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An ancient woodland that's less than a 15 minute walk from my house even though there is public footpaths through it i wander off them to avoid people. Sat on a log this morning having a coffee out of

Where’s yours? mine is out on the hills alone dogs for company as far away from people as possible 

I like a nice bit of solitude with just a dog or 2 for company and the odd white hare

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3 hours ago, Goly said:

You could get a tonne up Grassington years ago, I've heard off an old man from work that the numbers aren't the same anymore up on the Dales.

More hares round them ways now. malham, grassington, skipton etc no way near the numbers of rabbits used to be but no suprise it got hammered we every man and dog? Ferret, guns birds of prey you name it along we viruses it fukt em and unless you got permissions it’s red hot always as been but gotten daft now 

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On 10/01/2025 at 01:33, gnasher16 said:

All a bit depressing really but ive found this my solemn place of comfort over the last 6 months....i used to be the type who hated being on my own and always wanted people around but now i just cant wait to get to my little bench,sit and just let the hours go by with my 4 legged pal until im falling about pissed and the ol woman has to come and pick us up :laugh: 

Proper sad case im turning into !

 

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You’re old enough and ugly enough to know that’s not the way mate. Don’t let whatever it is eat you up. The drink pretty much killed my old man! After our kid died at 14, he just went off the rails and at it and to hell with what he had to live for! Two sons, two beautiful granddaughters, everything paid off etc ;) 

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Another happy place i have a wander down to now and again as it brings back memories the old man taking me to this spot when I was about 8 years old catching perch with my first fishing and small centre pin reel even though it's changed a bit over the years due to work on the dams and bridge. 

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8 hours ago, mushroom said:

You’re old enough and ugly enough to know that’s not the way mate. Don’t let whatever it is eat you up. The drink pretty much killed my old man! After our kid died at 14, he just went off the rails and at it and to hell with what he had to live for! Two sons, two beautiful granddaughters, everything paid off etc ;) 

Sorry to hear that mate i think we probably all find things out about ourselves through lifes journey,suppose im only just now finding out im not as tough as i thought i was. 

My logic is that having lived a fit healthy life up until recently i can probably get away with going hard at the drink through a particularly bad time.... probably just a weak man making excuses for being a prick but it dont seem all that important anymore truth be told.....ta mate anyway :thumbs:

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1 minute ago, gnasher16 said:

Sorry to hear that mate i think we probably all find things out about ourselves through lifes journey,suppose im only just now finding out im not as tough as i thought i was. 

My logic is that having lived a fit healthy life up until recently i can probably get away with going hard at the drink through a particularly bad time.... probably just a weak man making excuses for being a prick but it dont seem all that important anymore truth be told.....ta mate anyway :thumbs:

You haven’t been! 
A lot of men on here are going/gone through shit! And it stays with us. The one thing my dad couldn’t get, is that focusing on the past is a sure way to the good Lord! He provided everything for me, my brothers, daughters and my mum. One thing stopped him moving on. Talk to somebody you trust and have a cry and let it out ;) 

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3 hours ago, THE STIFFMEISTER said:

Seconded again , I don’t normally particularly pay much interest to that type but I would have something like that ,  Bonny looking jukel 

He's the first Stafford ive ever had and turned out a nice little dog really....years ago i was only ever about the performance of a dog i was no good at bonding with them but am really attached to this little fella he loves a bit of rough and tumble but when he senses im down he'll come and rest his chin on my leg and we'll just " knock about " together for days on end he's a sweet natured loving little chap but a bundle of energy at the right times as well......i probably keep him fitter than he really needs to be but living pretty much in the forest he keeps himself in good nick he's got a good little attitude and is constantly after anything with fur on,surprisingly good turn of speed as well for a heavy set dog....yeah i like him :thumbs:

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3 minutes ago, mushroom said:

You haven’t been! 
A lot of men on here are going/gone through shit! And it stays with us. The one thing my dad couldn’t get, is that focusing on the past is a sure way to the good Lord! He provided everything for me, my brothers, daughters and my mum. One thing stopped him moving on. Talk to somebody you trust and have a cry and let it out ;) 

I was diagnosed yrs back with childhood trauma, PTSD and a deep rooted severe depression. I've been a proper c**t over the years because of the above, to myself and others, and have used drink and other, more exotic substances as a crutch. But the fact is, you have to just let the past go, you cant change it and we only affect our here and now be giving it any time, likewise the future, doesn't exist, when we close our eyes to sleep it's today, when we awake, it's today, we never exist in any other time. Easier said than done, I know from experience, but sit down with your demons, make em a cuppa, give em a biscuit, have a proper chat and get to know them, then tell em to f**k off and get on with your day....

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2 minutes ago, gnasher16 said:

He's the first Stafford ive ever had and turned out a nice little dog really....years ago i was only ever about the performance of a dog i was no good at bonding with them but am really attached to this little fella he loves a bit of rough and tumble but when he senses im down he'll come and rest his chin on my leg and we'll just " knock about " together for days on end he's a sweet natured loving little chap but a bundle of energy at the right times as well......i probably keep him fitter than he really needs to be but living pretty much in the forest he keeps himself in good nick he's got a good little attitude and is constantly after anything with fur on,surprisingly good turn of speed as well for a heavy set dog....yeah i like him :thumbs:

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Aye, this little f****r saves my life at least once a month 😉...

Yokel 

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12 minutes ago, mushroom said:

You haven’t been! 
A lot of men on here are going/gone through shit! And it stays with us. The one thing my dad couldn’t get, is that focusing on the past is a sure way to the good Lord! He provided everything for me, my brothers, daughters and my mum. One thing stopped him moving on. Talk to somebody you trust and have a cry and let it out ;) 

Bless you mate thanks....its just simple grieving of somebody close,a thing i suppose we all have to do at some point im just a big girls blouse.....cheers again,will keep your words in mind.:thumbs:

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14 minutes ago, YOKEL said:

Aye, this little f****r saves my life at least once a month 😉...

Yokel 

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Brilliant !....smart looker as well.

He's probably the first genuine " pet " dog ive ever had its quite an eye opener the rewards you get from the friendship a dog offers i feel like ive either missed out or am really getting old :laugh:

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Just now, gnasher16 said:

Brilliant !....smart looker as well.

He's probably the first genuine " pet " dog ive ever had its quite an eye opener the rewards you get from the friendship a dog offers i feel like ive either missed out or am really getting old :laugh:

Same as that sir, I walked a similar path, re: the dogs, as yourself for a good while. Wouldn't swap this little f****r for twenty of the others nowadays. Just great company and better than any drug for making you feel better....take care fella, and remember, everything moves in circles, better times will come sooner or later....

Yokel 

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