gnasher16 30,531 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 17 hours ago, BGA said: I never really wondered or cared whether any of my friends were gay growing up, so no. I never had any inkling. are you suspicious of everybody you know? I can see your point but he wasn't lying really. I don't think he knew himself what he wanted. When he was ready he told those closest to him. He never made a big thing of it and neither did we. Because it really isn't a big thing. Not everybody no,most people i couldnt care less.....but lads close to me who ive spent my lifetime getting to know yes i would know for 100% if they was bent....maybe your upbringing was different but when we was young we spent a good chunk of time discussing fanny and sharing experiences i thought most boys did.....then when life got a bit more serious and your settling down/marriage etc theres no way in a million years i wouldnt of known if a close pal was bent.....just no way and thats not macho red blooded male bullshit its just the truth it actually makes me laugh thinking about it. We say all this " it wouldnt change anything " stuff but to me thats absolute bollocks whether its your son your brother or your mate of course it changes things....so yes if i found out a close friend had spent his entire life lying to me about anything....its a big thing. 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
keepdiggin 9,561 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 Got to be honest if a friend or family member came out as gay I'd not look at them the same again tbh 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jetro 5,349 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 Lol Atb j 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 47,921 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 1 hour ago, keepdiggin said: Got to be honest if a friend or family member came out as gay I'd not look at them the same again tbh Frank Doberman is one of my favourite characters of all time ! Lol 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
keepdiggin 9,561 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 7 minutes ago, WILF said: Frank Doberman is one of my favourite characters of all time ! Lol class mate lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BGA 117 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 10 hours ago, king said: They didn't have to tell me or other lads nothing. We were all mad for the fishy finger etc. You could tell who the gays would be by the leather satchel type bag and gay walk. And that was when we were 12/13 yr olds. You must of spent your youth staring at the floor or the clouds or something.. or maybe I was just preoccupied with fishy fingers? In fact why were you so busy trying to work out who was gay and who wasn't? You aren't gay are you? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BGA 117 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 4 hours ago, gnasher16 said: Not everybody no,most people i couldnt care less.....but lads close to me who ive spent my lifetime getting to know yes i would know for 100% if they was bent....maybe your upbringing was different but when we was young we spent a good chunk of time discussing fanny and sharing experiences i thought most boys did.....then when life got a bit more serious and your settling down/marriage etc theres no way in a million years i wouldnt of known if a close pal was bent.....just no way and thats not macho red blooded male bullshit its just the truth it actually makes me laugh thinking about it. We say all this " it wouldnt change anything " stuff but to me thats absolute bollocks whether its your son your brother or your mate of course it changes things....so yes if i found out a close friend had spent his entire life lying to me about anything....its a big thing. Fair enough. I had no reason to think my mate was gay growing up and nor would I have cared either way It wasn't a big thing for me. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,264 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 On a lighter note max has been quiet Quote Link to post Share on other sites
keepdiggin 9,561 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 18 minutes ago, lurcherman 887 said: On a lighter note max has been quiet caught aids with a bit of luck 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,984 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 6 hours ago, downsouth said: Or maybe you've just got a really good gaydar. if you cant spot a gay from a straight lad at any age.then i would question yourself DS... 1 lad is mad keen to ram his fishy finger under your nose and brag like feck. and the gay lad walks around talking to girl's with a satchel and when he run's he flaps his hand's. have you spent your youth staring at the floor or cloud's. i find it hard to believe that you cant spot a gay from a straight lad... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,984 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 1 hour ago, BGA said: or maybe I was just preoccupied with fishy fingers? In fact why were you so busy trying to work out who was gay and who wasn't? You aren't gay are you? listen you surely aint this fecking stupid.or are you having a joke or something. i was only interested in tit's and fanny's. and the lad's who had a queer look about them around girls.stood out a mile.. i wasn't interested in trying to work out who was who.i just wanted fanny and tit's.. im quite sure by your reply's. that you like some male bumolio.. when i was in school we didnt talk about o levels or homework. we talked about girls.. you weren't preoccupied with fishy finger's i bet you were preoccupied with boy's bum's... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,984 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 1 hour ago, BGA said: Fair enough. I had no reason to think my mate was gay growing up and nor would I have cared either way It wasn't a big thing for me. what untill he bummed you....did you realise then.... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 30,531 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 Anyway........be interested to see this Barrymore thing on telly at 9,a good pal of mine lived a few hundred yards from the house that all happened at and has some interesting thoughts about what went on. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BGA 117 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 18 minutes ago, king said: listen you surely aint this fecking stupid.or are you having a joke or something. i was only interested in tit's and fanny's. and the lad's who had a queer look about them around girls.stood out a mile.. i wasn't interested in trying to work out who was who.i just wanted fanny and tit's.. im quite sure by your reply's. that you like some male bumolio.. when i was in school we didnt talk about o levels or homework. we talked about girls.. you weren't preoccupied with fishy finger's i bet you were preoccupied with boy's bum's... haha. Take it easy. My last message was my attempt at a joke. It didn't come off. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BGA 117 Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 26 minutes ago, king said: what untill he bummed you....did you realise then.... I just thought he had tired legs and was trying to get a piggyback. A naked sweaty piggyback. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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