tb25 4,627 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 Is there a age to stop the kissers and hugs? I kiss and hug my son before and after school and when ever really.hes ten nearly 11 .still hold his hand crossing RDS.was told to day by someone ..don't you think he's abit old for that. .it's only last year I stopped having a bath with him as you do with kids..looked at me like am a pedo or something..what's your thoughts on this. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Brewman 1,192 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 I'll always kiss and hug my kids until I'm unable to do so. I would be affectionate with my sisters and nieces and nephews while my wife's family has little or no affection. All my siblings and me are best friends while my wife's siblings wouldn't be close at all. Showing affection to your children builds trust and security. 7 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jacknife 2,005 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 Affection from my dad used to be a head lock or Chinese burn.....Hugs were reserved for my sisters Suppose it was a generation thing 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
torchey 1,328 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 Mine always get kiss or hug and the eldest is 25, wouldnt bath with the fuckers though lol 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted June 2, 2016 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 I never real had that with mine tbh.great parents but never really shown the love..I no there comes a time were we don't have baths with the kids but this f****r looked at me like ba pedo.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
runem 533 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 kisses and hugs should never have an age limit,my 90 year old grandma still hugs and kisses me,if someone says thats not appropriate then they are the ones with the problem. On saying that i wouldnt like her to be mistaken for my wife......lets keep the hugs indoors for grandmas. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
johnny boy68 11,726 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 Still give them a kiss and a cwtch whenever, cwtching is good for the soul lol. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kanny 20,639 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 I think a lot has to do with the kid.. Out of my 3 the eldest daughter and my lad the youngest are very affectionate but my middle daughter is as cold as stone and doesn't like anyone in her personal space...so I treat them all accordingly. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 I grew up in a household that was devoid of hugs.... I hug and kiss everyone...lol 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TUFFTY 1,476 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 I grew up in a household that was devoid of hugs.... I hug and kiss everyone...lol So when can I have mine then? 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 30,217 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 I remember going to watch my boy play football id always kiss him when he came off the pitch......then he got to about 15 and said " dad turn it in will ya " we was stuck on soppy high five nonsense for a while after that......these days he just wants to punch my head in !.....the daughters always been the kiss and hug type though its nice for family to show affection in my opinion no matter what age.......not sure about sharing a bath though i think you gotta knock that on the head mate 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bracken boy 584 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 Tell the tossers to mind their own, your kids your choice . 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
forest of dean redneck 11,642 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 My 11 yr old boy still comes an says night ,love you, an see you in the morning when he goes to bed an has a hug.never bathed with any of them though . 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
neems 2,406 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 If you think it's safer,hold his hand to cross the road regardless of what anyone (including him) think. Personally I find any sort of affection between men a bit weird,even my 2 and 3 year old lads shake hands when they've made back up after a fight lol Different with their sister and mum though. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
delswal 3,819 Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 I still hug and kiss my daughter whenever I can, bath times are a bit awkward now though, as she is 5'11 and her husband thinks it's a bit odd? But then again i've never been to keen on him anyway, I think he's a bit strange 9 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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