tb25 4,627 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 I fell pretty hard last October time..had 2 take a few week off work..went out and got the help needed...am still wating on the call back lol .I pretty much apsetered my mind tbh...I'll never feel true happiness..kinda just stuck in one place..it is what it is I serpose.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 11 minutes ago, iworkwhippets said: you need to seek help asp mate, you shouldnt spend your days with those thoughts my pm is open to you as a complete stranger, speak to to your doctor, speak to anyone thats willing to listen do it now As said mate I have pretty much just live with it...no doctor can help unless the feed me drugs..and no amount of drugs or talking will help.. It's just a shame I have lost most my relationships due to this shit. Luckily I have a woman who understands me no but shes definitely starting to struggle with it all.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
shaaark 10,706 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 (edited) 12 minutes ago, tb25 said: As said mate I have pretty much just live with it...no doctor can help unless the feed me drugs..and no amount of drugs or talking will help.. It's just a shame I have lost most my relationships due to this shit. Luckily I have a woman who understands me no but shes definitely starting to struggle with it all.. As already said mate, talk to someone ASAP about it. The right people, not just your gp. Even though you feel it's very hard to do. Get your mrs to do it, if you feel it's too much for you to do. It can feel overwhelming, but you'll start feeling a little better as soon as you start talking to the right people. Edited April 16, 2021 by shaaark Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 1 minute ago, shaaark said: As already said mate, talk to someone ASAP about it. The right people, not just your gp. Even though you feel it's very hard to do. Get your mrs to do it, if you feel it's too much for you to do. It can feel overwhelming, but you'll start feeling a little better as soon as you start talking to the right people. It's just the way am made mate..I done it all tbh...a few months back they say I have border line personality disorder..the doctors couldn't give me the tablets he thought I needed..so he put me on to the right people..we spoke..that was a good 5 month back..haven't hurd shit since and tbh I dont think it would help..I just keep on keeping on...am not depressed at all I just have that thought of dieing..I'll get my rod and mutts out soon..I'll be alright but I no what will some after...every time I feel happy I have to me sad..I walk alone..allways have..it just pissers me of sometimes not being totally contemp.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,513 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 18 minutes ago, tb25 said: As said mate I have pretty much just live with it...no doctor can help unless the feed me drugs..and no amount of drugs or talking will help.. It's just a shame I have lost most my relationships due to this shit. Luckily I have a woman who understands me no but shes definitely starting to struggle with it all.. so you dont want to lose the lady you are living with , so seek help its out there Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 1 minute ago, iworkwhippets said: so you dont want to lose the lady you are living with , so seek help its out there The only real thing I think about is my kids mate ..my oldest I'd 15 now..some days I carnt be there for him and that bothers me...dealing with mental health bullshit makes you come across selfish as f**k..but your not.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 Give me abit of this and am cool lol 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FLATTOP 4,388 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 @tb25 mate please get help pester them constantly are you ex forces ? If so help is there my son has gone through this and he was so low showing me Suicide videos and the such we dealt with it, we even gave the psychiatrist a nick name lol. I can happily say he’s now back to his cocky self confident self which is great. Something deep seated is niggling you mate get it sorted please. In case you are ex military here’s a link if not they will put you in touch with the right people. Mental health support for veterans | Combat Stress COMBATSTRESS.ORG.UK We provide specialist treatment and support for veterans from every service and conflict, focusing on those with complex mental health issues. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 10 minutes ago, FLATTOP said: @tb25 mate please get help pester them constantly are you ex forces ? If so help is there my son has gone through this and he was so low showing me Suicide videos and the such we dealt with it, we even gave the psychiatrist a nick name lol. I can happily say he’s now back to his cocky self confident self which is great. Something deep seated is niggling you mate get it sorted please. In case you are ex military here’s a link if not they will put you in touch with the right people. Mental health support for veterans | Combat Stress COMBATSTRESS.ORG.UK We provide specialist treatment and support for veterans from every service and conflict, focusing on those with complex mental health issues. I think am just frustrated mate ..no one can tell me anything I dont allready know...its something I'll live with ...I have so much to offer my famly and frends but unfortunately my mind wonders...am still at the stage were I feel it's a weakness..and probly allways will..I tell myself most days just 2 man up but it's really not as simple as that....I carnt be happy as I no what will come after...so I just keep fighting for a few goles I have... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dytkos 17,784 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 Suicide is the biggest killer of men under 45 in the UK. Scary thought tbh. Cheers, D. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FLATTOP 4,388 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 1 minute ago, tb25 said: I think am just frustrated mate ..no one can tell me anything I dont allready know...its something I'll live with ...I have so much to offer my famly and frends but unfortunately my mind wonders...am still at the stage were I feel it's a weakness..and probly allways will..I tell myself most days just 2 man up but it's really not as simple as that....I carnt be happy as I no what will come after...so I just keep fighting for a few goles I have... The biggest step is admitting there’s an issue and talking about it well you’ve done that by sharing on here that’s not weakness, go all out on the next stage and pursue help not only will you feel better but those around you your kids and lady will feel a great sense of relief. I really do wish you all the best to much has been taken up with the pandemic and other health issues have been pushed aside it’s not right. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jigsaw 11,863 Posted April 16, 2021 Report Share Posted April 16, 2021 tb25.psychiatry has improved in leaps and bounds in the last few years, just because one avenue hasn't been of help, doesn't mean the next one won't and if the next one isn't ,then try another direction, but you will only find it by searching ,it must be so hard for you ,when you have a family ,you deserve happiness as anyone else does ,motivation is diminished with mental health issues ,I do hope you meet the right person /agency that can get to the bottom of your problems, and put you in a better place ...same thing over here happens, people fall through the system and are not treated as they should be ... 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NETS 11 Posted April 30, 2021 Report Share Posted April 30, 2021 On 16/04/2021 at 10:13, tb25 said: Unfortunately I spend most my days wanting to die..I wake up and go to sleep thinking it..it literally is never out my thoughts..I have blamed myself for years wondering why I have this pervtic weakness.... People who kill them selfs must be going though hell to take that step.. you have taken the hardest step admitted there's a problem I'm sure your doctor can point you in the right way goodluck 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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