baw 4,360 Posted March 28, 2014 Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 I know Jim ain't doing it for the money, it's cos he's a Jaffa only kidden big boy Thanks for the explanation, I understand now Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kevin em 342 Posted March 28, 2014 Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 we are in the process of trying to foster our grandchild who we have practically reared any way the social workers put him in care because his mother is an alcoholic and never gave us a second thought the social services in this country are twisted c**ts the child needed too be put in care put it should of been our care we adore him and miss him so much so ive a conviction for assault but ive told them straight out about it so fingers crossed we get him back but in the meantime he is with a very nice fostering family so we know he is safe fair play too you and your mrs haymin hope ye are successfull 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
byron 1,190 Posted March 28, 2014 Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 you,,ll be surprised how many adoptions break down....you want to foster!!!!!!! start short term,,,,,,,,,and after a while,,IF its for you,,,,and a big IF.. up it..me and the mr's were short term..still ended up with some for years...and as for what age group,,that'll soon go out the window.. oh,,and be prepared to give up ya beds when the police bring you a family in the early hours.. lol..yep,, its all good fun........ 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
haymin 2,465 Posted March 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 we are in the process of trying to foster our grandchild who we have practically reared any way the social workers put him in care because his mother is an alcoholic and never gave us a second thought the social services in this country are twisted c**ts the child needed too be put in care put it should of been our care we adore him and miss him so much so ive a conviction for assault but ive told them straight out about it so fingers crossed we get him back but in the meantime he is with a very nice fostering family so we know he is safe fair play too you and your mrs haymin hope ye are successfull all the best with the proses it'll all come right for you and yours ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
haymin 2,465 Posted March 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 you,,ll be surprised how many adoptions break down....you want to foster!!!!!!! start short term,,,,,,,,,and after a while,,IF its for you,,,,and a big IF.. up it..me and the mr's were short term..still ended up with some for years...and as for what age group,,that'll soon go out the window.. oh,,and be prepared to give up ya beds when the police bring you a family in the early hours.. lol..yep,, its all good fun........ ?I'm sure they did say short term is not short term ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
haymin 2,465 Posted March 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 I know Jim ain't doing it for the money, it's cos he's a Jaffa only kidden big boy Thanks for the explanation, I understand now Jaffa f**k nose what that is but ill laugh anyway lol ?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RossM 8,149 Posted March 28, 2014 Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 I know Jim ain't doing it for the money, it's cos he's a Jaffa only kidden big boy Thanks for the explanation, I understand now Jaffa f**k nose what that is but ill laugh anyway lol It means your firing blanks!! It will be reared on clootie and smokies and I'm f****d if I know what language they'll speak, Quote Link to post Share on other sites
keepdiggin 9,561 Posted March 28, 2014 Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 baw would fail the CRB check Quote Link to post Share on other sites
the_stig 6,614 Posted March 28, 2014 Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 (edited) good on you jim you can foster my 3 for a season 28,26,and 21, i need a break Edited March 28, 2014 by the_stig 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NEWKID 27,650 Posted March 28, 2014 Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 Nice one Jim, really hope it goes well for you mate, Judging on the weekend away, they'll lead a fun interesting life with you, and that's what they'll be craving I'm sure mate. Atvb Kev 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
haymin 2,465 Posted March 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted March 28, 2014 I know Jim ain't doing it for the money, it's cos he's a Jaffa only kidden big boy Thanks for the explanation, I understand now Jaffa f**k nose what that is but ill laugh anyway lol It means your firing blanks!! It will be reared on clootie and smokies and I'm f****d if I know what language they'll speak, the cheeky b*****d 100 pound to ban the duck f**k lol they've been a checked just ka be bathered riding after a hard days graft lol . They'll speak fluant eggy language that's for sure lol ? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tatsblisters 10,355 Posted March 29, 2014 Report Share Posted March 29, 2014 If its owt like our council ffs dont tell them you support UKIP as careing foster perants have had kids took away from them for this. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
titan 109 Posted March 30, 2014 Report Share Posted March 30, 2014 Best advice i can give is try to treat them as your own,but don't overwhelm them be patient they will only open up once genuine trust is gained If you take siblings try to keep them together as each will be a "Comfort zone" for the other which is VERY important. If they are of age and if possible, Blank canvas their bedroom and let them help choose Colour of Paint/Curtains/Beds and Bedding as this will give them a feeling of belonging and will see it as THEIR room and not A room it will also occupy their minds and keeping an "Occupied" mind can in many cases ease the trauma of the first few days/Weeks of the move. Good luck mate if you would like any more info please pm me Regards Ben 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.