tillylamp 1,830 Posted December 17, 2015 Report Share Posted December 17, 2015 hi mate, its your choice and i respect that, as you have stopped your kids going to the in laws because of the smoking, the smell of it and the harm it causes, i think its the fact that you can see the smoke and obviously, smell it, and the harm it does, that makes people protect there children, but what about the things you cant see and some of them you cant smell, that we no about that have similar effects, like mobile phones causing cancer tumors, computers damaging there eyes at young ages, processed meat causing cancers, red meat, electric pylons, coal fumes, etc etc, the list goes on, but as you cant see or smell what could damage a kid for later on in life we tend to not worry about it, and think it's ok, i do see a lot of young children now have there own mobile,i pad, computer game consoles, that also wear glasses were there eyes are starting to muck up, i know we live in a modern world and it would be hard to stop a kid having all the mod cons, but these can damage too, but like i said i mean no disrespect to your choice, i'm sure you no best when it comes to your own. tilly 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnipper 6,484 Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 Would you be the same if it was your parents and not the in laws? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nans pat 2,575 Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 says bacon sarnies give ya cancer ffs,some people want to live for ever the way they go on. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BGD 6,436 Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 Ffs you's make mountains out of molehills Their House Their Rules Just don't take the kids to their house Let them visit you's Or meet up at a neutral outdoors venue Your lass could visit her parents on her own She's old enough to make that decision . You can't tell a old couple what to do in their own home. Think you got your wires crossed pal, that's exactly what he said he'd be doing. Reading comprehension never was your strong point though eh max Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,161 Posted December 18, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 ? this is old now bore off .. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,161 Posted December 18, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 @gnipper yes me mother has a biting chihuahua that she wont rid so we dont go there either ? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 Mate I don't know why you are still answering questions and justifying yourself ... Your first job as a parent is to protect your kids and that's what you are doing ... End of no explanation .......... 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,161 Posted December 18, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 ?? tar mate Quote Link to post Share on other sites
walshie 2,804 Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 I think you still need to answer more questions and explain yourself. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Accip74 7,112 Posted December 19, 2015 Report Share Posted December 19, 2015 tar mate Clever pun.... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bird 9,927 Posted December 19, 2015 Report Share Posted December 19, 2015 Mate I don't know why you are still answering questions and justifying yourself ... Your first job as a parent is to protect your kids and that's what you are doing ... End of no explanation .......... true , I am x smoker packed in 25 years ago, but even after all this time my lungs are no good . I ok walking nice and steady couple hours, but if I just have hill cline few hills etc. , I struggle getting my breath.had tests where you blow in tubes and to comp both tests. the doctor said ive scared my lungs from 15 years of smoking 10-20 cigs a day. so you can see what this feckin dirty habit will do to your health, and even passive smoking will do damage. if it was me I wouldn't take my kids to there house for there health and mine . life very short on this planet , why shorten it with a dirty habit, the reason I stopped for was 1st my health,2nd for my son who is 29 now, I owe him that much if nothing else 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,972 Posted December 19, 2015 Report Share Posted December 19, 2015 (edited) So my inlaws smoke alot of ciggaretes in there gaff which has resulted in the place stinking of a dirty tobacco smell,when i take my children round to visit there granparents they end up stinking there hair there clothes even down to there skin..dropped them in for 20 mins other day come back pick em up they stunk had go home bath and change them..so we could go out for a meal.. We have told them about it and they say they wont stop smoking indoors as its there home and they can do what they want. Am i wrong or what ??? Told mrs they not going there any more mrs went spoke to chemist she reckons third hand smoke is as dangerous as second hand smoke and advised not to bring them there until place is sorted i.e sofas carpet curtains are replaced..(pricey i know) And ovbiosuly they stop ..Tbh i think there selfish fuckers .. Hard work here now What are they smoking in that house to make someone's skin smell after 20mins fecking car tyres lolNee norr Edited December 19, 2015 by king Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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