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I've renovated a couple of my own houses and i would say the best thing to do is talk to them. Doesn't really apply to the house i'm in at the moment as it's a bungalow but my last house was a semi so some of the noise could pass through the wall to the neighbour. I spoke to them about it and they were absolutely fine with it. I usually worked during normal working hours though quite often done some work in the evenings and weekends with no problems.

 

Best thing to do is go in...introduce yourself...show an interest in what's going on and he will probably show you around. Once you've struck up some sort of friendship, kindly ask if he could delay work starting so early at the weekend as it's the only time you and your family can get a lie in. If he has any respect and wants to get off on the right foot with his new neighbours then he'll listen and respect your wishes.

 

Did you read what you signed? I wouldn't have signed anything until i spoke to him about what his plans were.

He's not been there once since work started mate.

 

They've just got contractors in. That's why I was going to speak to the niece who lives nearby.

 

I aren't unreasonable and wouldn't go in all guns blazing. I would be polite. But equally if he doesn't see my point of view and wants to be a c**t then I can be a bigger c**t.

 

But it seems the general consensus is to say nothing and let them crack on. Earlier they start, sooner the job gets finished I guess :thumbs:

 

 

Strange double post fail.

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It's probably the builders more than the neighbour mate I take it they ain't staying there just now, just be carefull you don't start a wee argument when your keeping dogs because people can make life

Were you sending the missus round like?!?

What a bunch of mellow chaps we have on here.   I was alll for giving the Greek c**t a left hook so he knows where we stand

Still cant get over the request to keep it quiet between 10 and 4pm what the fook can a builder do in renovation job a 6 hour tea break is long even by there standards :laugh:

No one asked anyone to be quiet between 10 and 4 pal. Read it again :thumbs:

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yer 7 is a bit late for builders but by the sounds of it they are being resonaboll with the work trying to get it dun so thay can make a home for them. like you sad it's been empty for a long time so damp has got in so if they worked 9 t0 5 thay will be there evan longer.

yer you have to pout up with the banging for a bit but when it's all dun they won't be making the bang's ect if they do then go from there

 

when I moved in to my now house I was doing all the work my south starting at 6 am till 9 then going to work till 7 them banging on with it till 11 12 pm for 6 weeks but i'm lucky with my nabers don't say boo to a goose but the 1st day we moved in I had a fight with the scrap man and sent him packing

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Could do with that builder being on my job, my lot are down tools and gone by 4.30 every week day and they have done 1 Saturday out of 5 so far lol.

 

Sounds like the work will be done in no time.

:good: Spot on, just what I was going to say.. :yes: Better to have a racket for longer hours per day and have it for a shorter period of time IMO... Grin and bear it Gaz, once it's done it's done mate.. :thumbs:

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Could do with that builder being on my job, my lot are down tools and gone by 4.30 every week day and they have done 1 Saturday out of 5 so far lol.

 

Sounds like the work will be done in no time.

:good: Spot on, just what I was going to say.. :yes: Better to have a racket for longer hours per day and have it for a shorter period of time IMO... Grin and bear it Gaz, once it's done it's done mate.. :thumbs:
And then you'll have the late night plate smashing parties to put up with :)
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You've got to be diplomatic, buddy - bad feeling lasts a long time!

Maybe speak to Stavros and say that 8am is OK, but explain that, because your daughter has to go to bed, 7pm is pushing it a bit. if you're prepared to be flexible, he has no reason not to be. Builder is just doing his job, so speak to the organ-grinder, not the monkey.

One thing for certain - getting all " Oi twat,I want a f****ing word with you" will achieve absolutely nothing!!

 

Good luck in whatever you decide ! :thumbs:

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Sounds to me like the builders are on a schedule, at the end of the day they are probably looking to make the house a home and deny it all everybody likes most people would do the same to get their home in a liveable state, if it was me, I'd ride it out, it can't go on forever, and put your self in their shoes it's alright putting off banging in a nail to hang a picture but I'm sure you'd much rather be in your house in 4 weeks and be a little disruptive than 12 weeks without making a little waves. :thumbs:

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Yeh im agreeing with most of you now.

 

Thanks for the decent replies. I will ride it out and just keep a mental note of the 8am sunday starts (without complaint from me) in case he decides to be a c**t down the line.

 

THL be proud. You saved Stavros from a broken nose :toast:

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THL be proud. You saved Stavros from a broken nose :toast:

..and in turn that probably saved you from loosing an appendage when Stavros and all his mates from the local kebab house turn up tooled up with big fecking knives! :laugh:

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Yeh im agreeing with most of you now.

 

Thanks for the decent replies. I will ride it out and just keep a mental note of the 8am sunday starts (without complaint from me) in case he decides to be a c**t down the line.

 

THL be proud. You saved Stavros from a broken nose :toast:

Were you sending the missus round like?!? :hmm::laugh:

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