dytkos 17,804 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 Keith, it's fecking hard mate but don't do owt daft 116123 that's the Samiritans number, if you've no one you can talk to, ring them, really! Ring me if you want, I'm no counsellor but I'll do what I can, pm incoming, D. 8 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bell 3,605 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 I’m sure a few of the lads local to you would come to the funeral to support you mate. Where about are you Keith ?...anywhere near the Dales and I for one would come along if you thought it would help. She wouldn’t of wanted you talking like this mate that is for sure......lost my old man 12 month ago in same circumstances and like lots of folk on here it’s right time does heal, you don’t forget mate you just find a different mindset to deal with it. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,620 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 her daughter Karen, she new her m mum was dying she hasn't been to this house in over 5 weeks now never texts to see how we are, her granddaughter georgina its been over a year now since she has been to visit, it was ruths birthday last may, no card or f**k all for ruths birthday, how that poor lady must have felt, I felt for her,i took ruths rings of her finger cos the was swelling up, her dying wishes were give em Karen her daughter that's the kind of lady ruthy was even though she had turned her back on her mum, she still considered her daughter Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,620 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 nobody can help me dytkos you must know all of you it makes sense, but you wont say it its of great comfort to me knowing there is a way out Quote Link to post Share on other sites
samuria 331 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 try and relax a bit, think of the good times you and ruth had together. would she want to hear of you doing something daft!!!!!!! NO. NO. NO. as for her daughter words can not explain... please for ruth's sake do ring a mate or someone now... and talk this through mate. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jukel123 8,295 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 Let your mind clear, get the funeral over. Family members do disappear at times like these. They don't want to face up to things. I wouldn't fall out with them. It's not worth it. Try to stay calm. Phone the Samaritans. Maybe think of seeing the doctor. Don't make any decisions when your mind is like this. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,620 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 see a doctor you say jukel, on the day of her death I was down at the doctors at 7 50 am, she was in that much distress, never saw a doctor that day, they sent out the district nurse instead, than duggie mack came, duggie mack are visiting me today Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,620 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 never in a million years did I ever envisage such kind and thoughtfulness from the hunting life and I cant thank you all enough what id like you all to do for me now, is live your lives to the full, go hug your husbands wives , please do not think of me as an attention seeker, i just need to offload my thoughts somewhere whatever i have written here is the truth, i will never lie to you nobody can help me, ruths passing has brought many memories of my families ruth cannot be brought back, end of, im not about to do anything daft, i struggled with her for 2 years, the last year horrendous i still have to honour her yet cant turn my back on her now can i, 7 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Arry 22,093 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 1 hour ago, iworkwhippets said: nobody can help me dytkos you must know all of you it makes sense, but you wont say it its of great comfort to me knowing there is a way out Mate I don't know you, but stand proud and think what she would want you to do. I know there's a hole in your heart right now but I can tell you there is light at the end of the tunnel. Think of her imagine what she would tell you to do. Do as she would want to do and that would not be something silly. I've been in that dark place Keith the are better time to come. PM if you want to talk mate. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,620 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 macmillan are coming to see me this morning, I did post the fact earlier thanks 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,185 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 A loner he says lol hes got loads of mates by the looks of things 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 47,245 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 Iworkwhippets, do you have any family ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,620 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 mum dead dad dead sister dead brother dead, Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 47,245 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 8 minutes ago, iworkwhippets said: mum dead dad dead sister dead brother dead, Nephews, nieces or anything like that ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,620 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 got duggie mac with me at the moment wilf sorting my finances out, I have nobody except ruths daughter and granddaughter read my topic they have never been near I texted ruths daughter informing her of her mums death as of yet no reply Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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