lurcherman 887 13,166 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 So my inlaws smoke alot of ciggaretes in there gaff which has resulted in the place stinking of a dirty tobacco smell,when i take my children round to visit there granparents they end up stinking there hair there clothes even down to there skin..dropped them in for 20 mins other day come back pick em up they stunk had go home bath and change them..so we could go out for a meal.. We have told them about it and they say they wont stop smoking indoors as its there home and they can do what they want. Am i wrong or what ??? Told mrs they not going there any more mrs went spoke to chemist she reckons third hand smoke is as dangerous as second hand smoke and advised not to bring them there until place is sorted i.e sofas carpet curtains are replaced..(pricey i know) And ovbiosuly they stop ..Tbh i think there selfish fuckers .. Hard work here now ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
j j m 6,540 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 nowt worse then second hand smoke Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tiercel 6,986 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 So my inlaws smoke alot of ciggaretes in there gaff which has resulted in the place stinking of a dirty tobacco smell,when i take my children round to visit there granparents they end up stinking there hair there clothes even down to there skin..dropped them in for 20 mins other day come back pick em up they stunk had go home bath and change them..so we could go out for a meal.. We have told them about it and they say they wont stop smoking indoors as its there home and they can do what they want. Am i wrong or what ??? Told mrs they not going there any more mrs went spoke to chemist she reckons third hand smoke is as dangerous as second hand smoke and advised not to bring them there until place is sorted i.e sofas carpet curtains are replaced..(pricey i know) And ovbiosuly they stop ..Tbh i think there selfish fuckers .. Hard work here now They have to change their life style because you don't like it, and you call them selfish? TC 7 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,166 Posted December 16, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 No TC its my kids i dont even go in the place .. Its not healthy or are you saying it is ?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,166 Posted December 16, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 The desicion is made anyway there not going there no more atall.. If they want see them they can pop up here .. And i have never smelt a badder smell 40+ a day its laziness they have a garden they could smoke in 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Accip74 7,112 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 Stubborn & selfish I would say, most smokers I know these days don't smoke in the house.......my mums a heavy smoker, but she knows not to smoke in front of my kids or in her house.... 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,166 Posted December 16, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 Accip they woudlnt do it infront of them pal its all the smoking there doing while there not visiting... My babies shouldnt have to stink like that full stop weve had a couple comments "my parents" and its embaressing mrs taking it hard tbh its f***ing me off Quote Link to post Share on other sites
torchey 1,328 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 I,m a smoker but go outside if I want a cig..you don,t want your kids round it without a doubt it's a proper shit habit but I do think they over do that passive smoking shit.. the era I grew up in everyone smoked in pubs and tbh the best thing they done was ban it but the only person I've ever heard die through passive smoking was Roy castle and a lot of people will say the same... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tiercel 6,986 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 No TC its my kids i dont even go in the place .. Its not healthy or are you saying it is ?? Not saying if it is or not, all I am saying is that you expect them to change their lifestyle because you don't like it. TC 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,166 Posted December 16, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 No TC its my kids i dont even go in the place .. Its not healthy or are you saying it is ?? Not saying if it is or not, all I am saying is that you expect them to change their lifestyle because you don't like it. TC Yes either that or no more visits ?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stealthy1 3,964 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 Should be protecting their grandchildren's health. 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 There is nothing more important than the health of your kids and I wouldn't give a flying fukc who upset if I thought my kids health was in danger BUT ... I wouldn't expect somebody else to stop smoking in their own house I just wouldn't take my kids there ... If they were my grand kids and I couldn't see them because I smoked in the house then I would change my ways and smoke outside when they came so I could carry on seeing them ....... 8 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,166 Posted December 16, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 Listen i used smoke myself and i know when i came inside mrs would say corrr you stink ect ect .but this is a next level smell not a freshly smoked smell i cant explain it it seeps under there clothes onto there skin i have put up with it for 8 years just wanted a outsiders view thanks lads Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 13,166 Posted December 16, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 There is nothing more important than the health of your kids and I wouldn't give a flying fukc who upset if I thought my kids health was in danger BUT ... I wouldn't expect somebody else to stop smoking in their own house I just wouldn't take my kids there ... If they were my grand kids and I couldn't see them because I smoked in the house then I would change my ways and smoke outside when they came so I could carry on seeing them ....... Ken my exact view on the situation im pleased for them to continue its there life but we will not be going no more .they can try to mask it bullshit theyve stopped but i will know 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Accip74 7,112 Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 Accip they woudlnt do it infront of them pal its all the smoking there doing while there not visiting... My babies shouldnt have to stink like that full stop weve had a couple comments "my parents" and its embaressing mrs taking it hard tbh its f***ing me off Sorry misunderstood mate, but yeh I can still see your viewpoint.......families are tricky Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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