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I dare say that im responsable for making her feel in some way like doing and saying these things , but i do 10 hour shifts , 6 days a week . get home and take the kids out somewhere every night , and i mean every night , dont drink ( she has nagged me for years over this and anything for a quiet life ) dont smoke , all my money goes in the bank ( to which i dont have a cash card , but she does ) her wages, although get eaten up by the house and life in general , is her money . I do my own food for work , and most nights , but she does wash and iron my clothes .

 

Do you do anything as a family

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do you as a couple ( no kids ) do out , even meal out? cinema? anything?

 

no never , if were in , she goes to bed same time as the kids !!

 

Organise a babysitter & have a meal out or a drink

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I have been divorced and through a couple of relationships, so my advice probably isnt the best, its only now i see things more clearly.

 

20 Years is a long time mate, communication is usually a stumbling block! Time is the greatest healer, so i would agree that sleeping on it is a good idea. We have all said and done things that sometimes cannot be forgotten but they can be forgiven.

 

I you can get the chance talk to one another, lighten the load. Throw an olive branch and hopefully she will pick it.

 

Good Luck

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do you as a couple ( no kids ) do out , even meal out? cinema? anything?

 

no never , if were in , she goes to bed same time as the kids !!

 

best piece of advice I was ever given was weigh up the good and bad of your relationship and how much better or worse your life would be without her...if the negatives far out weigh the positives you got a decision to make...hope you can work it out... :icon_eek:

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