue or you dont know what theyre thinking half the time? I reckon a true other half is a very hard thing to find. You dont even really know yourself until your in your thirties, what you want when your 18 can be completely different to what you want at 30/40/50 etc. Be happy with yourself and your own life and f**k everybody else thats my motto. The more you focus on yourself and turn things inward, the less you want or need other people. Theres a great satisfaction in being completely self reliant. It means you can take or leave other people and theres great power in that, people are drawn to it rather than repelled as you would think they would be. Cant give you any advice other than whats allready been said, weigh up the good and the bad and if the bad is more prevalent, give yourself a shake and ask yourself why you are putting up with this when you have the rest of your life ahead of you to live it the way you want to!

 

Crikey Sarah, if Wilfs the forums Jeremy Kyle perhaps you could be Trisha....or Vanessa Feltz

[Guest Zak]

For someone to really be your "other half" they have to think along similar lines, share the same interests and be heading for the same place you are, otherwise all they will really become is a thorn in your side. How can someone be your other half if you barely talk except to argue or you dont know what theyre thinking half the time? I reckon a true other half is a very hard thing to find. You dont even really know yourself until your in your thirties, what you want when your 18 can be completely different to what you want at 30/40/50 etc. Be happy with yourself and your own life and f**k everybody else thats my motto. The more you focus on yourself and turn things inward, the less you want or need other people. Theres a great satisfaction in being completely self reliant. It means you can take or leave other people and theres great power in that, people are drawn to it rather than repelled as you would think they would be. Cant give you any advice other than whats allready been said, weigh up the good and the bad and if the bad is more prevalent, give yourself a shake and ask yourself why you are putting up with this when you have the rest of your life ahead of you to live it the way you want to!

 

SJM, well said, but, its hard, when their is kids envolved?

I am in a bad relationship right now, but can not let my son go, it would break my heart and the women im married to, will stop me from seeing him that much, if i leave, its black mail i know, but women seem to have more right over kids, then men do.

[mackem 26,736]

I was just thinking she sounds live a harsh version of Ann Robinson,I was expexting her to tell him its his fault,he is the weakest link......................GOOD-BYE

[Guest SJM]

nah I know what tiresome nagging bitches women can sometimes be, (Ive had a relationship with a woman, and a guy who might as well have been one ) so my sympathy is entirely with the guy, it sounds like hes too good for her IMO

 

Go Vanessa

[mackem 26,736]

nah I know what tiresome nagging bitches women can sometimes be, (Ive had a relationship with a woman, and a guy who might as well have been one ) so my sympathy is entirely with the guy, it sounds like hes too good for her IMO

 

Go Vanessa

I had a girlfriend who was bi-sexual once Sarah,an Austrian bird who always promised me a tryst with her large-breasted turkish ex-girlfriend,sadly that menage-a-troise never came to fruition

[Guest hpool_hunter]

nah I know what tiresome nagging bitches women can sometimes be, (Ive had a relationship with a woman, and a guy who might as well have been one ) so my sympathy is entirely with the guy, it sounds like hes too good for her IMO

 

Go Vanessa

I had a girlfriend who was bi-sexual once Sarah,an Austrian bird who always promised me a tryst with her large-breasted turkish ex-girlfriend,sadly that menage-a-troise never came to fruition

 

poor you

[Simoman 110]

nah I know what tiresome nagging bitches women can sometimes be, (Ive had a relationship with a woman, and a guy who might as well have been one ) so my sympathy is entirely with the guy, it sounds like hes too good for her IMO

 

Go Vanessa

I had a girlfriend who was bi-sexual once Sarah,an Austrian bird who always promised me a tryst with her large-breasted turkish ex-girlfriend,sadly that menage-a-troise never came to fruition

 

 

Lesbians and bi-sexual people do have standards mackem

[jaws66 0]

just spent the last week not speeking to the other half . we got woke up at 7 tuesday mornin by a chap from down the road saying I think that 1 of our cats has been run over .so I says to the o/h stay in bed and i will go and see if its our cat , but no she had to get up ranting and raveing . started talking shit so i told her to shut up before she said something that would make the mater worse . i gets the cat put him the shed walked the dogs gets back the cat had gone she had put him the ground . she had put him only 18 inches under so i told her what are you going to do when the dogs have dug him up and are ragging him around the garden , so she went back out in the rain dug him back up made a bigger hole and put him back in . now if she had done what she was asked the job would have been done right the first time . I think most women only hear the bad stuff we say to them and thats . yesterday we when to a BarBQ and i thought that this would make things a bit better and it did fir a while that was untill we got home and it went back to normal . i have had enough of puttong up with all this shit and yes we are both to blame at times . But I am F**KED I have 4 dogs , no cash , no f**king job and know where else to go . and to top it all this is out tenth year together . so if any of you see a bloke sitting in a doorway with 4 dogs you will know its me . its allways worth trying to talk before it gets out of hand because you could end up loosing your soul mate

 

CHEERS JAWS66

[rob.i 26]

I dare say that im responsable for making her feel in some way like doing and saying these things , but i do 10 hour shifts , 6 days a week . get home and take the kids out somewhere every night , and i mean every night , dont drink ( she has nagged me for years over this and anything for a quiet life ) dont smoke , all my money goes in the bank ( to which i dont have a cash card , but she does ) her wages, although get eaten up by the house and life in general , is her money . I do my own food for work , and most nights , but she does wash and iron my clothes .

TAKE THE FECKIN CASH CARD OFF HER

[Guest ferretlad]

If my other half ever has a sulky attitude towards me and it last's a day or so, I use my 3 faithful compainion's (dog's) to come to my rescue, I feed them a handfull of raw tripe in their breakfast meal and by the time i get home from work my house is filled with the pungent aroma of flatulent gass'es expelled from my 3 loyal friend's, and she's upstairs in the bedroom gaging for fresh air and wont come out, which leaves me to a peaceful nag free night watching what i want on the box. This also work's a treat when i find out the Mother in law is comming round, she only stays 5 minute's then go's home.

[Guest buster321c]

Well ive just got in and shes at work Took my daughter out to get a new bike and my lad is playin the xbox , just gonna feed the mut , have something to eat , a bath , and laze around like a slob while shes out , without any nagging

[poacherjim 0]

I dare say that im responsable for making her feel in some way like doing and saying these things , but i do 10 hour shifts , 6 days a week . get home and take the kids out somewhere every night , and i mean every night , dont drink ( she has nagged me for years over this and anything for a quiet life ) dont smoke , all my money goes in the bank ( to which i dont have a cash card , but she does ) her wages, although get eaten up by the house and life in general , is her money . I do my own food for work , and most nights , but she does wash and iron my clothes .

sounds like a pretty crap time you have,keep your money and send your clothes to the launderette :censored:

[Simoman 110]

Buster, marriages require work and if you guys want to stay together then you should work and perhaps relate or another organisation is appropriate. The one thing I hear which burns my ass is the stay together for the kids crap. I grew up with that and I would of been happier if they had gone their seperate ways 20 years earlier than they did, the atmosphere and constant rowing is far worse for the kids than the seperation.............

[iamduvern 62]

If my other half ever has a sulky attitude towards me and it last's a day or so, I use my 3 faithful compainion's (dog's) to come to my rescue, I feed them a handfull of raw tripe in their breakfast meal and by the time i get home from work my house is filled with the pungent aroma of flatulent gass'es expelled from my 3 loyal friend's, and she's upstairs in the bedroom gaging for fresh air and wont come out, which leaves me to a peaceful nag free night watching what i want on the box. This also work's a treat when i find out the Mother in law is comming round, she only stays 5 minute's then go's home.

 

 

 

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