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I have never known a "it' me or the dogs" to have a happy ending. It is never really about the dogs, if she loved you she would never have a problem helping with something truly important to you. I'm

If that was me it would be the beginning of the end for my relationship as I would either pick the dogs in the first place or if i didn't and got rid of the dogs that would drive a wedge between me an

Brilliant cook me. Pheasant and rabbit pie my speciality. Seriously though, I find it so sad when what is one partner's reason for living is treated like a vice by the other, and although I don't l

Would it not be worth trying to get a job closer to home? To be fair my lass has no problem with the dogs but I wouldnt expect her to look after them for two weeks at a time aswell as the kids.

spot on , ok regards the job you have to take what.where it is, more so if it well paid .But regards the dogs , my wife would never put her self in way that she got to look after the dogs (never).Ive been married 34 years, got a son 30 , my wife attitude is there your hobby, you knew this when you had the dogs, so look after them your self , and being honest she right really. there outside in kennel+ run , there not house dogs she doesnt want a dog in the house , so why should my wife want to be involved with them.In Fact this last 8 -9 years ive struggled with my dogs, just walking/ feeding them , as ive got a on going lower back prob thats getting worse as ive got older, and many time ive hobbled along just about walking them. :yes: i know that if didnt make the effort and believe me ive had to dig deep when the pain that bad, i know if i didnt i have to put the dogs down . we should deff start as we mean to go on , there our hobby our dogs so we should look after them our selves, not our wives or anybody else :yes: .

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Would it not be worth trying to get a job closer to home? To be fair my lass has no problem with the dogs but I wouldnt expect her to look after them for two weeks at a time aswell as the kids.

 

spot on , ok regards the job you have to take what.where it is, more so if it well paid .But regards the dogs , my wife would never put her self in way that she got to look after the dogs (never).Ive been married 34 years, got a son 30 , my wife attitude is there your hobby, you knew this when you had the dogs, so look after them your self , and being honest she right really. there outside in kennel+ run , there not house dogs she doesnt want a dog in the house , so why should my wife want to be involved with them.In Fact this last 8 -9 years ive struggled with my dogs, just walking/ feeding them , as ive got a on going lower back prob thats getting worse as ive got older, and many time ive hobbled along just about walking them. :yes: i know that if didnt make the effort and believe me ive had to dig deep when the pain that bad, i know if i didnt i have to put the dogs down . we should deff start as we mean to go on , there our hobby our dogs so we should look after them our selves, not our wives or anybody else :yes: .

By the same token, the lads not working offshore for the good of his health, hes doing it for the sake of making a good life for his family. Dont know his mrs. circumstances re work etc but if she cant understand his motives for wanting her to do the dogs while hes away, perhaps he wants to f**k her off as well imo

 

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It's life choices IMO. You choose the life of working away for good money BUT you see less of your family and dogs plus put more pressure on the Mrs. Or you work in a lesser paid job and are home every night, don't havto rely on anyone to look after the dogs and put less strain on your relationship. It's your own personal choice.

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It's life choices IMO. You choose the life of working away for good money BUT you see less of your family and dogs plus put more pressure on the Mrs. Or you work in a lesser paid job and are home every night, don't havto rely on anyone to look after the dogs and put less strain on your relationship. It's your own personal choice.

 

i suppose ive been lucky , in that i had good job at local brewery days 38 hours a week, and not bad wage, and my wife always been a working wife , she was a manger in adult education , and good wage. she only had bit of time off with my son when he was baby . And we all ways done our own things that never affected each other , her's was and still painting , and mine was working lurchers , but as said dont much now as my bad back as stopped me. But thats me, we all different in our relationship's :yes:

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Would it not be worth trying to get a job closer to home? To be fair my lass has no problem with the dogs but I wouldnt expect her to look after them for two weeks at a time aswell as the kids.

 

spot on , ok regards the job you have to take what.where it is, more so if it well paid .But regards the dogs , my wife would never put her self in way that she got to look after the dogs (never).Ive been married 34 years, got a son 30 , my wife attitude is there your hobby, you knew this when you had the dogs, so look after them your self , and being honest she right really. there outside in kennel+ run , there not house dogs she doesnt want a dog in the house , so why should my wife want to be involved with them.In Fact this last 8 -9 years ive struggled with my dogs, just walking/ feeding them , as ive got a on going lower back prob thats getting worse as ive got older, and many time ive hobbled along just about walking them. :yes: i know that if didnt make the effort and believe me ive had to dig deep when the pain that bad, i know if i didnt i have to put the dogs down . we should deff start as we mean to go on , there our hobby our dogs so we should look after them our selves, not our wives or anybody else :yes: .
By the same token, the lads not working offshore for the good of his health, hes doing it for the sake of making a good life for his family. Dont know his mrs. circumstances re work etc but if she cant understand his motives for wanting her to do the dogs while hes away, perhaps he wants to f**k her off as well imo

 

Cheers, D.

if your working away so much you shouldn't have dogs... and why would his wife look after the dogs if she has no interest in them it's just a bug bare for her... likes been said there his dogs and he should look after them. For me he has made the right decision in re homing the dog. We can't all have wife's like penny Taylor can we
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Would it not be worth trying to get a job closer to home? To be fair my lass has no problem with the dogs but I wouldnt expect her to look after them for two weeks at a time aswell as the kids.

spot on , ok regards the job you have to take what.where it is, more so if it well paid .But regards the dogs , my wife would never put her self in way that she got to look after the dogs (never).Ive been married 34 years, got a son 30 , my wife attitude is there your hobby, you knew this when you had the dogs, so look after them your self , and being honest she right really. there outside in kennel+ run , there not house dogs she doesnt want a dog in the house , so why should my wife want to be involved with them.In Fact this last 8 -9 years ive struggled with my dogs, just walking/ feeding them , as ive got a on going lower back prob thats getting worse as ive got older, and many time ive hobbled along just about walking them. :yes: i know that if didnt make the effort and believe me ive had to dig deep when the pain that bad, i know if i didnt i have to put the dogs down . we should deff start as we mean to go on , there our hobby our dogs so we should look after them our selves, not our wives or anybody else :yes: .
By the same token, the lads not working offshore for the good of his health, hes doing it for the sake of making a good life for his family. Dont know his mrs. circumstances re work etc but if she cant understand his motives for wanting her to do the dogs while hes away, perhaps he wants to f**k her off as well imo

Cheers, D.

if your working away so much you shouldn't have dogs... and why would his wife look after the dogs if she has no interest in them it's just a bug bare for her... likes been said there his dogs and he should look after them. For me he has made the right decision in re homing the dog. We can't all have wife's like penny Taylor can we

Sorry I disagree, if you have dogs they are part and parcel of everyday life, just like having kids, cooking, cleaning, gardening, home maintenance etc etc, if its a partnership, both partners should do what needs to be done to keep the equilibrium, I was a house husband for a couple of months, piece of piss lol

 

Cheers, D.

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Would it not be worth trying to get a job closer to home? To be fair my lass has no problem with the dogs but I wouldnt expect her to look after them for two weeks at a time aswell as the kids.

spot on , ok regards the job you have to take what.where it is, more so if it well paid .But regards the dogs , my wife would never put her self in way that she got to look after the dogs (never).Ive been married 34 years, got a son 30 , my wife attitude is there your hobby, you knew this when you had the dogs, so look after them your self , and being honest she right really. there outside in kennel+ run , there not house dogs she doesnt want a dog in the house , so why should my wife want to be involved with them.In Fact this last 8 -9 years ive struggled with my dogs, just walking/ feeding them , as ive got a on going lower back prob thats getting worse as ive got older, and many time ive hobbled along just about walking them. :yes: i know that if didnt make the effort and believe me ive had to dig deep when the pain that bad, i know if i didnt i have to put the dogs down . we should deff start as we mean to go on , there our hobby our dogs so we should look after them our selves, not our wives or anybody else :yes: .
By the same token, the lads not working offshore for the good of his health, hes doing it for the sake of making a good life for his family. Dont know his mrs. circumstances re work etc but if she cant understand his motives for wanting her to do the dogs while hes away, perhaps he wants to f**k her off as well imo

Cheers, D.

if your working away so much you shouldn't have dogs... and why would his wife look after the dogs if she has no interest in them it's just a bug bare for her... likes been said there his dogs and he should look after them. For me he has made the right decision in re homing the dog. We can't all have wife's like penny Taylor can we
Sorry I disagree, if you have dogs they are part and parcel of everyday life, just like having kids, cooking, cleaning, gardening, home maintenance etc etc, if its a partnership, both partners should do what needs to be done to keep the equilibrium, I was a house husband for a couple of months, piece of piss lol

 

Cheers, D.

I look after baby for a night and I'm done in... give me dogs anytime
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I had my 3 under 7 so mrs could go on a girly holiday in the summer-longest week of me life lol-only joking-I've chased the coin in the past worked away for years and let my dogs go-biggest mistake I've ever made-long old time to get back on my feet.he's done right by the dog let it be.atb dc

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I had my 3 under 7 so mrs could go on a girly holiday in the summer-longest week of me life lol-only joking-I've chased the coin in the past worked away for years and let my dogs go-biggest mistake I've ever made-long old time to get back on my feet.he's done right by the dog let it be.atb dc

Fair shout mate but Ive been there.

 

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In an ideal world we could all have a Penny Taylor lol, wonder what's she like at cooking?? (Only joking Penny)

Brilliant cook me. :laugh: Pheasant and rabbit pie my speciality. :angel:

Seriously though, I find it so sad when what is one partner's reason for living is treated like a vice by the other, and although I don't like to disrespect the sisterhood, that other is so often 'er indoors'. What is it with some women, who marry a man who lives and breathes hunting with dogs, and yet won't lend a hand with the mutts when he's working away for the sake of the whole family. Mind you, I once married a man who didn't like dogs, so I can't really talk. :icon_redface: Not that the relationship lasted very long, once I'd realised my grievous mistake. We spend our youth making mistakes, so that, hopefully, we can end our lives peacefully coexisting with someone who accepts the whole of us, dogs and all, and not just one side of who we are.

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