Miss Lynn 160 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 I honestly think you won't cheat on the right person. If someone loves you and trusts you the least you can do is tell him/her it's over before playing away. It's all down to respect and morals imho x Spot on Jo ! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 30,592 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 If most of you cant be trusted to stay true to your birds-then I couldn't trust you with a dog or to keep your mouths shut if shit hit the fan.What a bizarre outlook......so if your mate tells you is having an affair you wouldnt trust him not to turn qe on you or nick your dog ?....... yet if he is having an affair but hasnt told you about it he,s staunch and solid ? ....... ive got pals who have been absolute c**ts in loads of areas of life except where it matters and thats why they will always be my pals.....stone me i cant believe how snobby some folk are even to their own mates !nothing to do with being snobby gnash-I have my own moral code that I follow-if it don't sit well with me what others do then I will distance myself from them-watched friends and family members cheat and never ends good-atb dc Thats fair enough your entitled to your own set of morals mate.....but you cant force them onto others it just tickled me when you said you wouldnt trust your mate if the shit hit the fan.....for me whether a pal is faithful to his bird or not is totally irrelevant and just not a quality ive ever looked for in my fellow man. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
JDHUNTING 1,817 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 If most of you cant be trusted to stay true to your birds-then I couldn't trust you with a dog or to keep your mouths shut if shit hit the fan.What a bizarre outlook......so if your mate tells you is having an affair you wouldnt trust him not to turn qe on you or nick your dog ?....... yet if he is having an affair but hasnt told you about it he,s staunch and solid ? ....... ive got pals who have been absolute c**ts in loads of areas of life except where it matters and thats why they will always be my pals.....stone me i cant believe how snobby some folk are even to their own mates !nothing to do with being snobby gnash-I have my own moral code that I follow-if it don't sit well with me what others do then I will distance myself from them-watched friends and family members cheat and never ends good-atb dc Thats fair enough your entitled to your own set of morals mate.....but you cant force them onto others it just tickled me when you said you wouldnt trust your mate if the shit hit the fan.....for me whether a pal is faithful to his bird or not is totally irrelevant and just not a quality ive ever looked for in my fellow man. I don't know if it's what DC is getting at but the lads i know that are sticking it in every hole they can behind there missus backs are the last people I'd trust, the lads i know like that are all selfish, devious and no morals so long as they're ok and all of them feel hard done to when caught and find a way to justify it to themselves. So yes given a choice I'd trust the bloke who won't put his morals to one side for a shag as I'd think there less likely to put them aside for summat else. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Francie 6,368 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 Your right king only a fool would do such things to there wife an kids. joseph must of felt a right cnut when god put mary up the poll. Is it worth it really pete, destroying your family, getting turfed outa house, setting a very bad example for your children, i mean what kind of dad would you be if you done it, im not judging anyone else, this is jmo, i would never let my children down like this, all for a jump, my family an my kids future means a hell of a lot more than a f***ing ride of a slapper. Who said anything about a ride off a slapper the title says having an affair not having a bunk up............no of course its not worth it nobody sets out to destroy their own family but things happen,people change,situations change......people fall in love elsewhere it happens it doesnt make you a bad father. Sorry gnash that wasnt aimed at you pal. Imo if things dont work out, why not tell the missus, an finish it, instead of going out an meeting another woman behind her back or kids back. Things dont work out i get that, but thats not an excuse for an affair, instead imo the relationship should be finished then crack on. The way i see it if you have an affair, your letting your kids down an telling your son or daughter that its ok to do the same. Your bringing hurt an pain to mother of your children therefore your hurting your children, cause thats there mum, an i feel that your children will not look at you right again, its hard for me to explain. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Greyman 29,747 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 I was with my ex for 9 years, messed about with numerous other women & honestly never contemplated marriage or kids for a second. Got together with my wife & married within 5 months, with 2 beautiful children to follow soon afterwards..... I know I'm incredibly lucky to have what I've got, it doesn't get any better for me. So any messing around now is strictly with my right hand....;-) try your left hand and just pretend it's someone else 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 30,592 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 I don't know if it's what DC is getting at but the lads i know that are sticking it in every hole they can behind there missus backs are the last people I'd trust, the lads i know like that are all selfish, devious and no morals so long as they're ok and all of them feel hard done to when caught and find a way to justify it to themselves. So yes given a choice I'd trust the bloke who won't put his morals to one side for a shag as I'd think there less likely to put them aside for summat else. I just dont see it like that ive had pals over the years who have been greedy regarding women but who have absolutely come to the front and proved loyalty beyond doubt in other situations i just cant relate one to the other......but i still say you cant really compare sleeping around to having an affair. Sorry gnash that wasnt aimed at you pal. Imo if things dont work out, why not tell the missus, an finish it, instead of going out an meeting another woman behind her back or kids back. Things dont work out i get that, but thats not an excuse for an affair, instead imo the relationship should be finished then crack on. The way i see it if you have an affair, your letting your kids down an telling your son or daughter that its ok to do the same. Your bringing hurt an pain to mother of your children therefore your hurting your children, cause thats there mum, an i feel that your children will not look at you right again, its hard for me to explain. No i know mate its ok ....its life some people are greedy by nature and yes everything you say is theoretically right and proper......but again we can all be wise with experience of life. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 13,407 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 Gnasher isn't talking about being in the position of not being happy. He's talking about some sort ,offering a taste and not being able to say no to the wee morsel infront of him Gnash is just a greedy cnut Quote Link to post Share on other sites
micky 3,325 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 Just be quiet about it if you get caught just buy them a new car or build em a new house Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Accip74 7,112 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 I was recently told about a lad who's been having an affair for 8 years! & recently started another with a separate women, but remains adamant he loves his wife & will never leave her? I found that pretty mind blowing........ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
green lurchers 16,893 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 that 3 inch gash is the ruin of many a good man 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 13,407 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 that 3 inch gash is the ruin of many a good man 3" gash You must be shagging my leftovers mate 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 30,592 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 Gnasher isn't talking about being in the position of not being happy. He's talking about some sort ,offering a taste and not being able to say no to the wee morsel infront of him Gnash is just a greedy cnut I prefer to call it ambitious......i mean who wants to end where they started right Quote Link to post Share on other sites
downsouth 7,772 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 I've known a few lads that have messed about on many occasions who acted like the most hard done by prats on earth when the tables were turned in fact two of the worst culprits for shagging around one hung himself and a the other tried to top himself after their wives had enough and f****d them off for another fella. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 Something about you Nash..Lol... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 13,407 Posted March 27, 2017 Report Share Posted March 27, 2017 Something about you Nash..Lol...Need i mention you, you dirty bugger Next conquest was it mate? ??? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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