Guest buster321c Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 You know how when you argue about the most stupid bollox , and it just esculates out of control ? Sometimes thing are said that can`t be taken back , how do you cope with these situations ? And whats the worst thing you`ve said / been told ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 wel i think we all do it from time to time & i usually just ignore my husband fora few months , he comes round eventually Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest buster321c Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Ye i know that one, im normally the ` ignore it and it`ll go away ` type but tonight , i gotta say , she`s really hurt me . Cow !!!!!! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Ye i know that one, im normally the ` ignore it and it`ll go away ` type but tonight , i gotta say , she`s really hurt me . Cow !!!!!! She is probably hurting for saying it as well, maybe just see how things pan out tonight & perhaps try to meet halfway tomorrow Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest buster321c Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Dont know about that mate , i`ll never forgive her for this one , and yes she may well feel bad, but it was deliberate , i could tell what was going to be said and i tried to stop it , but that seemed to make her want to do it all the more . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gin 498 Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Its always best to just sleep on it and see what she's like in the morning,- just think before you speak first. My work-mate got his dinner over his head just for saying it tasted "funny" ( Honest ),- It may have been "that time of the month ". Vicious little buggers at times. I don't suppose most mean what they say. ! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest buster321c Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 I dont have to think before speak , as i often try to just let it all go , tonight i went out in the car got half way to Lichfield ( my permission ) and realised id`e left my pellets in the house !! otherwise id`e have been out till about 3 am and avoided the second half !! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest hpool_hunter Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 all me and my other half seem to do is argue about the most stupid of things , been going on for 3 years , we did finish at one point and i moved away from the area , but realised what i was missing , her and my daughter , so we worked through it , even now though we argue and i end up just taking the dog for a wander , 1 point last year she said the worst thing ever to me - and it gutted me , that my daughter wasnt mine , to this day i have never forgiving her and she no's it , but you cant let petty arguments drag you both down , work through it , if you think its worth it . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 all me and my other half seem to do is argue about the most stupid of things , been going on for 3 years , we did finish at one point and i moved away from the area , but realised what i was missing , her and my daughter , so we worked through it , even now though we argue and i end up just taking the dog for a wander , 1 point last year she said the worst thing ever to me - and it gutted me , that my daughter wasnt mine , to this day i have never forgiving her and she no's it , but you cant let petty arguments drag you both down , work through it , if you think its worth it . Thats got to be the worst thing any bloke wants to hear Quote Link to post Share on other sites
J Darcy 5,871 Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Dont go to sleep on an arguement. try and sort it before bedtime. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest hpool_hunter Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 all me and my other half seem to do is argue about the most stupid of things , been going on for 3 years , we did finish at one point and i moved away from the area , but realised what i was missing , her and my daughter , so we worked through it , even now though we argue and i end up just taking the dog for a wander , 1 point last year she said the worst thing ever to me - and it gutted me , that my daughter wasnt mine , to this day i have never forgiving her and she no's it , but you cant let petty arguments drag you both down , work through it , if you think its worth it . Thats got to be the worst thing any bloke wants to hear oOo it gutted me , to this day i dont know the truth , even my mother says she looks like me , but point is , was to scared to get a DNA done to be honest , shes my daughter regardless , and thats how its staying . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest buster321c Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Well thts what im thinking , is it really worth it ? We`ve been together for about 20 yrs and it aint always been easy , but im really gettin tired of the constant agro . Its like ........... i dont bloody know what its like anymore . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest WILF Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Tell her to feck off Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 Well thts what im thinking , is it really worth it ? We`ve been together for about 20 yrs and it aint always been easy , but im really gettin tired of the constant agro . Its like ........... i dont bloody know what its like anymore . well it depends if theres anything left to salvage , if you think there is then work at it Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest buster321c Posted August 17, 2008 Report Share Posted August 17, 2008 I dare say that im responsable for making her feel in some way like doing and saying these things , but i do 10 hour shifts , 6 days a week . get home and take the kids out somewhere every night , and i mean every night , dont drink ( she has nagged me for years over this and anything for a quiet life ) dont smoke , all my money goes in the bank ( to which i dont have a cash card , but she does ) her wages, although get eaten up by the house and life in general , is her money . I do my own food for work , and most nights , but she does wash and iron my clothes . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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