torchey 1,301 Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 the key is to be very very careful who you impregnate... good look.. They never start off as nutters they just seem to grow into the roll 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
day worker 296 Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 the law's reguarding access for fathers in this country are shit! it's the mother's way or no way.even if the court award access it doesn't mean they are going to play ball! and there is nothing you can do unless you have thousand's to throw at it! i rang the csa to arrange payment's to my ex only to find they are a bunch of man hating cant's! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
twobob 1,497 Posted January 14, 2013 Report Share Posted January 14, 2013 try citizens advice mate if moneys tight they should be able to tell you how you stand Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Swampy 147 Posted January 15, 2013 Report Share Posted January 15, 2013 the law's reguarding access for fathers in this country are shit! it's the mother's way or no way.even if the court award access it doesn't mean they are going to play ball! and there is nothing you can do unless you have thousand's to throw at it! i rang the csa to arrange payment's to my ex only to find they are a bunch of man hating cant's! the law's reguarding access for fathers in this country are shit! it's the mother's way or no way.even if the court award access it doesn't mean they are going to play ball! and there is nothing you can do unless you have thousand's to throw at it! i rang the csa to arrange payment's to my ex only to find they are a bunch of man hating cant's! The law regarding custody of children is that the starting point is joint custody with a residence order for one parent. Given that, in general the father goes out to work and the mother tends to get the house this normally means that the mother gets residence. If access is denied for no good reason and access to the child has to be resonable (ie You cannot expect to have access to the child 24/7 as this is unreasonable) You can go to court to have it enforced. In most cases if the partner with residencee is shown to be unreasonable in her denial of access the case will not cost you. If it continues then it has been known for the judge ask that the residency order be reviewed as denial of access to a child is construed as detrimental to the childs wellbeing. In most cases this will be sorted by solicitors without even having to go to court. Its a ball ache but I know I would jump through the gates of hell for my children and it is for the child and not you then it will always be worth it. Not nice but lfe isn't always. Good luck legalning Quote Link to post Share on other sites
undisputed 1,664 Posted January 16, 2013 Report Share Posted January 16, 2013 Are you on the birth certificate has the childs father? If you are then go to social services and explain the situation, I know people don't like involving them but they do have there uses, it will probably be supervised access at first but at least its access. Good luck anyway. Social Services won't touch it...it's an access/custody issue which can only be resolved by the court....there would need to be welfare concerns before SS would consider it. If your name is on the birth certificate you should have equal parental rights & responsibilities. Consult a lawyer to see where you stand, 1st appointment is free. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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