BlackStreak 498 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 I find that stopping and making myself be nice to people makes me feel good inside. I was kinda an entravert when I was a kid, quiet and kinda shy and liked being by myself. I rarely smiled. I liked helping people though, even as a kid eventhough I did not smile. Several times through my teen years I heard people such as physiologists and preacher's say smiling makes you feel good and has a positive effect of others around you. As I got older I started smiling at people as if to say hello while looking them in the eyes. It really does have a positive effect on both of you. It's funny how two grown stout men who have never met can met face to face in a grocery store or airport or restaurant etc. Neither looking as if they are going to yield ground to the other. Took a lot for me to smile in these first few situations like this but every time it had a positive outcome. What I mean by this little glimps is being nice is sometimes un-natural and work for some of us but, it's very well worth it and it not only changes you; you brighten the lives of others if only for a minute. People like to be around people that are happy. Next time yall walk through the grocery store, walk around with a pleasant smile on your face and look most people in the eyes as you meet them and nod your head as if saying hi. Compare that trip with your others you've had and see which trip was more humbling and left you feeling better about yourself. To me, the positive effect on others is what humbles me. I wish there were more people telling this to young kids. Quote Link to post
desertbred 5,490 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 c**t youno.jpg we try our best 1 Quote Link to post
wi11ow 2,657 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 c**t youno.jpg we try our best Quote Link to post
CushtyJook 1,097 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 Yeah it was terrible mateWhat was it all about ? Somebody on another thread was picking on a bloke in his fifties ........ It's the internet how am I going to tell how old the fella is ? Quote Link to post
CushtyJook 1,097 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 Plus I've made it clear to many time I was winding him up as he is easy to wind up not m fault people are so thin skinned on this forum as much to make them not come back Ffs Quote Link to post
marshman 7,757 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 Plus I've made it clear to many time I was winding him up as he is easy to wind up not m fault people are so thin skinned on this forum as much to make them not come back Ffs don't get drawn in mate they're in a wind up lol , the man they're talking about is a Bori Pogering mush and very capable think on ? Quote Link to post
nothernlite 18,089 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 Feck them if they cannie handle it good bye 1 Quote Link to post
peterhunter86 8,627 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 I find that stopping and making myself be nice to people makes me feel good inside. I was kinda an entravert when I was a kid, quiet and kinda shy and liked being by myself. I rarely smiled. I liked helping people though, even as a kid eventhough I did not smile. Several times through my teen years I heard people such as physiologists and preacher's say smiling makes you feel good and has a positive effect of others around you. As I got older I started smiling at people as if to say hello while looking them in the eyes. It really does have a positive effect on both of you. It's funny how two grown stout men who have never met can met face to face in a grocery store or airport or restaurant etc. Neither looking as if they are going to yield ground to the other. Took a lot for me to smile in these first few situations like this but every time it had a positive outcome. What I mean by this little glimps is being nice is sometimes un-natural and work for some of us but, it's very well worth it and it not only changes you; you brighten the lives of others if only for a minute. People like to be around people that are happy. Next time yall walk through the grocery store, walk around with a pleasant smile on your face and look most people in the eyes as you meet them and nod your head as if saying hi. Compare that trip with your others you've had and see which trip was more humbling and left you feeling better about yourself. To me, the positive effect on others is what humbles me. I wish there were more people telling this to young kids. Mate that sounds like your cruising for gay sex 2 Quote Link to post
CushtyJook 1,097 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 Plus I've made it clear to many time I was winding him up as he is easy to wind up not m fault people are so thin skinned on this forum as much to make them not come back Ffs don't get drawn in mate they're in a wind up lol , the man they're talking about is a Bori Pogering mush and very capable think on Ahh didnt think thread was about me originally to early haven't had me weetabix so bit touchy lol Quote Link to post
BlackStreak 498 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 I find that stopping and making myself be nice to people makes me feel good inside. I was kinda an entravert when I was a kid, quiet and kinda shy and liked being by myself. I rarely smiled. I liked helping people though, even as a kid eventhough I did not smile. Several times through my teen years I heard people such as physiologists and preacher's say smiling makes you feel good and has a positive effect of others around you. As I got older I started smiling at people as if to say hello while looking them in the eyes. It really does have a positive effect on both of you. It's funny how two grown stout men who have never met can met face to face in a grocery store or airport or restaurant etc. Neither looking as if they are going to yield ground to the other. Took a lot for me to smile in these first few situations like this but every time it had a positive outcome. What I mean by this little glimps is being nice is sometimes un-natural and work for some of us but, it's very well worth it and it not only changes you; you brighten the lives of others if only for a minute. People like to be around people that are happy. Next time yall walk through the grocery store, walk around with a pleasant smile on your face and look most people in the eyes as you meet them and nod your head as if saying hi. Compare that trip with your others you've had and see which trip was more humbling and left you feeling better about yourself. To me, the positive effect on others is what humbles me. I wish there were more people telling this to young kids. Mate that sounds like your cruising for gay sex WHOA! you not supposed to be that nice! I appreciate the humor and I can definitely see where you guys accross the pond are rolling your eyes at my post thinking the same thing, given all the gay rights stuff in the news over her. They are trying to make it where preacher have to marry gay couples whether they want to or not, gay extremists are suing wedding cake business and putting them out of business for holding to their convictions and not making wedding cakes for gay wedding, Bruce Jenner turned into Katelyn Jenner, so on and so on. We aren't all gay over here, I promise! Quote Link to post
snappeer 464 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 Poor chap is a frail old thing and I think he may be a little afraid to come back on because a youngster was picking on him ......get him banned for 2 weeks thatle teach him haha Quote Link to post
morton 5,368 Posted June 21, 2015 Report Share Posted June 21, 2015 I find that stopping and making myself be nice to people makes me feel good inside. I was kinda an entravert when I was a kid, quiet and kinda shy and liked being by myself. I rarely smiled. I liked helping people though, even as a kid eventhough I did not smile. Several times through my teen years I heard people such as physiologists and preacher's say smiling makes you feel good and has a positive effect of others around you. As I got older I started smiling at people as if to say hello while looking them in the eyes. It really does have a positive effect on both of you. It's funny how two grown stout men who have never met can met face to face in a grocery store or airport or restaurant etc. Neither looking as if they are going to yield ground to the other. Took a lot for me to smile in these first few situations like this but every time it had a positive outcome. What I mean by this little glimps is being nice is sometimes un-natural and work for some of us but, it's very well worth it and it not only changes you; you brighten the lives of others if only for a minute. People like to be around people that are happy. Next time yall walk through the grocery store, walk around with a pleasant smile on your face and look most people in the eyes as you meet them and nod your head as if saying hi. Compare that trip with your others you've had and see which trip was more humbling and left you feeling better about yourself. To me, the positive effect on others is what humbles me. I wish there were more people telling this to young kids. How long you been out in the community charmer. 1 Quote Link to post
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