rob190364 2,594 Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 lucky bsdards wish mine would f**k off well....clingfilm is only a couple of quid in Tesco, and it's open 24 hours I take it your separation didn't go too well then Rob (190364) Cheers, D. PS I left Lancashire in 1992 with a Transit van, a tea chest of books, another one of stuffed animals and £500. Never looked back - life is what you make it. And the kids will get the house eventually anyway Cheers, D. not at all mate.....she refused to agree to sell our house (the house that I bought with MY money) and I had to spend fortunes on solicitors to try and push it through, then suddenly she meets someone else and wants to slash £50k off the value of the house to sell quickly and I'd run out of money and will to fight against it so ended up just letting it go, with another £5k knocked off by the buyer.....(an Asian woman bought it cash and now rents it out, she bought a 5 year old, riverside three storey town house for the price of a crappy little terraced house and now makes a fortune renting it out )......the annoying thing is we were only married for a year!!!! So if you count the money I lost on the house, the £10k I spent on solicitors, and the £17k I spent on the actual fookin wedding you would probably come to the conclusion that getting married to her wasn't my best financial move! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
day worker 296 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Amazing how that works isn't it! I to stumped up the deposit payed for the wedding and worked 6 12 hour night shifts a week for the best part of ten years so the lazy fat slag could sit on her arse watching Jeremy Kyle and so on. How could I have been so blind? I realise how stupid I was and how lucky I am now! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 12,827 Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 How old is the kid?? If you name is on the birth certificate and the child was born on or after 2004 then you automatically have what is called "Parental responsibility" Basically you have the same rights as the mother. Now whatever reason she is giving it has to be strong enough to negate this. Solicitor straight away document all interactions with her and ya kid, write down anything you can remember with dates all this will go for you infront of a judge. Keep all txt messages. You have to be very sharp with this mate If you want to talk further Pm me mate been through some shite myself Quote Link to post Share on other sites
day worker 296 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 11 and 8! I've kept all text messages because in my opinion it clearly shows she has a screw loose! She is now claiming the kids are afraid of me which is utter crap they enjoy coming to see me and their brother and sister! It's lie after lie and I'm sick of it! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
day worker 296 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Cheers bud I might just take you up on that! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 12,827 Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 i think the younger will be within the time frame the eldest may have just missed it no wories go to a brief and tell them you want parental responsibility they'll go through the motions for you also what someone was saying about a contact centre basically supervised visits. I was forced down this route even though it was completely unnecessary, but the people running it were volunteers and were lovely they are not there to judge only get the best for the kids and they also can be requested to submit independant reports on the interaction they witness Again a brief should be able to arrange all this for you. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 46,566 Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Makes you wonder whats the matter with these women (and men) who think its a good idea to involve the kids when a relationship turns sour........selfish c**ts. No matter what you think of an ex partner or what they have done to upset the other, dont involve kids....they dont deserve the extra upset. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
day worker 296 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 (edited) Spot on wilf that's exactly what me and the missus keep saying! I've told the ex to stop involving the kids but she says they're old enough which is a feckin joke! Cheers mushroom that sounds hopeful! Edited August 2, 2013 by night worker Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NEWKID 27,047 Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 (edited) Makes you wonder whats the matter with these women (and men) who think its a good idea to involve the kids when a relationship turns sour........selfish c**ts. No matter what you think of an ex partner or what they have done to upset the other, dont involve kids....they dont deserve the extra upset. In a nutshell, some people are selfish, vindictive b*****ds and don't give a fck who's hurt as long as they get what they want out of a situation... It may take a while, but the kids will soon suss who's the twat as they get older.. Edited August 2, 2013 by NEWKID 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
day worker 296 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 That's the last thing I said to her! And they will and they'll never forgive her Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Brewman 1,192 Posted August 3, 2013 Report Share Posted August 3, 2013 Me and my missus were talking about shitty break ups as one of her friends is going through one. She was spouting the usual "well if that was Us this is what I would do blah blah blah" that's fine I told her but if we ever break up and you use the kids or stop them from seeing me I will destroy all round me be it the house or her parents as they would back her naturally and I'm not their favourite person. I wouldn't say she is like that but sometimes you may never know. She is under know illusions that I would let it slide. Hope it works out for you NW Quote Link to post Share on other sites
j j m 6,533 Posted August 3, 2013 Report Share Posted August 3, 2013 its sad to say but when it comes to access we dont have a hope in hell in court cases as i found out years ago my ex broke the law all the time and the courts done sod all about it Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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