CushtyJook 1,097 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 Really intresting thought that should get a good debate up and running I'll start by saying I got a old friend who a short while ago got realised from doing around 8 years in jail he isn't gay apparently and before he went inside he had a girlfriend and swears blind he never ever would consider another male attractive however fast forward jail time and he claims when inside he found other men attractive and became gay while inside jail however now out side agian for a while and has a girlfriend again and says doesent consider men attractive anymore this made me wonder is homosexuality is just a state of mind that bieng starved of women can actually cause can homosexuality actually be cured or is it more complicated than We think as both me and mate came to the conclusion it has to be a state of mind also a lot of religious leaders have said this for years Thoughts Quote Link to post Share on other sites
*The*Field*Marshall* 674 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 Ah well, this'll be interesting ! I for one think some people are born gay, I don't I would be if I lived a thousand times! I like the racklies a bit too much I'm afraid :-/ . . Others can adopt homosexual tendencies I would imagine! I remember once, I was conversing with a colleague, who was as gay and camp as they come! Another contentious (towards me) colleague comes in and knowing I am a bible believing christian says to me "what does the bible say about homosexuality?? I responded "the same as it does about adultry" he shut mouth and turned tail, he was a married man who well know to have been 'seeing' a young lady. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ChrisJones 7,975 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 It's more complicated, IMHO. Sexuality isn't black and white. There are shades of grey. (50 if a recent reference manual are to be believed) Sexual gratification is a human requirement, though, and could see the lines blurred in a closed environment. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
neems 2,406 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 They say sailors mistook Walruses for mermaids,so maybe he just got so desperate he 'mistook' a big hairy junkie for a woman? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
shepp 2,285 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 But if a bloke is surrounded by women and has never fancied them, surely he is born gay. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
CushtyJook 1,097 Posted November 17, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 But if a bloke is surrounded by women and has never fancied them, surely he is born gay. Some people are born with mental defects or illnesses that can be cured I'm not trying to sound disrespectful or out of order hear but who's to say gay isn't a mental defect also Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 A state of mind for fukcs sake how redicoulouse ........ 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
CushtyJook 1,097 Posted November 17, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 A state of mind for fukcs sake how redicoulouse ........ So you agree it's just a state of mind Quote Link to post Share on other sites
treecreeper 1,136 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 Some folk are born camp no questions. And cushty your mates just bent. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 A state of mind for fukcs sake how redicoulouse ........ So you agree it's just a state of mind I said it was redicoulouse so I obviously don't agree ...... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lid 194 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 I know men and women who are certain they were always gay and I have seen others who have been turned. According to history, homosexuality was well known in ancient civilisations like the Greeks and Romans. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
forest of dean redneck 11,614 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 I thought it was caused by wearing tight trousers? 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Welsh_red 4,649 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 Maybe he had tendencies before he went to jail and didnt say anything for fear of the stigma . Then when in jail and he feels segregated from society and in a situation where its on offer he indugled in it . Maybe hes always been bisexual but for obvious reasons hasnt come out with it . I find it quite sad that some people are gay but have kept it secret for decades . All that time wasted hiding a secret and not doing what they wanted to do is a waste of a life . If it makes you happy and its what you want then you should just do it . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Welsh_red 4,649 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 I know men and women who are certain they were always gay and I have seen others who have been turned. According to history, homosexuality was well known in ancient civilisations like the Greeks and Romans. Im sure Marc Anthony the famous roman has daliances with blokes . Also the spartans had a lot of male bonding Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DIDO.1 22,840 Posted November 17, 2015 Report Share Posted November 17, 2015 Does anyone give fcuk? Iv emptied a few vacant homes after people have died or done a midnight flit and most have a signs of interesting sexual interests.... People who give alot of thought to what other people are doing in the bedroom are perhaps worried or embarrassed about their own interests/feelings.....? 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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