Bunnyblatter 1,012 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Never did me any harm to get a clip around the lug hole or my kids Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nans pat 2,575 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 what age are youse calling a kid,seen some of the feral ones here 7 and 8 yr old smoking blow,and just being general cxxts, Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackbriar 8,569 Posted July 1, 2015 Author Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 We used to get a clip, but only when my mum had been pushed, and all else had failed. When I was about 16, I swore at her and she knocked 7 shades of 5hit out of me - but what can I say ? I realise now that I deserved it, so I can't complain. And no, I've never done it since ! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lab 10,979 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 50 years ago if you were cheeky or stepped out of line you soon knew about it with a good skelp around the lug. Back then kids respected the older generation and far less crime. Fast forward 50 years and we have a bunch of cheeky little c**ts who know they can do what they want, when they want cause no one can touch them. Looks like the no smacking thing doesn't work eh!! 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Navek Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Carnt do with naughty kids as long as the parents do there job then there kids shouldn't grow up a little scrote...first time mine step out of line theyd get a crack if a crack was deserved,,,,_although I hope I'm doing a good enough job that it shouldn't come to that....but as for a ban...well when they pay bath feed clothe and care for my kids when there I'll then that's when they have a say on if they get a slap or not Quote Link to post Share on other sites
perthshire keeper 1,239 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 i got more than my fair share of overly heavy handed round the ear when i was a young un.....seems after a few sessions of hypnotherapy it transpires thats one of the main causes to my crippling stammer.. so yeh f**k it bray away just think about the affects in later life... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
green lurchers 16,893 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 (edited) smacking a child has ment you've lost control , nothing wrong in getting them in a Royce gracie neckhold or a captain spock Vulcan neck grip thats fine in my book , worked for us Edited July 1, 2015 by green lurchers Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lab 10,979 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 On 01/07/2015 at 11:43, perthshire keeper said: i got more than my fair share of overly heavy handed round the ear when i was a young un.....seems after a few sessions of hypnotherapy it transpires thats one of the main causes to my crippling stammer.. so yeh f**k it bray away just think about the affects in later life... You'll have to go down as 'very unlucky' then. If that was the case of take about 2 days just to say Hello the amount of times my Mum dished out a smack round the lug. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
peterhunter86 8,627 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 On 01/07/2015 at 11:46, Lab said: On 01/07/2015 at 11:43, perthshire keeper said: i got more than my fair share of overly heavy handed round the ear when i was a young un.....seems after a few sessions of hypnotherapy it transpires thats one of the main causes to my crippling stammer.. so yeh f**k it bray away just think about the affects in later life... You'll have to go down as 'very unlucky' then. If that was the case of take about 2 days just to say Hello the amount of times my Mum dished out a smack round the lug. Just as well he's not a jockey again he says gi gi giddy up the race would be over Quote Link to post Share on other sites
perthshire keeper 1,239 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 On 01/07/2015 at 11:46, Lab said: On 01/07/2015 at 11:43, perthshire keeper said: i got more than my fair share of overly heavy handed round the ear when i was a young un.....seems after a few sessions of hypnotherapy it transpires thats one of the main causes to my crippling stammer.. so yeh f**k it bray away just think about the affects in later life... You'll have to go down as 'very unlucky' then. If that was the case of take about 2 days just to say Hello the amount of times my Mum dished out a smack round the lug. yeh jobs f****d....i would never ever lay a hand on mine..if it got to that ive lost control Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mackay 3,455 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 On 01/07/2015 at 11:43, perthshire keeper said: i got more than my fair share of overly heavy handed round the ear when i was a young un.....seems after a few sessions of hypnotherapy it transpires thats one of the main causes to my crippling stammer.. so yeh f**k it bray away just think about the affects in later life... That's easy for you to say. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mattyg 1,862 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 It didn't do me any harm and I deserved it most of the time , but that dosnt mean it's right. Kids learn from adults and if they learn that violence solves problems then that can't be a good thing. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Donna Wildwood 288 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 A slap on the arse to prevent a scald or lekky shock etc I can understand, but other than that i think is overkill... Having said that, I don't remember me Dad ever laying hand on me, but if he said 'if you do that again you'll get a smack' I damn well knew I'd get one! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dare 1,103 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Me n my brother got the belt a few times when deserved to be fair. It didnt make us not do anything wrong ever though and we knew when we done some wrong that it was wrong. All we done was try harder not to get caught lol. What i feel made us turn out decent people with morals wasnt being beaten it was how we was raised and took on the same sort of opinion on things as our parents. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Welsh_red 4,793 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Me and my brother used to get smacked arses from my old man. My mother was more of the "I'm so disappointed in you" kind of person. Was in no way a regular accuranice. If my dad came up and found me and my brother scrapping he'd tear us apart and get us a clip around the head or backside. if one of us went to my dad and told tales that was worse. Only if it was done with malice tho. If u went to my dad and said " jacks in his room eating crisps" (no food upstairs) with the intention of getting my brother in trouble to be a c**t then he'd get a bollocking and I'd get a clip for telling tales. I don't hold it against my dad at all. It's the way he was parented. even tho I was a knob to him looking back he was a A grade dad. Gave me a pen knife early in my life when other parents would freak about it. Let me build dens down the garden as a kid. Let me roam the countryside when other parents wanted there kids within eye sight. Let me use his pistol to shoot tin can's. Made me bow and arrows. Great childhood and I'm only talking early to.mid 90's I have smacked.my kids. Found the pair of them in the hallway flicking switches on the plugs and smacked the pair of them. Neither go near plugs anymore. When it's life or death situations, serious problems they get a smack. I don't care if it's bad parenting on someone else's scale, if it stops them getting electrocuted or tipping hot soup on them then it's worth it. I'm forever clipping the boy on the head, not nasty, almost like a pat. Usually when he's giving me shit about something I give him a small clip " you cheeky bugger". Both kids come to me for anything, their not scared of me at all. But they know if they've done wrong their in trouble. Since day one I've told them if they tell me the truth then I won't be angry. So far they when they've done wrong and I've caught them the tell me everything. I explain what's what and we go on. Neither kid us obnoxious so si far it seems to be working 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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