Grief

[Gingerhob 9]

how long does it last

[walshie 2,804]

Depends what you're grieving over I guess.

[robbo 828]

All depends how close you were to the person youve lost and how big a part of your life they were.

[Millet 4,497]

Fore ever but it does get easier..

[scothunter 12,609]

times a good healer.at the time you think you will never get over it,but life moves on!

[pip1968 2,490]

i think this might be over phone calls i read something on one of the locked threads

Edited February 11, 2013 by pip1968

[rob190364 2,594]

...until you get a divorce

[Gingerhob 9]

no nothing to do with phone calls ..my grief started way back in 96 with the loss of 4 my family and a best mate an still in the blink of an eye your right back to the day or even a day before it because i hunted an fished with them all..strange..anyway got a nice pm from a stranger there cheers mate

[pip1968 2,490]

no nothing to do with phone calls ..my grief started way back in 96 with the loss of 4 my family and a best mate an still in the blink of an eye your right back to the day or even a day before it because i hunted an fished with them all..strange..anyway got a nice pm from a stranger there cheers mate

sorry to hear that bud,didnt mean to offend you

[the_stig 6,614]

no nothing to do with phone calls ..my grief started way back in 96 with the loss of 4 my family and a best mate an still in the blink of an eye your right back to the day or even a day before it because i hunted an fished with them all..strange..anyway got a nice pm from a stranger there cheers mate

sames happened to me last few year lost my dad, my nan, my grandad,my mum, my best mate ,and a close aunt ,and good few year back my sister ...i think of them every day but like millit says it gets easier the grief turns to fond memorys i dossed around for a bit - it got a bit depressive so i had to kick myself up the arse move on and focus the family and friends i`ve still got and put my efforts into to something else -- only you know how you feel but sometimes you have to give yourself a shake ...not one for these group things but they do exsist a problem shared n all that ..

Edited February 11, 2013 by the_stig

[Carraghs Gem 1,675]

Cant grieve forever it isnt healthy to.

[Lab 10,979]

I remember a keeper friend of mine lost his son in a car accident. I asked my grandad a while after about who was going to do the pheasants and his reply was "fucks sake it's been a week!!!". I suppose what I'm getting at is everyone is different and keeping busy and not sitting letting it fester on your mind is a good thing. My grandad is the person I have closest too and I miss just having a blether with him about hunting related stuff. But moping about doesn't bring people back but a quick glance at a photo now and again and a chat with a friend or relative about the good times you shared is always good. Chin up!!!!

[Carraghs Gem 1,675]

 

I remember a keeper friend of mine lost his son in a car accident. I asked my grandad a while after about who was going to do the pheasants and his reply was "fucks sake it's been a week!!!". I suppose what I'm getting at is everyone is different and keeping busy and not sitting letting it fester on your mind is a good thing. My grandad is the person I have closest too and I miss just having a blether with him about hunting related stuff. But moping about doesn't bring people back but a quick glance at a photo now and again and a chat with a friend or relative about the good times you shared is always good. Chin up!!!!

Thing is theres always some c**t who feels they have to remind you about it the minute you step out of your house, for about a year after we lost our kid i had strangers and people coming up to me in the street, in the supermarket,in the pub offering condolences for our loss if i wasnt so mentally distraught id have knocked their f***ing teeth in. Was bad enough being at home surrounded by constant memorys but couldnt go out either because those wankers wouldnt f**k off and leave me alone... Moved house in the end.

[the_stig 6,614]

 

 

I remember a keeper friend of mine lost his son in a car accident. I asked my grandad a while after about who was going to do the pheasants and his reply was "fucks sake it's been a week!!!". I suppose what I'm getting at is everyone is different and keeping busy and not sitting letting it fester on your mind is a good thing. My grandad is the person I have closest too and I miss just having a blether with him about hunting related stuff. But moping about doesn't bring people back but a quick glance at a photo now and again and a chat with a friend or relative about the good times you shared is always good. Chin up!!!!

Thing is theres always some c**t who feels they have to remind you about it the minute you step out of your house, for about a year after we lost our kid i had strangers and people coming up to me in the street, in the supermarket, nulu in the pub offering condolences for our loss if i wasnt so mentally distraught id have knocked their f***ing teeth in. Was bad enough being at home surrounded by constant memorys but couldnt go out either because those wankers wouldnt f**k off and leave me alone... Moved house in the end.

tough one gem but i`d sooner people say something than nothing had so many people cross the road to avoid having to speak to me it started to piss me off ..

[Lab 10,979]

 

 

 

 

I remember a keeper friend of mine lost his son in a car accident. I asked my grandad a while after about who was going to do the pheasants and his reply was "fucks sake it's been a week!!!". I suppose what I'm getting at is everyone is different and keeping busy and not sitting letting it fester on your mind is a good thing. My grandad is the person I have closest too and I miss just having a blether with him about hunting related stuff. But moping about doesn't bring people back but a quick glance at a photo now and again and a chat with a friend or relative about the good times you shared is always good. Chin up!!!!

Thing is theres always some c**t who feels they have to remind you about it the minute you step out of your house, for about a year after we lost our kid i had strangers and people coming up to me in the street, in the supermarket, nulu in the pub offering condolences for our loss if i wasnt so mentally distraught id have knocked their f***ing teeth in. Was bad enough being at home surrounded by constant memorys but couldnt go out either because those wankers wouldnt f**k off and leave me alone... Moved house in the end.

tough one gem but i`d sooner people say something than nothing had so many people cross the road to avoid having to speak to me it started to piss me off ..

About to say a similar thing. Very hard for people on that situation. Better just saying your condolences and moving on with the conversation. Nobody wants to say something stupid in these times.