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[marshman 7,758]

 

 

 

 

Man be plutonic friends with a attractive woman ?

I think not,if she is attractive to you your already having thoughts about nailing her, sooner or later especially if drink is involved your sure to get it on even if its just the once and best kept secrete.............how many have been where they should,nt have,it sure is,nt one or two.

I disagree a man can look at a hundred women he finds attractive also he can think about shagging a good sort ( I do most days lol ) but it doesn't mean I would . Losing a good wife and children a home nah surely ain't worth it .

Were not on about a hundred women,just one good looking woman who you are very friendly with ,if you are single and regularly in her company including nights out,sooner or later you could cross the line even if its a quick kiss.

I know the wife and kids senario but sometimes things just happen.,ps,it may mean you would,nt it may mean i would,nt,,,,,but plenty of others would and have............

nope I wouldn't do it

[tb25 4,627]

Each to there own.. couldn't think of nothing worse with being with the same woman for a lifetime though..but loves a funny thing I serpose..I think deep down all men won't that one woman to spend a life with.me includied..but I lost that and kids for f***ing about with slags..not something am proud of but show me some pussy..am init..more fool me

[WILF 47,229]

Depends how you define platonic, lol.

 

Can two mutually attractive people have a genuinely valuable friendship without f***ing each other or crossing any lines? Yeah I think so but it does take a bit of integrity.

 

Does that mean that they wouldn't f**k each other given different circumstances or frankly play with the thought? Nah, bollocks of course you they do. LOL

There's not many people grown up enough to just be mates with a bird and also drop into bed together once in a while.......

[Waz 4,265]

I got some attractive platonic female friends, werent possible while i was with my ex though! So its actually nice to be friends with a few sorts. Who knows whats round the corner though, but i wouldnt jepordise a good friendship for a 10 minute bunk up (ok ok 5 lol) my younger self would have had them by now though, in my dreams.

[Born Hunter 17,780]

 

Depends how you define platonic, lol.

 

Can two mutually attractive people have a genuinely valuable friendship without f***ing each other or crossing any lines? Yeah I think so but it does take a bit of integrity.

 

Does that mean that they wouldn't f**k each other given different circumstances or frankly play with the thought? Nah, bollocks of course you they do. LOL

There's not many people grown up enough to just be mates with a bird and also drop into bed together once in a while.......

I agree, I didn't say otherwise, not sure if you misunderstood me mate.

[WILF 47,229]

 

 

Depends how you define platonic, lol.

 

Can two mutually attractive people have a genuinely valuable friendship without f***ing each other or crossing any lines? Yeah I think so but it does take a bit of integrity.

 

Does that mean that they wouldn't f**k each other given different circumstances or frankly play with the thought? Nah, bollocks of course you they do. LOL

There's not many people grown up enough to just be mates with a bird and also drop into bed together once in a while.......

I agree, I didn't say otherwise, not sure if you misunderstood me mate.

Wasn't replying to you directly really mate, just sort of quoted your post by accident. Lol

[Tiercel 6,986]

Many many years ago, I was friends with a very attractive woman, a mates ex-wife She ran a shop and I worked part time for her. One evening while sorting out some stock a bottle of wine appeared and disappeared pretty sharpish. Then it happened just that look that people share when you feel in the moment. The things that ran through my mind at that moment, wife, kids, was she still on the rebound? Decided there and then the wife and kids were not worth loosing for a quick fumble.

 

Up shot is we are still friends 25 years later, and I am still married.

 

TC

[beast 1,884]

"Women flee from temptation, men just crawl and hope it will overtake them"

[iworkwhippets 12,617]

well take me for instance, I reckon ive got a plutonic relationship with Gladys up the street, although she aint pretty, bit like Margaret Rutherford, I no she likes me, but im not interested, if you no [BANNED TEXT] I mean, she wears them big knickers you could camp out in the buggers, but does a mean chip butty, but sometimes on my walk, I bump into this wench walking her border terriers, shes about 30ish, long black hair down to her bum cheeks, pearly white teeth, beautiful skin, eh, id gladly tip up my weekly pension just to stroke her terriers

[ferretess 230]

Man be plutonic friends with a attractive woman ?

Off course he can its called control if you value a friendship

 

but majority of answers on here state most men just cant control themselves wimps

[DIDO.1 22,844]

Depends what you mean by friends. Can you just be mates who have the odd drink, a laugh, maybe share an interest...then yes

 

I don't think it's easy to be really close friends with a woman who you find really attractive...i mean really close like you would be with a best friend.

 

I'm good friends with a few hot birds who I can have a laugh, go off for the day hunting with em even but we would never share a candle lit glass of wine and talk about our feelings....there's friends and there is close friends....

 

I'm lucky cos my mrs is very trusting and I have a good life with her, I went away on hunting trips about 8 times last year, trips where there are plenty of hot birds in jodpers and leather boots, and she trusts me implicitly...so it would be hard to betray that. We are also open with each other, both of us will say if we think another person is fit, we have very little jealousy...I think that comes from trust.

 

There are also birds you think look fit, birds you could imagine having a good maul of....and birds who are attractive in other ways...like you have a connection with, that's maybe more dangerous?

[forest of dean redneck 11,642]

Are we on about you an a woman or your missus and a fella?

[JDHUNTING 1,817]

Just because you didn't act on it wouldn't make it plutonic, for a start 99% of the time not acting on it wouldn't be because of you but them or respect for their partner, the rest of the time it's just an ego boost being around a good looking girl. Let's face it most girls are boring as f**k to talk to and have no sense of humour and if you find one that isnt and their attractive then how can it be plutonic as physical attraction+hitting it off= lusting after them......unless your a woofter of course.

[jacknife 2,005]

yes if hes a bender

[Jonjon79 13,358]

Stop being gay and just give her one.

She's probably feeling all insecure wondering why you haven't yet