More Than One Treacle

[neems 2,406]

 

 

Me? Nope, not with this one, she is the ONE.......

 

On the flip side.......I've personally known quite a few of the 'I've got it all out of my system blah blah blah, blissfully married, 100% faithful lads.......' Only for them to find out the their 'tolerant' mrs was getting 'it' else where all along......

 

Never take anything for granted......;-)

its not just the shag , why women look else where , they like this feeling of being wanted , as you say not took for granted , so when they don't get treated how they want , they make it dull for there husbands /boyfriends regards sex , that's why men look else where in the 1st place just think back to when you 1st met you be shagging like to rabbits wouldn't you lol, but women are fickle creatures and deep down only thinking of there selves , to make a relationship work both have got put the effort in, anything over time comes boring , even rich people get bored lol, it must be great being rich , there's not much money carnt do in this world you never be short of women for a start , as long as you got your health+strength fook'um

 

i agree.their horrid creatures and in my few years on this earth ive come to the strong conclsion that they use sex as a tool or weapon to get and lever what they want out of a situation/relationship/ life!...give it..withhold it..sex bans ect ect

 

they will be a c**t with you,then when you get dishearten and maybe your eyes look else where to the grass on the other side of the fence..that way it becomes your fault for being a c**t and looking at other women not their for being (not sure of the word ime looking for hear so ile use "frigid" thou i suspect "emotionally frigid" would be better"

name me a man who is happy with his wife spouse girlfreind ect and still wanders away?? they dont

same for women if the man is lacking then she will eventually wander!

 

see for me theirs 2 kinds of sex...theirs the sex with some drunken tart/massive polish woman (who was like trying to move a fridge round the room on your own ) that is just realy a wank with no hands

 

then theirs the sex with some one your quite fond of/love and its more about bonding,passion....its not sex its making love.

 

now i may sound to a lot as a typical c**t of a man who only thinks with his dick and wants a relationship to evolve around a motive of the more carnal kind but its not so...

you see ime hopelessly utterly in love with a terribly complicated young woman and her two little girls and have been for years but we have as close to a sexless relationship as its possible to have.

mainly due to her lack of sex drive and willingness to make time for "us"

now this is a prime example of earlier...she is happy with this set up because she has some one utterly devoted to her and waiting on her hand and foot (jump=how high) her girls have some one to fill the other role, so for her the lack of sex isnt a problem because on the very rare occasion she dose want it then its their.

but for me its terribly hard always wanting a little more and not just the sex eather any kind of intimacy. devoting yourself in all ways to some one and only getting a fraction back.

but do you let this ruin the rest of a other wise happy set up? just because of the lack of sex

 

or would it be understandable if i got my needs (cringe!) else where? and come home much happier and less frustrated to a girl i love and 2 little girls ive brought up as my own and a other wise very happy life?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are you really happy and fulfilled?

 

You have no obligation to this woman or her kids,so if you think you can get a better suited woman who you get on with in every way,why not?

 

A bit of ballache at first,but that'll pass and you'll be free.

 

going off what you wrote I feel sorry for you mate,it comes across like you've made yourself a prison.

[unlacedgecko 1,466]

 

 

 

 

 

 

Me? Nope, not with this one, she is the ONE.......

 

On the flip side.......I've personally known quite a few of the 'I've got it all out of my system blah blah blah, blissfully married, 100% faithful lads.......' Only for them to find out the their 'tolerant' mrs was getting 'it' else where all along......

 

Never take anything for granted......;-)

its not just the shag , why women look else where , they like this feeling of being wanted , as you say not took for granted , so when they don't get treated how they want , they make it dull for there husbands /boyfriends regards sex , that's why men look else where in the 1st place just think back to when you 1st met you be shagging like to rabbits wouldn't you lol, but women are fickle creatures and deep down only thinking of there selves , to make a relationship work both have got put the effort in, anything over time comes boring , even rich people get bored lol, it must be great being rich , there's not much money carnt do in this world you never be short of women for a start , as long as you got your health+strength fook'um

i agree.their horrid creatures and in my few years on this earth ive come to the strong conclsion that they use sex as a tool or weapon to get and lever what they want out of a situation/relationship/ life!...give it..withhold it..sex bans ect ect

 

they will be a c**t with you,then when you get dishearten and maybe your eyes look else where to the grass on the other side of the fence..that way it becomes your fault for being a c**t and looking at other women not their for being (not sure of the word ime looking for hear so ile use "frigid" thou i suspect "emotionally frigid" would be better"

name me a man who is happy with his wife spouse girlfreind ect and still wanders away?? they dont

same for women if the man is lacking then she will eventually wander!

 

see for me theirs 2 kinds of sex...theirs the sex with some drunken tart/massive polish woman (who was like trying to move a fridge round the room on your own ) that is just realy a wank with no hands

 

then theirs the sex with some one your quite fond of/love and its more about bonding,passion....its not sex its making love.

 

now i may sound to a lot as a typical c**t of a man who only thinks with his dick and wants a relationship to evolve around a motive of the more carnal kind but its not so...

you see ime hopelessly utterly in love with a terribly complicated young woman and her two little girls and have been for years but we have as close to a sexless relationship as its possible to have.

mainly due to her lack of sex drive and willingness to make time for "us"

now this is a prime example of earlier...she is happy with this set up because she has some one utterly devoted to her and waiting on her hand and foot (jump=how high) her girls have some one to fill the other role, so for her the lack of sex isnt a problem because on the very rare occasion she dose want it then its their.

but for me its terribly hard always wanting a little more and not just the sex eather any kind of intimacy. devoting yourself in all ways to some one and only getting a fraction back.

but do you let this ruin the rest of a other wise happy set up? just because of the lack of sex

 

or would it be understandable if i got my needs (cringe!) else where? and come home much happier and less frustrated to a girl i love and 2 little girls ive brought up as my own and a other wise very happy life?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are you really happy and fulfilled?

 

You have no obligation to this woman or her kids,so if you think you can get a better suited woman who you get on with in every way,why not?

 

A bit of ballache at first,but that'll pass and you'll be free.

 

going off what you wrote I feel sorry for you mate,it comes across like you've made yourself a prison.

Just be happy he could type that. If he had to say it, we'd be here all week, then it really would feel like prison!

 

PK, life is for living. If she is making you unhappy, let her know and give her the chance to change it. If she won't/can't then cut your losses and move on...

[perthshire keeper 1,239]

ohh feck thats the last time i drink and THL

[perthshire keeper 1,239]

 

 

 

 

Me? Nope, not with this one, she is the ONE.......

 

On the flip side.......I've personally known quite a few of the 'I've got it all out of my system blah blah blah, blissfully married, 100% faithful lads.......' Only for them to find out the their 'tolerant' mrs was getting 'it' else where all along......

 

Never take anything for granted......;-)

its not just the shag , why women look else where , they like this feeling of being wanted , as you say not took for granted , so when they don't get treated how they want , they make it dull for there husbands /boyfriends regards sex , that's why men look else where in the 1st place just think back to when you 1st met you be shagging like to rabbits wouldn't you lol, but women are fickle creatures and deep down only thinking of there selves , to make a relationship work both have got put the effort in, anything over time comes boring , even rich people get bored lol, it must be great being rich , there's not much money carnt do in this world you never be short of women for a start , as long as you got your health+strength fook'um

i agree.their horrid creatures and in my few years on this earth ive come to the strong conclsion that they use sex as a tool or weapon to get and lever what they want out of a situation/relationship/ life!...give it..withhold it..sex bans ect ect

 

they will be a c**t with you,then when you get dishearten and maybe your eyes look else where to the grass on the other side of the fence..that way it becomes your fault for being a c**t and looking at other women not their for being (not sure of the word ime looking for hear so ile use "frigid" thou i suspect "emotionally frigid" would be better"

name me a man who is happy with his wife spouse girlfreind ect and still wanders away?? they dont

same for women if the man is lacking then she will eventually wander!

 

see for me theirs 2 kinds of sex...theirs the sex with some drunken tart/massive polish woman (who was like trying to move a fridge round the room on your own ) that is just realy a wank with no hands

 

then theirs the sex with some one your quite fond of/love and its more about bonding,passion....its not sex its making love.

 

now i may sound to a lot as a typical c**t of a man who only thinks with his dick and wants a relationship to evolve around a motive of the more carnal kind but its not so...

you see ime hopelessly utterly in love with a terribly complicated young woman and her two little girls and have been for years but we have as close to a sexless relationship as its possible to have.

mainly due to her lack of sex drive and willingness to make time for "us"

now this is a prime example of earlier...she is happy with this set up because she has some one utterly devoted to her and waiting on her hand and foot (jump=how high) her girls have some one to fill the other role, so for her the lack of sex isnt a problem because on the very rare occasion she dose want it then its their.

but for me its terribly hard always wanting a little more and not just the sex eather any kind of intimacy. devoting yourself in all ways to some one and only getting a fraction back.

but do you let this ruin the rest of a other wise happy set up? just because of the lack of sex

 

or would it be understandable if i got my needs (cringe!) else where? and come home much happier and less frustrated to a girl i love and 2 little girls ive brought up as my own and a other wise very happy life?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are you really happy and fulfilled?

 

You have no obligation to this woman or her kids,so if you think you can get a better suited woman who you get on with in every way,why not?

 

A bit of ballache at first,but that'll pass and you'll be free.

 

going off what you wrote I feel sorry for you mate,it comes across like you've made yourself a prison.

Just be happy he could type that. If he had to say it, we'd be here all week, then it really would feel like prison!

 

PK, life is for living. If she is making you unhappy, let her know and give her the chance to change it. If she won't/can't then cut your losses and move on...

 

it took me a while to work that out but when i did jesus did i laugh!!

[MoChara 1,632]

 

Flip sake. Thread needs renamed "dear john for THL"

If your not happy or satisfied then leave before you do get your head turned..

if you are happy then stay with the one your with.

In other words "suck it up, buttercup !".

that's the one blackbriar

[unlacedgecko 1,466]

 

 

 

 

 

 

Me? Nope, not with this one, she is the ONE.......

 

On the flip side.......I've personally known quite a few of the 'I've got it all out of my system blah blah blah, blissfully married, 100% faithful lads.......' Only for them to find out the their 'tolerant' mrs was getting 'it' else where all along......

 

Never take anything for granted......;-)

its not just the shag , why women look else where , they like this feeling of being wanted , as you say not took for granted , so when they don't get treated how they want , they make it dull for there husbands /boyfriends regards sex , that's why men look else where in the 1st place just think back to when you 1st met you be shagging like to rabbits wouldn't you lol, but women are fickle creatures and deep down only thinking of there selves , to make a relationship work both have got put the effort in, anything over time comes boring , even rich people get bored lol, it must be great being rich , there's not much money carnt do in this world you never be short of women for a start , as long as you got your health+strength fook'um

i agree.their horrid creatures and in my few years on this earth ive come to the strong conclsion that they use sex as a tool or weapon to get and lever what they want out of a situation/relationship/ life!...give it..withhold it..sex bans ect ect

 

they will be a c**t with you,then when you get dishearten and maybe your eyes look else where to the grass on the other side of the fence..that way it becomes your fault for being a c**t and looking at other women not their for being (not sure of the word ime looking for hear so ile use "frigid" thou i suspect "emotionally frigid" would be better"

name me a man who is happy with his wife spouse girlfreind ect and still wanders away?? they dont

same for women if the man is lacking then she will eventually wander!

 

see for me theirs 2 kinds of sex...theirs the sex with some drunken tart/massive polish woman (who was like trying to move a fridge round the room on your own ) that is just realy a wank with no hands

 

then theirs the sex with some one your quite fond of/love and its more about bonding,passion....its not sex its making love.

 

now i may sound to a lot as a typical c**t of a man who only thinks with his dick and wants a relationship to evolve around a motive of the more carnal kind but its not so...

you see ime hopelessly utterly in love with a terribly complicated young woman and her two little girls and have been for years but we have as close to a sexless relationship as its possible to have.

mainly due to her lack of sex drive and willingness to make time for "us"

now this is a prime example of earlier...she is happy with this set up because she has some one utterly devoted to her and waiting on her hand and foot (jump=how high) her girls have some one to fill the other role, so for her the lack of sex isnt a problem because on the very rare occasion she dose want it then its their.

but for me its terribly hard always wanting a little more and not just the sex eather any kind of intimacy. devoting yourself in all ways to some one and only getting a fraction back.

but do you let this ruin the rest of a other wise happy set up? just because of the lack of sex

 

or would it be understandable if i got my needs (cringe!) else where? and come home much happier and less frustrated to a girl i love and 2 little girls ive brought up as my own and a other wise very happy life?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are you really happy and fulfilled?

 

You have no obligation to this woman or her kids,so if you think you can get a better suited woman who you get on with in every way,why not?

 

A bit of ballache at first,but that'll pass and you'll be free.

 

going off what you wrote I feel sorry for you mate,it comes across like you've made yourself a prison.

Just be happy he could type that. If he had to say it, we'd be here all week, then it really would feel like prison!

 

PK, life is for living. If she is making you unhappy, let her know and give her the chance to change it. If she won't/can't then cut your losses and move on...

it took me a while to work that out but when i did jesus did i laugh!!

Glad you took it in the spirit it was intended...

[Donna Wildwood 288]

 

Worked wonders for his married life eh? I bet his missus don't know about her! Nor do I reckon he'd be ok with her having a decent shag on the side

 

Be warned though, when finding out he can't keep his cock in his pants we don't all dissolve into heart broken tears....

I pissed in the petrol tank of his motor bike, shot his entire antique porcelain collection, gave his number in reply to certain types of adult adverts then sold my wedding dress for extortionate amounts of Jamesons and had the time of my life!

Plus I changed my name by deed poll rather than divorce the lying b*****d, so he can't just marry the next idiot who falls for his charms!

Were you not heart broken? There is nothing worse than deceit. You must of felt humiliated and degraded.. if you have moved on you would be divorcing with all haste..

Ok I have watched a lot of old Frasure repeats....

 

Yup, he ripped me to bits, I always said I could cope with anything except lies, but he thought I'd let it pass.

So I slung his sorry arse out. I spent enough on him paying the rent, all the bills working 3 jobs etc, whilst he did bugger all. I ain't paying for a divorce as well. I have moved on, but i am not spending another penny on him. If he wants a divorce he can pay for it. I'll gladly sign the papers. till then i can wait the 2 more years before i can do it without contacting him and only cost about £30 lol!

[Francie 6,368]

You go girl,

[delboy_187 902]

"Opera, doctor Phil, somebody any bodie"