General lee 979 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Some off you might remember around Christmas last year I posted about my friends home burning down and he lost his wife and two kids well he hasn't been the same since and he disappeard this morning I just got told he hung himself in the park behind where he lives he was 35 he left behind one son I suppose he couldnt take it anymore makes you think about what matters 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DIDO.1 22,829 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Sorry to hear that pal. If I lost my Mrs and boy I think I could do the same. Feel sorry for his other son though, poor lad 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Truther 1,579 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Lost a few mates that couldn't take any more mate, i understand their reasons, but its hard to get your head round, specially if they still have kids. RIP 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
staffs riffraff 1,068 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Poor guy and poor lad that been left alone you just never know what the next day can bring RIP Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 I was at my aunties funeral Saturday just gone she had killed herself ... only 54, her husband is inconsolable, he is a shattered man and I truly believe he will go the same way ........ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
neems 2,406 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Tragic loss,it's a terrible shame he couldn't pull through it for his lads sake,that's not a criticism btw. I hope the young lad has other close family around. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
*The*Field*Marshall* 674 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 I often hear folk talk about how 'selfish' it is, like it was an attention seeking stunt or something . . I feel like dropping a right hand on them if I'm honest . . I can't imagine the despair they must be going through . . It's when it happens near to home, and you're left ruing over not getting them . . I've seen it in mental health hospitals too, not always the ones you would think . . 7 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gaz_1989 9,539 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Very sad indeed. Certainly puts some of our own "issues" into perspective. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
steve66 3,451 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Very sad that, you've got to feel for the young lad left Hopefully he has some strong support around him Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BOLSTER 808 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 When the mind goes who knows what you'll do, hope the young lad is taken care of . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
General lee 979 Posted November 18, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 The son is about 14 I think he has a uncle and grandparents looking after him he be looked after but he's been throu a lot I've known this man since we were kids he was always a happy go lucky man nothing boverd him he took everything in his stride but this just messed his head up Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BOLSTER 808 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 2 pals of mine have done it , one through mental illness, just started to lose it the was found on a train line & another hung himself over his wife fuckinng around, good lads as wel but as said when the mind goes ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dare 1,103 Posted November 19, 2015 Report Share Posted November 19, 2015 Bloody hell terrible news that. Such a shame and must be upsetting beyond words for the boy whos left behind. Depression is a bad illness which kind of seems to get brushed aside because so many lying c**ts on benefits. Its a big difference between feeling abit low or even very low. Had bad depression once and wasnt anything like feeling abit down n sorry for yourself. When i look back i acted n was thinking as if i was a different person from the normal every day me. Cant imagine what the family went and are going through. Remember you posting about the fire aswell. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The Seeker 3,048 Posted November 19, 2015 Report Share Posted November 19, 2015 As tragic as this is It's the young lad left behind I feel for. Hope he gets the care and love he needs. . 7 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Joe1888 672 Posted November 19, 2015 Report Share Posted November 19, 2015 sorry to hear about so many losses in the one family. hopefully the lad still has family and friends who can help, far from easy choosing to take your life, leaving family behind. no doubt he will feel anger and blame many times in years to come, but at the same time understand. rip to family members and atb lad Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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