My rights...there rights?

[craftycarper 0]

doing me bloody head in, even when i don't see him he's giving me grief

 

will have to sort a will out me thinks...can't have him getting his dirty little mitts on the house when i turn me toes up

Edited July 14, 2008 by craftycarper

[Kay 3,709]

doing me bloody head in, even when i don't see him he's giving me grief

 

I know exactly how you feel

[mackem 27,431]

Giving him a clip at this stage of the game is going to solve nowt except make you feel better,I used to get regular beatings,and I mean BEATINGS,as a kid which stopped when I left home at 16 and never went back Always better of talking to your kids,sit him down,tell him just how deep the shit he has walked into is,but tell him you will get out of this together He is your boy at the end of the day,we all make mistakes,its a learning curve,we are supposed to be older and wiser than our boys,we are actually here to guide them,my youngest son once said I was his best friend,thats what its all about,debt can be paid off in time,but theres no credit-limit set on your love for your boy,I hope you work it out CC

[polecat 1]

had the same problem in past but it wasnt any off mine went see about a car and to my horrer my home was blacklisted made enquiers and found out that there was 2 homes in my street that got everyone blacklisted by the post code ??????????? an other question if your lad only work as you said for six weeks how has he managed get a credit rateing i would be asking more questions about how hes managed get this what age is he ?????????????? dont know english laws

[stubby 175]

went through exactly the same mate with my youngest, although they turned up while I was at work and a lodger let them in I panicked and paid them myself £500 only to find out later, they could'ent touch jack $hite, if they are showed "the room of said person" and all thats in there is a bed etc, presume its your name of the rent book

after that he moved out, but I had countless phone calls chasing him for money, I just replied that I didnt have a forwarding address, and there fault for lending him the money,

it never "blacklisted" the house, just him, thankfully now, 5yrs on he's seen the error of his ways, and payed off all the debts to get his credit rating back

[Guest markbrick1]

heres another question......if i have my back door open and they jump the gate to gain entry say....then how would i stand if one of the dogs was in the garden and took a chunk out of one of them, can they climb over a locked back gate to gain entry to an open back door or does the gate have to be unlocked for them to gain entry? sorry i think thats more than one question....

they cant do anything to enter youre house if its not in his name,if hes not on the rent book are land registry details,tell em to feck of but they will put a black tick against the house for any future credit,which you can fight,good luck

[Waz 4,266]

Giving him a clip at this stage of the game is going to solve nowt except make you feel better,I used to get regular beatings,and I mean BEATINGS,as a kid which stopped when I left home at 16 and never went back Always better of talking to your kids,sit him down,tell him just how deep the shit he has walked into is,but tell him you will get out of this together He is your boy at the end of the day,we all make mistakes,its a learning curve,we are supposed to be older and wiser than our boys,we are actually here to guide them,my youngest son once said I was his best friend,thats what its all about,debt can be paid off in time,but theres no credit-limit set on your love for your boy,I hope you work it out CC

 

[TOPPER 1,809]

as markbrick said , give him a good slap then get anything of value that he may have x box etc and put it in the ad trader and sell it keep the money to pay his debts then slap him again and explain the errror of his ways find him a really shit job that includes saturdays and make him keep to it tell him everytime he fcks up he gets a harder slap youll get there in the end

[craftycarper 0]

he still needs a good slap i'm affraid...don't forget he is nearly 19 and this is the kid that if any of you recall from earlier posts that got his friends to keep his great grandmother busy while he raided her savings in the next room....i suppose he does needa sitting down again then ey?...also waiting to hear from the police as his younger brother has just told me his latest scam is bolt cropping mountain bikes from the local train station, the latest of which was £900 worth....he don't listen, does not talk, can't be bothered to work....basically not a care in the world

[fishfish 17]

yep a beware of the dog sign is an admission that you knew you were keeping a dangerous dog.

[T78 4]

put a sign up saying "beware of dogs" not your dogs of course,just dogs in general!!

[Guest buster321c]

Where is all this money being spent ????/

[mackem 27,431]

High Life?Few keys of coke?

[Kay 3,709]

yep a beware of the dog sign is an admission that you knew you were keeping a dangerous dog.

 

Well i have a beware of the dog sign on my gate but i dont think its admitting its dangerious in any way shape or form, would it apply as well if it said beware of the wife

[MR TEA POT 1,287]

yep a beware of the dog sign is an admission that you knew you were keeping a dangerous dog.

 

Well i have a beware of the dog sign on my gate but i dont think its admitting its dangerious in any way shape or form, would it apply as well if it said beware of the wife

 

Just put a sign up saying BE AWARE OF THE DOGS.Thats just saying look out for the dogs when you enter,if the dogs decide to take a chunk out then,just show them the sign and say i told you so.

 

Sounds like your lad could do with a fecking good hiding,being lazy is one thing BUT stealing from your own flesh and blood,who would have probably gave him the money if he had asked,thats a differant kettle of fish.