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[saluki bouy 753]

19 hours ago, THE STIFFMEISTER said:

As the father of a child who wears noise cancelling headphones , I couldn’t say yes or no to anything . I have two kids , both have idiosyncratic traits from the normal regular , existence . I think sadly that both my kids were cursed genetically in a perfect mish mash of me and my wife . 

When you have children who have issues such as an asd condition it’s extremely hard not to reflect on your own faults . For many years , I have been told I see the world in a different way than my friends , as in , I’ll go and do something that they would deem irrelevant and to me it’s the most important thing in the world . I can’t sit start a job until I have a perfectly clear work space , it drives me to distraction . My son also had to have all his toys away etc before he is perfectly happy to start aligning his work force for the day activities . 

autism isn’t a new thing , it’s just more widely supported and accepted . It still has the stigma of “that bad kid in the class “ or “5”the spacker who can’t act properly at the school play” but in all honestly , I wouldn’t change him for the world , life will be tough for my little man , he has the nature that most kids his age can’t deal with , he’s never had a birthday party , or an invite , never mind a friend . But he doesn’t need one . 

how does he like the horses pal? I find them extremely therapeutic I hope he does as well 

[byron 1,190]

12 hours ago, jukel123 said:

Not quite lol. But kids in the fifties had no stress because although  school was a pain (literally)but there were no such things as scary exams or peer pressure or having poorer quality clothes than other kids because everybody was in the same boat. There was nothing to do in the house so you played out from morning till night. There was the baths, the picture house on Saturdays and bombed houses to explore. There were part time jobs and fights to settle differences instead of bitching on Instagram or Tik Tok. You could literally have a scrap and become friends again in seconds. I had no worries whatsoever. Enough grub, lots of friends and a feeling of belonging  to the community. I have 90 odd per cent good memories of my childhood. Teenage years were a very different story.

And..

We had fxck all.but we had everything.

[Borr 6,535]

I was in-between I was spoilt, had radio controlled car, computer stuff , but also had freedom, guns knives , woods to venture out in , my kids it's a different thing , have to think about cars , scumbags , other kids with access to Internet, it's a tight rope bringing up youngins these days..

[mackem 27,789]

On 27/02/2025 at 10:13, jukel123 said:

There's one obvious genetic tweek society could make and that would be to control/ ban fertile matings of cousins.  I 've no problem with cousins having sex but having children is too much of  a risk imo The odds of children being born severely handicapped is greatly increased.. The burden on the children and society and especially the NHS is too great.

The English city where a staggeringly high percentage of women are married to their cousins - and how it can have terrible consequences for their children, as Keir Starmer signals he will BLOCK laws seeking to ban the practice | Daily Mail Online

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[Goly 1,765]

2 minutes ago, mackem said:

The English city where a staggeringly high percentage of women are married to their cousins - and how it can have terrible consequences for their children, as Keir Starmer signals he will BLOCK laws seeking to ban the practice | Daily Mail Online

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The Paki and gypsy community can breathe a sigh of relief.

[jukel123 8,809]

46 minutes ago, mackem said:

The English city where a staggeringly high percentage of women are married to their cousins - and how it can have terrible consequences for their children, as Keir Starmer signals he will BLOCK laws seeking to ban the practice | Daily Mail Online

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Starmer is  weak, weak,weak.

[mackem 27,789]

2 minutes ago, jukel123 said:

Starmer is  weak, weak,weak.

Got to appease the Islamic vote.

[jukel123 8,809]

5 minutes ago, mackem said:

Got to appease the Islamic vote.

And sod the  kids born handicapped because of a medieval practice. Not to mention the unnecessary burden on the parents and the NHS.

[Goly 1,765]

12 minutes ago, jukel123 said:

And sod the  kids born handicapped because of a medieval practice. Not to mention the unnecessary burden on the parents and the NHS.

They should ban it all, along with smoking! Drugs are ok though.

[mC HULL 13,851]

23 minutes ago, jukel123 said:

Starmer is  weak, weak,weak.

typical liberal the few do have a wife get done with a strap on hopefully trump putin put an end to it 

[Goly 1,765]

6 minutes ago, mC HULL said:

typical liberal the few do have a wife get done with a strap on hopefully trump putin put an end to it 

Hypothetical question, should smoking be banned, if not, in what way is it different to cousin marriages from a health perspective? Lol

[mC HULL 13,851]

2 minutes ago, Goly said:

Hypothetical question, should smoking be banned, if not, in what way is it different to cousin marriages from a health perspective? Lol

you can’t be daft enough to need me to tell you ffs lol 

really easy 

i like smoking heroin 

you like smoking heroin and blowing the smoke in a new born baby’s face destroying any chance it had of a normal life 

ones an adult making a choice having the freedom to do that up to him 

the others f***ing up a child’s life 

 

loads a people why keep banging ya cousin strange strange behaviour plus the risks

 

[Goly 1,765]

2 minutes ago, mC HULL said:

you can’t be daft enough to need me to tell you ffs lol 

really easy 

i like smoking heroin 

you like smoking heroin and blowing the smoke in a new born baby’s face destroying any chance it had of a normal life 

ones an adult making a choice having the freedom to do that up to him 

the others f***ing up a child’s life 

 

loads a people why keep banging ya cousin strange strange behaviour plus the risks

 

Ok, so you're saying people with kids should be banned from smoking? How can you police that, like banging your cousin? Lol

[mC HULL 13,851]

10 minutes ago, Goly said:

Ok, so you're saying people with kids should be banned from smoking? How can you police that, like banging your cousin? Lol

i wonder sometimes if your the product of first cousins lol 

[Goly 1,765]

27 minutes ago, mC HULL said:

i wonder sometimes if your the product of first cousins lol 

If you're from Hull you're definitely bred tighter lol.

Medically and morally speaking, both are damaging to unborn babies, so, what's the difference? If we wanted to be objective then both should be banned.

Edited 23 hours ago by Goly