jeemes 4,479 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 I feel the same as Wilf and the others on here. I'm in my marrage for keeps. I believe in it and believe in working at it. I doesn't just happen or exist, it needs real work from both parties and thankfully my Mrs is my best mate so we are fully open about it. One of the happiest married men i know was once running here there and everywhere forever banging women behind his Mrs's back. I was with him one day when his capers were really getting on top of him and we sat down and he opened up. My answer was simply that if he put as much effort into his marrage as he does screwing around he would never want to bother with other women again. He seemed to pay me lip service about trying and i forgot all about it. It was a year or so later we had the opportunity for a natter again. He took my advice and put that effort in and found the woman of his dreams was right there after all! Like i said, 9 years later and they have a strong loving relationship and with that strengh came better jobs and a better life... Not a bad fairy tale eh. Were you banging his wife? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Navek Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 I feel the same as Wilf and the others on here. I'm in my marrage for keeps. I believe in it and believe in working at it. I doesn't just happen or exist, it needs real work from both parties and thankfully my Mrs is my best mate so we are fully open about it. One of the happiest married men i know was once running here there and everywhere forever banging women behind his Mrs's back. I was with him one day when his capers were really getting on top of him and we sat down and he opened up. My answer was simply that if he put as much effort into his marrage as he does screwing around he would never want to bother with other women again. He seemed to pay me lip service about trying and i forgot all about it. It was a year or so later we had the opportunity for a natter again. He took my advice and put that effort in and found the woman of his dreams was right there after all! Like i said, 9 years later and they have a strong loving relationship and with that strengh came better jobs and a better life... Not a bad fairy tale eh. Were you banging his wife? has someone been banging yours ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Neal 1,857 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 Around the time my eldest was born (seven years ago) I read or heard a quote which I completely agree with: the best thing you can do for your kids is to love their mum. Yes; I may be a soppy old git but I'd rather that than the useless $£&* that my father was; £!%$$+%£ everything in sight and taking the most perfect woman he's ever likely to meet for granted. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BGD 6,436 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 I'd have a couple more if i could afford to keep 'em The last person on here I'd expect to come out as a Muslim 7 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Waz 4,252 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 Around the time my eldest was born (seven years ago) I read or heard a quote which I completely agree with: the best thing you can do for your kids is to love their mum. Good advice that. & pretty much what ive been doing the last 20 years, non-stop trying and putting out fire after fire, should of realised years ago, but then I wouldnt have what we have made between us. But all over now. Regrets.... I have a few LOL.... So doing my best to wipe my mouth and move on. Difficult when almost half your life youve spent with someone you thought was for forever, feels like a death. But life goes on. & life is what happens whilst your making other plans 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
terryd 8,393 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 Been married for 20 years or there about would be stupid to mess all that up. If you genuinely don't want to be with some one you should be up front about so you can both move on rather than go behind there backs and wasting your partners life when they could be with some one who actually wants to be there 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
walshie 2,804 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 I've been married 25 years. Sometimes feels like 125. Forgetting the groans from my mates when I say it, getting married was the best thing I ever did. Guess I just got lucky finding the right person at the right time. She's been my rock too many times to remember, when any other person would have said f**k it, or given up on me. Fair play to her! If I hadn't met her, by now I'd be dead, in prison or in a looney bin. So no, I wouldn't risk messing any of that up, however tempting the fleeting prize might be. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bosun11 537 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 I feel the same as Wilf and the others on here. I'm in my marrage for keeps. I believe in it and believe in working at it. I doesn't just happen or exist, it needs real work from both parties and thankfully my Mrs is my best mate so we are fully open about it. One of the happiest married men i know was once running here there and everywhere forever banging women behind his Mrs's back. I was with him one day when his capers were really getting on top of him and we sat down and he opened up. My answer was simply that if he put as much effort into his marrage as he does screwing around he would never want to bother with other women again. He seemed to pay me lip service about trying and i forgot all about it. It was a year or so later we had the opportunity for a natter again. He took my advice and put that effort in and found the woman of his dreams was right there after all! Like i said, 9 years later and they have a strong loving relationship and with that strengh came better jobs and a better life... Not a bad fairy tale eh. Were you banging his wife? has someone been banging yours ? Hahaha Quote Link to post Share on other sites
northern lad 2,292 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 Is treacle a nickname for women in some parts of the country, Ive never heard it before Treacle Tart=Sweetheart,its a southern thing,thought Pete Beale had joined the forum,that was the last time I heard it... 1985 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jacknife 2,005 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 Is treacle a nickname for women in some parts of the country, Ive never heard it before Neither had I till I watched that hard bloke on Celebrity juice Danny Dyer Quote Link to post Share on other sites
albert64 1,882 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 why the f*ck would I want to disappoint two 12 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lab 10,979 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 Hunting Men.......bunch of big pussies by the sounds of things...?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
northern lad 2,292 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 why the f*ck would I want to disappoint two Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tiercel 6,986 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 Hunting Men.......bunch of big pussies by the sounds of things... And that's why your still single. If your lucky you will find the right one in the end. But will you have the nounce to recognise him? TC 10 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Welsh_red 4,630 Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 why the f*ck would I want to disappoint two Best answer so far Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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