gnipper 6,487 Posted November 15, 2014 Report Share Posted November 15, 2014 An understanding partner must be really helpful, mine is a selfish cnut though ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
budharley 945 Posted November 15, 2014 Report Share Posted November 15, 2014 For get the tabs..exersize ...If mine exercised there's be fek all left of her she 8 stone wet through and that's adding a few pounds Quote Link to post Share on other sites
oneredtrim 148 Posted November 15, 2014 Report Share Posted November 15, 2014 For get the tabs..exersize ...If mine exercised there's be fek all left of her she 8 stone wet through and that's adding a few pounds Yoga 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bush Rummager 4,714 Posted November 15, 2014 Report Share Posted November 15, 2014 its tough for the people living with partners who have too believe me . Too true. My missus suffers badly with depression, has done for years. Not nice for either partner. Post natal depression for my missus. Youngest is 6 years old now and she's still on the medication. Had to make some big calls... Bad bad times but you've got hang in there, be strong, be there for them... will come good in the end. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bird 9,938 Posted November 15, 2014 Report Share Posted November 15, 2014 Dogs and getting you out can cure the darkest of souls..ciyldent live with it q mutt at my side.. funny you saying dogs can get you out of it,and make you happy, because I was talking to my wife tonight about dogs, as my son getting a little terrier type x from the pound next week. and I was saying hope it works out for him, the dog 4-5 years old he thinks as he was told by the people. as i was saying that having had lurchers for 30 years and in all that time I don't think ive ever really liked any of the lurchers ive had, because before I had lurchers I had bullmastiffs ,pits staffs, and Heinz 57/s, and seem get more pleasure from them as dog in general than any lurcher I ve had,maybe there never really been the type of dog for me, and looked at them as just a working type dog .But don't think its just that as I like labs that been used as gun dogs, and liked there temps a lot more than lurchers, maybe it time to move on from lurchers . but you right some dogs can cheer up and make your life happy, its getting the right breed or type that suits your personality the trick .lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
oneredtrim 148 Posted November 15, 2014 Report Share Posted November 15, 2014 my mrs has it ,I have been with her 15 years and in that time she has been on so many different pills she has lost count ,she also cant exercise as such as she broke her ankle a couple of years ago and it hasn't been the same since ...so that hasn't helped either .its tough for the people living with partners who have too believe me . swimming 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The one 8,483 Posted November 15, 2014 Report Share Posted November 15, 2014 Saddest thing I ever did was no keep in contact with a old work mate who had depression and she gassed herself in her car often wonder if just talking her problems threw would of helped , just before she did it she made me the excutive of her will and her mother and brother got cut out she must of been a poor troubled soul Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BIGLURKS 874 Posted November 16, 2014 Report Share Posted November 16, 2014 Sex works no strings take him out for a pint get him talking and get an escort too come in and take him away get him laid but the best thing too do is get him out the house not even a routine kind of thing spice up the life make everything something diffrent cheap holidays even a tour of the world if he's got the money doing something is better then nothing walking and exercising are good but it depends on the person if there the type that do more thinking when there walking and try and get the heart pumping even some poaching some real dodgy shit that your so close too getting cought that your heart is pumping so mad you could hear a pin drop a mile away every gust of wind gets you on edge or if you've got some real money go sky diving and throw him out a plane I bet you any money he will have a smile on he's face Quote Link to post Share on other sites
D Lloyd 2,790 Posted November 16, 2014 Report Share Posted November 16, 2014 funny old thing is depression. i suffer from it myself. sometimes i wont leave the house for a few days as i feel shit, i wont answer the phone to any fecker either. i aint being funny but i just cant be dealing with feck all when i got it bad. snap Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dare 1,103 Posted November 16, 2014 Report Share Posted November 16, 2014 funny old thing is depression. i suffer from it myself. sometimes i wont leave the house for a few days as i feel shit, i wont answer the phone to any fecker either. i aint being funny but i just cant be dealing with feck all when i got it bad. snap Lol I'm like that but never put it down to being depressed. I can be in a fine mood but I just prefer my own company and don't really like people. When I go out and have to mix with anyone outside my handful of mates i remind myself why I rarely bother. People bore me if honest. 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mick C. 229 Posted November 16, 2014 Report Share Posted November 16, 2014 When someone is depressed their motivation plummets Its very difficult to deal with someone whos thoughts and feelings are horrid. Those that are closest get the full wrath of this debilitating illness. The partner friend etc has got to look after themselves and be very strong. At the time you think theres no way through. This thought alone can do immense damage to some ones mental wellbeing.The problem is that every dark thought that enters the head of someone who is depressed is felt.When I say felt its like serious mental pain or trauma. loved ones are going to be on the end of that. You've got to remember that the sufferer especially someone who has never experienced this before will be very scared because thy have never been in this state .This is were the anxiety can also kick in. Pretty grim I know,but there is a way through it. Keeping away from stressful situations is priority. You have got to reverse the phsycology and say this will go one day even though that possibility seems light years away at the time you have to some how day by day start to slowly believe it. Anything or thought that makes you feel even slightly better has to be taken in and made stronger over time Its a life changing thing. When you've come through it you feel like you've been changed somehow. You feel stronger and happiness is a thing to strive for over everything else Hope this goes some way to helping your mate Theres a lot of taboo regarding depression. Making more people aware of this very real illness is no bad thing as it is on the rise. Modern living doesn't suit are species regardless of what the so called elite might have us believe 13 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
j j m 6,540 Posted November 16, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 16, 2014 thanks for all the advice chaps i never new as many people suffered from it in so many different ways,hope the ones on here who have it make a speedy recovery i will try my best to help my mate out Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mick C. 229 Posted November 16, 2014 Report Share Posted November 16, 2014 Something I didn't mention earlier It becomes very hard to concentrate even on the simplest of tasks this can have the knock on effect of affecting ones self confidence. In turn you have a feeling that your not in control anymore Its a bit like trying to climb out of a pit. You get so far then slip a little eventually you get yourself free . Its like a loss of everything that makes you tick. The main thing is it doesn't have to be permanent.Time support and following the right guidelines will eventually get him through Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 47,226 Posted November 16, 2014 Report Share Posted November 16, 2014 When someone is depressed their motivation plummets Its very difficult to deal with someone whos thoughts and feelings are horrid. Those that are closest get the full wrath of this debilitating illness. The partner friend etc has got to look after themselves and be very strong. At the time you think theres no way through. This thought alone can do immense damage to some ones mental wellbeing.The problem is that every dark thought that enters the head of someone who is depressed is felt.When I say felt its like serious mental pain or trauma. loved ones are going to be on the end of that. You've got to remember that the sufferer especially someone who has never experienced this before will be very scared because thy have never been in this state .This is were the anxiety can also kick in. Pretty grim I know,but there is a way through it. Keeping away from stressful situations is priority. You have got to reverse the phsycology and say this will go one day even though that possibility seems light years away at the time you have to some how day by day start to slowly believe it. Anything or thought that makes you feel even slightly better has to be taken in and made stronger over time Its a life changing thing. When you've come through it you feel like you've been changed somehow. You feel stronger and happiness is a thing to strive for over everything else Hope this goes some way to helping your mate Theres a lot of taboo regarding depression. Making more people aware of this very real illness is no bad thing as it is on the rise. Modern living doesn't suit are species regardless of what the so called elite might have us believe What a brilliant post, it's all there in a nutshell as far as I can see. Well done Mick 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bwfc 164 Posted November 16, 2014 Report Share Posted November 16, 2014 I have a benign tumour on my adrenal gland,which causes serious personality problems.Instead of operating, they would rather keep me on Citalopram and morphine 3 times a day for the last 3 years. The adrenal gland controls all your hormones and blood pressure,so you can imagine the problems it causes.I must have killed a dozen people a thousand times in my head,its really no way to live at all!. At least the tablets go some way to helping me keep on the straight and narrow!. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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