Suicide

[sussex 5,777]

Brings every thing into perspective, when you think you have had it hard , things go wrong etc etc , these are just problems that can be sorted , may take some time and cause a bit of aggro but compared to this mans desperate situation they are nothing ..Rip ...

[keepdiggin 9,561]

a very good friend of mine hung himself early 2 years ago.

 

 

 

very sad.

[peterhunter86 8,627]

Very sad god knows what the poor fella was going through rest in peace

[mad4it 694]

its sad news but does make you think and put your own issues in perspective, Hope the lad get all the help he needs

R.I.P

[mouse 282]

We buried my 40 year old brother last Thursday. He was terrierman for our pack. Great family 2 young kids never had any problems that he told us about. Went missing on Oct 26th and found him next day. He had shot himself it is the hardest thing in the world to cope with because we will never no why. He was just not my brother but my best mate in the world. Rip corky.you are at the big bury in the sky mate

[tilimangro 1,013]

When people kill themselves they aren't thinking straight ,the mind doesn't rationalise anymore and it's impossible to understand why

I trained with a lad who killed himself and there wasn't a single sign of any depression or illness

I struggled with it for a long time as I hadn't Beene able to do a thing but in hindsight there was nothing I could have done unless he reached out and spoke up

[shovel 160]

Terrible news. Hopefully the young lad will have someone to guide him along through hardtimes ahead. My condolences to all the family's.

[bigmac 97kt 13,787]

I can remember being at one of my sons mates funeral who did the same thing just 17 years old his whole life in front of him

 

no one no,s why he did it ,all ways happy and that cheeky nature that you cant help but like, at the funeral there were black and white shirts as far as the eye could see

 

at the wake some one say,d it was the cowards way out , i went and got a bit of rope and handed it to him and told him to go do it ,

 

he handed it back to me all i say,d to him was who,s the cowered now

 

iv not been there but to take your own life can not be easy .

 

at least your mate is at peace now and his torment is at an end

 

and if there is an after life then he will be looking down on his son and keeping an eye on him

 

RIP bud RIP

 

ATVBMAC

[gnasher16 30,121]

 

 

at the wake some one say,d it was the cowards way out , i went and got a bit of rope and handed it to him and told him to go do it ,

 

he handed it back to me all i say,d to him was who,s the cowered now

 

 

Have a think about it mate

 

Personally i dont think it takes a coward to do it......but theres certainly nothing brave about it.

 

Mental turmoil and having nobody close enough to recognise it must be a horrific place to be in life.

[dytkos 17,793]

We bought our house from the widow of a fella who had hung himself.(near neighbours)

Shed been having an affair and he found out. Wouldn't have known they had problems until it came out after his death. Only a young couple, no kids,surely they could have moved on without him killing himself?

 

Cheers, D.

[bigmac 97kt 13,787]

 

 

 

at the wake some one say,d it was the cowards way out , i went and got a bit of rope and handed it to him and told him to go do it ,

 

he handed it back to me all i say,d to him was who,s the cowered now

 

 

Have a think about it mate

 

Personally i dont think it takes a coward to do it......but theres certainly nothing brave about it.

 

Mental turmoil and having nobody close enough to recognise it must be a horrific place to be in life.

 

Lets just hope we never have to find out mate

 

your right there is nothing brave about it nothing at all

 

I feel for the ones they leave behind and the questions they will probably never get the answers to

 

atvbmac

[lukey 1,621]

Ffs what a fecking shame for this young lad. Let's hope he can find the courage and help he will need to get through this. Shame for the guy rip n all that and it's easy for us to say but I'd have to be there for my boy. No way would I put that on him man

[bob84 189]

Suicide is one of them thing we'll never fully understand it must be hard thinking you can't talk to anyone about how your feeling and thinking the only way-out is to end things some in my family if you told them u had depression id bet my house on it id be told to get a grip and cop on to yourself and unfortunately that's what most people will say if depression is brought up to them.for me I don't think its a cowardly or selfish way out its someone that think there no other way out hope his little lad get all the help he need .

[Lid 194]

So sorry to hear this sad news.

[bird 9,898]

When the mind goes who knows what you'll do, hope the young lad is taken care of .

 

yeh its the strongest part in the human body, when it goes haywire not much you can do when I worked at my old brewery , there was guy a (manic depressive ) , by god was he hard work, he was rock bottom just if it was pissing down never mind anything serious like this post. I lost me temper with him one day and said I give him punch in the mouth, them he have something to feckin moan at , he didn't speak for 9 months , and then only because I said sorry for threatening him . I always feel sorry for the people left behind , life very short people are dying with cancers etc, they love extra days, months to live, it wrong I think if your healthy able boded but sick in the head, to kill your self. my son mate mom killed her self she threw her self under a train, because the marriage had finished , that's nothing no reason in my mind ,plenty more new people out there to meet, the poor lad was wreaked when he came round to see my son, these people should go round the cancer wards and see the little kids dying and other people , then you feckin hang on to your life 100%