forest of dean redneck 11,799 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 On 17/11/2015 at 22:43, CushtyJook said: On 17/11/2015 at 22:13, forest of dean redneck said: I thought it was caused by wearing tight trousers? Then 90 percent of teen boys in this day and age would all be sucking each other's dicks as they are all wearing jeans tighter than girls world gone mad True,and the hairstyles of some of the 17-20 year old s around here makes you wonder. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dare 1,103 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 On 17/11/2015 at 22:55, BGD said: On 17/11/2015 at 22:50, dare said: f**k knows n who cares? Ill worry about myself n thats it. Im sure someone who knocked out with our group for abit was gay. Wed make jokes about it as abit of banter but wouldnt make a difference if he is. They arent blowing us up if we dont convert to their way of life lol who gives a shit. I heard one of the lads in your group was a shirt lifter too. The wee ginger one that's really into bulldogs, you know the one I'm talking about? Minces about with a wee frenchie these days... :laugh: Careful i reckon he'd drop the likes of you, blindfolded with his arms tied behind his back lol... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
neil cooney 10,416 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Cushty's story reminds me of the old joke, You wanna be the mommy or the daddy ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 30,591 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 (edited) As regards the original question it makes me wonder if 2 men can be classed as queers if they never have sex ?.....ive had some heated debates with a childhood friend of mine who did over 20 years behind the door....he will describe it as a need for a close human relationship as regards emotions,with absolutely no requirement for sexual contact while cut off from regular life/relationships for so long.............i just call him at least half a bender ! Can 2 men have a loving caring relationship yet have absolutely no physical attraction.....im not convinced.....but then i havent done 20 years in the shovel.....what i do know is that sort of relationship in jails is not uncommon. By the way if you was to see the bird he shapes up with these days you certainly wouldnt say he,s a bandit so fair play and all that Edited November 18, 2015 by gnasher16 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mackem 28,267 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 I have spoken to philippine guys who have been with male prostitutes,they were married with kids,went with puffs,paid them cash for sexual shennanigans,yet still insisted they were staight,work that one out because i couldnt! I think the statistic in thailand for lady-boys is one in every hundred people is a katoey,they had a game show contest on TV and the first prize was a sex change,imagine that on The Chase Bradley Walsh would have a breakdown.I think gays are born,but there sure are a lot of very,very confused folks out there,I sat in a restaurant in pattaya drinking a coffee and people watching back in jan or feb,across the road was a house of ill repute which cater for ladyboys,the amount of british guys,big tatooed geezers who you would never have suspected going in was crazy,sexuality is a wierd thing. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Accip74 7,112 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 On 18/11/2015 at 16:06, gnasher16 said: As regards the original question it makes me wonder if 2 men can be classed as queers if they never have sex ?.....ive had some heated debates with a childhood friend of mine who did over 20 years behind the door....he will describe it as a need for a close human relationship as regards emotions,with absolutely no requirement for sexual contact while cut off from regular life/relationships for so long.............i just call him at least half a bender ! Can 2 men have a loving caring relationship yet have absolutely no physical attraction.....im not convinced.....but then i havent done 20 years in the shovel.....what i do know is that sort of relationship in jails is not uncommon. By the way if you was to see the bird he shapes up with these days you certainly wouldnt say he,s a bandit so fair play and all that I don't care what anyone says, I think men are born gay..........but the prison 'thing' is a bit of contradiction & hard to get your head round. I don't know much about prison (thank fcuk!), but from my understanding it seems a man can cross a line, that he may not ordinarily cross in his normal free life or do they? They must be plenty of lads who do long terms without the need of close male contact though? So why do some men cross that line if there not gay? .....but then statistically speaking there must be a closet homo or two on here.........maybe they can enlighten us? Haha Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MAG1980 116 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 When i worked at the prison it went on all the time. Blokes straight acting as they come getting caught hanging out the back of the campest prisoners. When you had a word with them a few days later these lads would say and i quote " its jail, im not gay ive got a lass waiting outsise for me" Some blokes like wilf said are just dirty B@$#RDS looking for self gratification. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
treecreeper 1,136 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 If they are up to the spuds in another man they are gay end of story. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 48,196 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 On 18/11/2015 at 16:06, gnasher16 said: As regards the original question it makes me wonder if 2 men can be classed as queers if they never have sex ?.....ive had some heated debates with a childhood friend of mine who did over 20 years behind the door....he will describe it as a need for a close human relationship as regards emotions,with absolutely no requirement for sexual contact while cut off from regular life/relationships for so long.............i just call him at least half a bender ! Can 2 men have a loving caring relationship yet have absolutely no physical attraction.....im not convinced.....but then i havent done 20 years in the shovel.....what i do know is that sort of relationship in jails is not uncommon. By the way if you was to see the bird he shapes up with these days you certainly wouldnt say he,s a bandit so fair play and all that That's interesting mate, by "loving caring relationship" does he mean as in the way you love your closest pals and at times of trauma they can come round and spill their guts type stuff?........because if that's what he means then no, that's not gay that's just normal. My best pals mum died sudden at Christmas, he moved to Canada and when I picked him up from the airport I give him a cuddle and a kiss on the side of the head like you would do to a bloke who is like your brother! I can honestly say it's never entered my mind to ride him !! Lol .........I have ridden a few of his girlfriends for a laugh but never him !! Lol lol So, yes it's possible to have a close relationship with a male in that way, like you would a brother. Getting reamed out by some dude or wanting to ream him out cause you just want to f**k somebody is pure filth !! I think there's a massive difference! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
downsouth 7,722 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 On 17/11/2015 at 22:55, BGD said: On 17/11/2015 at 22:50, dare said: f**k knows n who cares? Ill worry about myself n thats it. Im sure someone who knocked out with our group for abit was gay. Wed make jokes about it as abit of banter but wouldnt make a difference if he is. They arent blowing us up if we dont convert to their way of life lol who gives a shit. I heard one of the lads in your group was a shirt lifter too. The wee ginger one that's really into bulldogs, you know the one I'm talking about? Minces about with a wee frenchie these days... :laugh: Must be true because I heard that too from a mate who knows what going down with all the bad boy London Gangsta's Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nans pat 2,575 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 it must be in the air,my to hob ferts turn queer in the summer, 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 30,591 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 (edited) On 18/11/2015 at 17:26, WILF said: That's interesting mate, by "loving caring relationship" does he mean as in the way you love your closest pals and at times of trauma they can come round and spill their guts type stuff?........because if that's what he means then no, that's not gay that's just normal.My best pals mum died sudden at Christmas, he moved to Canada and when I picked him up from the airport I give him a cuddle and a kiss on the side of the head like you would do to a bloke who is like your brother! That used to be my thoughts when we first used to discuss it Wilf........im an affectionate chap to lifelong friends so id be exactly the same as you was.......but the big topic of argument would come when he told me they would lay and cuddle !!.......these are his words not mine......" not for any kind of sexual feeling whatsoever....but purely for a sense of closeness to another human being....loneliness,comfort,warmth,security etc with another person you care for. ( fully clothed that is ! ) " We would almost end up fighting as it was too great an opportunity to turn down when it came to piss taking....but over time and many discussions i kind of understood......sort of .......this is a man id trust with my life and i know he wouldnt lie to me so if he says just a cuddle thats all it was Edited November 18, 2015 by gnasher16 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 48,196 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 (edited) As I say, when someone is in real pain and they are your pal, a bloke you have stood shoulder to shoulder with against 15 and 20 blokes at a time, a bloke you know would rather get put in intensive care than leave you to it and your the same with him then when a bloke like him is as close to his mum as he was (and your also close with her) and the woman is fine one day and found dead at the bottom of the stairs the next then there really are no words.......only a cuddle will convey that you are in this together. I can honestly say if someone had called us poofs in that airport they would have got thrown through the window. I can't say I would have a lay on the bed with him and have a snuggle up mind you ! Lol I still give my brothers a kiss on the side of the face and they are in theirs 60s. It's a completely different thing to getting a blowjob in your cell from some dirty skag head. Edited November 18, 2015 by WILF Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Accip74 7,112 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 I've cuddled many a strange man after a few E's.........does that count? Haha.... 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dare 1,103 Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 On 18/11/2015 at 17:30, downsouth said: On 17/11/2015 at 22:55, BGD said: On 17/11/2015 at 22:50, dare said: f**k knows n who cares? Ill worry about myself n thats it. Im sure someone who knocked out with our group for abit was gay. Wed make jokes about it as abit of banter but wouldnt make a difference if he is. They arent blowing us up if we dont convert to their way of life lol who gives a shit.I heard one of the lads in your group was a shirt lifter too. The wee ginger one that's really into bulldogs, you know the one I'm talking about? Minces about with a wee frenchie these days... :laugh: Must be true because I heard that too from a mate who knows what going down with all the bad boy London Gangsta's Lol you can piss off aswell...bet your getting to the age now where your scared to walk the mean streets of london with all the hoodies haha. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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