whippet 99 2,613 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 WHATS YOUR HARDEST DECISION YOU HAVE HAD TO MAKE AND WHY........? I GOT A BIT OF SHITE GOING ON AT THE MINUTE WHICH IS CAUSING A BIT OF TENSION BETWEEN MY FAMILY AND ME WIFES FAMILY ...........ME WIFES HALF DEAD NOW ,.HER BRAIN IS FOOKED , SHE KNOWS WHO YOU ARE AND TALKS BUT THATS ABOUT IT....... I WANTED HER TO COME HOME AS DID THE HOSPICE ,..........HER FAMILY WANTS HER TO STAY THERE TO DIE ......... BUT THERES SO MANY FACTORS TO CONSIDER AND AFTER A LONG THINK ABOUT IT ,..........SHE IS BETTER OFF THERE ,......BUT JUST WONDERED WHAT HARD DECISIONS YOU HAVE FACED...........? CAN BE ANYTHING LOL ,...WERE ALL DIFFERENT.... (PLEASE NO SYMPATHY GONE PAST THAT A LONG TIME AGO) CHEERS Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gaz_1989 9,539 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 f****n hell pal. Puts things into perspective that. I think the hardest decision I've ever had was weather to have turkey, beef or ham at the Carvery on Sunday! 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 46,782 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 Whatever decision you make will be right because if no one else has got the bottle to make it, then whatever you decide is right. 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Strong Stuff 2,171 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 Hopefully never that sort of decision.Best regards. Aaron. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ratpackjack 272 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 Just one question do you love her? and please i don't mean to offend you but i re read your post a few times and i can't tell as people are different but there is no emotion in your words Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ratpackjack 272 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 And not being a dick well not meaning to just asking a question is all guys Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jimster68 123 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 i think the hardest decisions we have to make are the ones that affect us personaly or those closest to us ,people always judge us on the decisions we make without being in the position themselfs , its easy to point the finger and critise , i try not to rush into making decisions myself ,and i hope people and family respect the decisions i make ,at the end of the day we all have our loved one best interest at heart but no ones perfect . atb.....jim 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 putting my last lurcher bitch to sleep;had her for 16years and it was tough 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ginga john 268 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 Do what you think is best for your wife, a Hospice is a kinder environment for the terminally ill, but home is a familiar environment where she may be more comfortable emotionally, its your call and what ever you decide will be the right thing for you both All the best to you GJ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Astanley 11,568 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 I hope you wife passes peacefully and painlessly , and in time you and your family can enjoy good memories . God bless . 7 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 Just one question do you love her? and please i don't mean to offend you but i re read your post a few times and i can't tell as people are different but there is no emotion in your words Its hard to project emotion in a post without using the smileys , but I am pretty sure if he had used loads of smileys it would have been inappropriate, given the subject , but i do know what your saying I cant begin to imagine what a situation like whippets is like & as yet i have not had to make any decisions that were so emotional , whippet I am sending a big hug to you & your loved ones , god bless you xxx 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
whippet 99 2,613 Posted March 20, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 there is a reason behind the non emotion of words and its because i don't want the sympathy . i wanted her home but with all the noise and kids pla ying it will just distress her . but you try and put her pain and comfort as priority but get lost with your emotions and feelings. people cAn never see it the way you do but eventually you realise there right. but it causes alot of tension before you realise there right. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
whippet 99 2,613 Posted March 20, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 we will get through it. we got two cracking boys. it never seemed real when she was going through it you just pray they got it wrong and for a miracle . she was suffering but they seem to have it controlled now. its a cruel disease . but a hospice and the staff must be close to heaven . lovely place. her birthday Friday so be one to remember.thanks for the nice comment s i didn't want this topic to be about me tho. lol 7 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Catcher 1 639 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 My heart goes out to you whippet.Been there with family before.Do what you think she would like.atb .Catcher. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted March 20, 2013 Report Share Posted March 20, 2013 we will get through it. we got two cracking boys. it never seemed real when she was going through it you just pray they got it wrong and for a miracle . she was suffering but they seem to have it controlled now. its a cruel disease . but a hospice and the staff must be close to heaven . lovely place. her birthday Friday so be one to remember.thanks for the nice comment s i didn't want this topic to be about me tho. lol i hope you all have a lovely day on Friday happy birthday Mrs Whippet xx 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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