Community spirit and neighbourhoods?

[Greyman 28,440]

15 hours ago, vin said:

My wife phoned me tonight just after I had got to work... and cries down the phone that the dogs were barking so she's looked outside to see an Asian man ( Pakistani type) coming up our driveway (private through the gates etc ) and taunting the dogs etc. 

So when she went out he started mouthing off at her and asking very sexual type questions and how long has she lived there an the likes. . . . by now she is very scared and keeps telling him to get off our property. Fortunately, one of my neighbors heard the commotion and shouted over the fence for him to Fekk off.... which he did. My wife then shut the main gates at the front of the house etc and called me in tears. . . She's worried it might be repercussions from when I was beaten up whilst working for our local council a couple of years ago. (one of the gang was imprisoned for a few months for assault etc )

So she calls the police obviously. . . You cannot deal with the Gangs here on your own as we all know... The local police were very unhelpful, to be honest, and more or less fobbed her off. . . .  unfortunately, the b*****d came back a further 3 times and was kicking the gates shouting at my son in the house ( shitting himself in the house 18 years old Xbox generation ) saying tell yer mother I want her etc etc.. Ffsake. . . . . I'm at work having kittens and my wife's a bit distressed by now... So I phone the police and I get fobbed off because it's not an emergency...lol.  This all happened around 7.30pm and after 3 phone calls from my wife and 1 from myself, a car came round with 2 plod at 9.30pm shining their torches down our drive and looking around the adjoining driveways. Obviously, He had disappeared by the time they showed up.

I'm really worried about tomorrow, to be honest. . . . . I can't decide trainers or work boots. 

 

 

Distressing as this sounds mate, you need to get your priority,s in order, I,m lucky my son is an animal and would have destroyed the said intruder, but if your misses or kids phone you in this situation you need to drop what your doing and get over there and sort it out, no job in the world is worth more than your family, sorry to piss on your fire but ffs man it's your misses and kid, you can get another job but your family can never be replaced, sorry again I do feel for you but I,d loose a thousand jobs over my family, really hope it's a one off and life returns to normal for you

[peterhunter86 8,627]

19 minutes ago, Greyman said:

Distressing as this sounds mate, you need to get your priority,s in order, I,m lucky my son is an animal and would have destroyed the said intruder, but if your misses or kids phone you in this situation you need to drop what your doing and get over there and sort it out, no job in the world is worth more than your family, sorry to piss on your fire but ffs man it's your misses and kid, you can get another job but your family can never be replaced, sorry again I do feel for you but I,d loose a thousand jobs over my family, really hope it's a one off and life returns to normal for you

That's what I was thinking, protect your family at all cost, you might of seen the reply I put up about the fella saying he'd burn the house with the kids inside, that fella was stupid enough to do it if he had a few drinks or what ever else he took and I remember when I was waiting for him to leave his house a few thoughts went through my mind, like what if I hurt him bad or kill I could get locked up for a long time or it could go his way and I could get killed,but I excepted any of them things could happen and done what needed to be done and made sure couldn't carry out his threat

[Guest vin]

46 minutes ago, Greyman said:

Distressing as this sounds mate, you need to get your priority,s in order, I,m lucky my son is an animal and would have destroyed the said intruder, but if your misses or kids phone you in this situation you need to drop what your doing and get over there and sort it out, no job in the world is worth more than your family, sorry to piss on your fire but ffs man it's your misses and kid, you can get another job but your family can never be replaced, sorry again I do feel for you but I,d loose a thousand jobs over my family, really hope it's a one off and life returns to normal for you

Don't for one minute think I would leave my missis and kid while earning a couple of quid mate. I had 2 neighbors and a couple of my mates around the corner on standby ( big lads)  My dad lives around the corner and my brother a minute or 2 away. . . . my dad is a landlord to the less unfortunate types in the town... he could have a van full of bag heads around my house in 2 mins flat. We have back up if we need it... But shouldn't need it. . . . I've never asked for anyone to do what I wouldn't do myself. 

It turns out the fella is mentally Ill and thinks his girlfriend lives at our house. . . .   So it does appear to be a one-off.

If I acted like half the suggestions on here .. I would now be doing time.  He is very lucky I missed him twice and I am very lucky I missed him. I had lost the plot at this point so I can only thank god that it all ended without too much pain. 

I have 2 sets of locked gates..cameras.alarms .motion detectors and dogs. I think the only thing extra I could do would be to hire Max and Paddy for the front gates on 24-hour guard duty...lol

My Priority is and has always been my family. 

But After 20 years at my little home its now time to move out of the area. 

 

 

[socks 32,253]

Fukcing elderly next door neighbour was trimming his hedge last week and cut the head off one of my roses ... fukcing b*****d ... and the farm up the road won't keep the cows quiet ... fukcing nightmare living here it's like the bronx ........ 

[waltjnr 6,771]

39 minutes ago, socks said:

Fukcing elderly next door neighbour was trimming his hedge last week and cut the head off one of my roses ... fukcing b*****d ... and the farm up the road won't keep the cows quiet ... fukcing nightmare living here it's like the bronx ........ 

Feel your pain mate, stay strong! 

[dytkos 17,793]

5 hours ago, socks said:

Your well within your rights to protect yourself if an intruder is on your property ... especially when the police  arrive and find he has a big screwdriver in his neck that he was threatening to kill you with

Fixed that for you mate.

Cheers, D.

[ChrisJones 7,975]

8 hours ago, vin said:

Tell you what mate.... he was getting the softly softly while the other officer is threatening me. 

It's a fekking joke. . . . When he came into my house and started telling my wife about the fellas mental issues.. I told him about our mental issues with fekkers like that coming over my gates and threatening my life. . . . They don't want to know mate. 

Its lucky we're not on the local news this morning with a murder or serious injury on our hands.

That's completely arse about face that. This end you get to punch his clock and the local LE will probably shake your hand for doing it.

Hope you get it sorted.

[twobob 1,497]

2 hours ago, vin said:

Don't for one minute think I would leave my missis and kid while earning a couple of quid mate. I had 2 neighbors and a couple of my mates around the corner on standby ( big lads)  My dad lives around the corner and my brother a minute or 2 away. . . . my dad is a landlord to the less unfortunate types in the town... he could have a van full of bag heads around my house in 2 mins flat. We have back up if we need it... But shouldn't need it. . . . I've never asked for anyone to do what I wouldn't do myself. 

It turns out the fella is mentally Ill and thinks his girlfriend lives at our house. . . .   So it does appear to be a one-off.

If I acted like half the suggestions on here .. I would now be doing time.  He is very lucky I missed him twice and I am very lucky I missed him. I had lost the plot at this point so I can only thank god that it all ended without too much pain. 

I have 2 sets of locked gates..cameras.alarms .motion detectors and dogs. I think the only thing extra I could do would be to hire Max and Paddy for the front gates on 24-hour guard duty...lol

My Priority is and has always been my family. 

But After 20 years at my little home its now time to move out of the area. 

 

 

Agree with most of what you've said till you get to the last bit that's why they do what they want they move in and the normal people move out I live in Halifax probably 30 houses in are street white lad next door white lass other side white couple opposite the rest are different  not from Halifax  myself when I go back to Castleford it's like being in England again

[Daniel cain 45,382]

2 hours ago, vin said:

Don't for one minute think I would leave my missis and kid while earning a couple of quid mate. I had 2 neighbors and a couple of my mates around the corner on standby ( big lads)  My dad lives around the corner and my brother a minute or 2 away. . . . my dad is a landlord to the less unfortunate types in the town... he could have a van full of bag heads around my house in 2 mins flat. We have back up if we need it... But shouldn't need it. . . . I've never asked for anyone to do what I wouldn't do myself. 

It turns out the fella is mentally Ill and thinks his girlfriend lives at our house. . . .   So it does appear to be a one-off.

If I acted like half the suggestions on here .. I would now be doing time.  He is very lucky I missed him twice and I am very lucky I missed him. I had lost the plot at this point so I can only thank god that it all ended without too much pain. 

I have 2 sets of locked gates..cameras.alarms .motion detectors and dogs. I think the only thing extra I could do would be to hire Max and Paddy for the front gates on 24-hour guard duty...lol

My Priority is and has always been my family. 

But After 20 years at my little home its now time to move out of the area. 

 

 

No need for that mate, its your home, hopefully this is the end of it