Jonjon79 13,358 Posted July 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 2, 2017 Who's wife is she again? Finally... Through work, I've come to know her and her husband well - they're both good 'uns ..... I was looking for some other opinions to counter my own pig headedness. ..... All opinions appreciated Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jonjon79 13,358 Posted July 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 2, 2017 In that case just stay sober, grit your teeth and go home at the end of the night lol That's very similar to Walshies advice I'm thinking that the best thing may be to f**k off when they start getting tipsy - before his gob has a chance to start Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nik_B 3,790 Posted July 2, 2017 Report Share Posted July 2, 2017 Who's wife is she again? Finally... Through work, I've come to know her and her husband well - they're both good 'uns ..... I was looking for some other opinions to counter my own pig headedness. ..... All opinions appreciated No worries no one has a clue about the actual situation, I personally would find it weird that my missus should be going out on a lads night out. It sounds like she feels comfortable in your company but to invite someone who sounds like a dickhead who is full of themselves seems dangerous yet she thinks he is OK sets my alarm bells off...what does the husband think? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jonjon79 13,358 Posted July 2, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 2, 2017 Who's wife is she again? Finally... Through work, I've come to know her and her husband well - they're both good 'uns ..... I was looking for some other opinions to counter my own pig headedness. ..... All opinions appreciated No worries no one has a clue about the actual situation, I personally would find it weird that my missus should be going out on a lads night out. It sounds like she feels comfortable in your company but to invite someone who sounds like a dickhead who is full of themselves seems dangerous yet she thinks he is OK sets my alarm bells off...what does the husband think? That's thing - he's not dangerous like that. Besides, I honestly don't think she'd entertain it. He's just a little c**t that gets on a lot of people's nerves. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nik_B 3,790 Posted July 2, 2017 Report Share Posted July 2, 2017 Who's wife is she again? Finally... Through work, I've come to know her and her husband well - they're both good 'uns ..... I was looking for some other opinions to counter my own pig headedness. ..... All opinions appreciated No worries no one has a clue about the actual situation, I personally would find it weird that my missus should be going out on a lads night out. It sounds like she feels comfortable in your company but to invite someone who sounds like a dickhead who is full of themselves seems dangerous yet she thinks he is OK sets my alarm bells off...what does the husband think? That's thing - he's not dangerous like that. Besides, I honestly don't think she'd entertain it. He's just a little c**t that gets on a lot of people's nerves. So....set him up with shots and spiked drinks to the point he makes a total arse out of himself You have to play the long game with people like that ha ha! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted July 2, 2017 Report Share Posted July 2, 2017 Fukc sake it's quite simple ... you all go out have a drink and have a good time ... if the knobhead pushes your buttons he gets a slap goes home to lick his wounds whilst the rest of you carry on having a good night out ........ 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dytkos 17,802 Posted July 3, 2017 Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 Have a word with the lass and tell her your concerns, then agree and do what she wants, keep your hands in your pockets, its supposed to be a fun night out ffs Cheers, D. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
max_wood 161 Posted July 3, 2017 Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 I've got a similar problem except the bloke I can't stand is a brother in law so have to see him fairly regularly. Fake fake fake mate.fake smile fake chat.chat to everyone else as much as possible.but inside I'm having dark thoughts.Mrs knows how I feel but it's not worth causing a family civil war 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Qbgrey 4,097 Posted July 3, 2017 Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 get her husband to sort out lift home,or he could come in and flatten the office wally,if no,get him slaughtered and make him look like a real dick. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Neobliviscaris1776 1,998 Posted July 3, 2017 Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 Sort what out? If I was the husband and seen this thread, I would be more worried about you. You seem sincere and concerned, but just like institutions of the state that like to concern themselves in people's private lives and invariably always make things worse, your getting concerned about something that has absolutely nothing to do with you. She's married isn't she, your doing a Jeremy Kyle.... 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jonjon79 13,358 Posted July 3, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 Fukc sake it's quite simple ... you all go out have a drink and have a good time ... if the knobhead pushes your buttons he gets a slap goes home to lick his wounds whilst the rest of you carry on having a good night out ........ If only it were that simple - I'd have done it months ago at work Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jonjon79 13,358 Posted July 3, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 Have a word with the lass and tell her your concerns, then agree and do what she wants, keep your hands in your pockets, its supposed to be a fun night out ffs Cheers, D. I'm not going to tell her that I think one of her friends is an aggravating prick. .... like I said, she deserves a good night out. I'm thinking, I'll go along, get a couple of rounds in, then politely make my excuses and bugger off Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jonjon79 13,358 Posted July 3, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 I've got a similar problem except the bloke I can't stand is a brother in law so have to see him fairly regularly. Fake fake fake mate.fake smile fake chat.chat to everyone else as much as possible.but inside I'm having dark thoughts.Mrs knows how I feel but it's not worth causing a family civil war Feckin people eh This one's a bit tricky because I'm in a position of responsibility at work. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jonjon79 13,358 Posted July 3, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 get her husband to sort out lift home,or he could come in and flatten the office wally,if no,get him slaughtered and make him look like a real dick. I reckon he'll probably manage that all by himself - I just don't want to be there when he reaches that point. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jonjon79 13,358 Posted July 3, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2017 Sort what out? If I was the husband and seen this thread, I would be more worried about you. You seem sincere and concerned, but just like institutions of the state that like to concern themselves in people's private lives and invariably always make things worse, your getting concerned about something that has absolutely nothing to do with you. She's married isn't she, your doing a Jeremy Kyle.... There's nothing to be concerned about - it's simple ..... The girl works for me, she's a good worker and a nice person. Me and my missus know her and her husband, through work. She hasn't been out for a very long time and, wants to go out with her colleagues to celebrate her 30th. I don't want to let her down by not turning up and, I don't want to ruin her night by lumping the company brown nose while we're out. Like I said ..... I'll get the first couple of rounds in, then feck off Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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