bigdaz 688 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 There was a bitter custody fight over the whippet, she won and he had to take it. 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
whippet 99 2,613 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Pick your chin up your still young you will get over it could of been alot worse kid's mortgage's etc etc at least ye got the dog in the split you know its a whippet right...who the f**k wants one of them FFS :laugh: Thats a joke before you whippet boys, start feeling unmanly and insecure :laugh: whippets are wank Pick your chin up your still young you will get over it could of been alot worse kid's mortgage's etc etc at least ye got the dog in the split you know its a whippet right...who the f**k wants one of them FFS :laugh: Thats a joke before you whippet boys, start feeling unmanly and insecure :laugh: whippets are wank I agree fully but ffs thats abit harsh its all he has at the minute have a heart ffs its called life ,............you got to get on with it,......put it this way, this would be the last place i would ask for advice on relationships,..............it was harmless banter he was joking lol i dont like people taking the piss out of my brother.................. it was only a winters tale Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SNAP SHOT 194 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Sorry to hear that mate, Really, women can f**k with your mind alright, But as someone stated, let the dust settle and see what happens, and maybe she will realise that she made a mistake, if not, canada or new zealand is whee i'd think about.. think i may of been in love once, and its a tough road back to feeling like your able to see a future again, People sometimes are not what they seem, i have learned that through past experience, none the less i hope things work out for you.... and that happiness lies before you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ideation 8,216 Posted December 2, 2012 Author Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Cheers for all the ideas and advice lads, i've realised now my biggest mistake was taking it too much for granted that she loved me, and not putting enough effort into fixing the little problems here and now, but always just thinking, we would sort them out once the bad patch was through etc. Eventually there was one thing too much, and she just snapped, and it changed the way that she had felt about me for years, pretty much in an instant. Now there is nowt much that i can do, other than wait and see if once she has a little space and time, she will decide that she feels like she did before, but it doesnt look likely. But being a wreck isnt going to help. So i guess i wait and see for a bit and just get my head down, and if it doesnt work out, take the dog and do one somewhere exciting! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stewie 3,387 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 What was the one thing?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 47,346 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Did she catch you hanging out the back of another dude talking about " problems" lol lol 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bird 9,944 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Sorry to hear that Jai.. Best thing you can do is let the dust settle then have a good think about the direction you want to go in.. Once the raw emotions you're experiencing now have faded you'll be able to make your choices with a clear head and move on from there. Things will get easier and and at least you won't make a rash decision and go halfway down a path to somewhere you don't really want to go.. Take care mate.. true, and maybe meet another woman when ready, because you was happy before with your (lot). there know point fecking off unless you really want to leave your home place . Ive been with my wife nearly 30 years, and its as lot of hard times, got 1 now few money probs coming up, but its better with sombody than being on your own. Just chill out Ja , carry on you never know( who) you might meet in the future, might meet another woman from off here, who likes hunting+ dogs give it time . Ray how do you work that one out BETTER WITh SOMEBODY THAN BEING ALONE rather be myself its they f--kers that give you the money problems been myself for years love it do your own thing nobody nagging at you yes your right there are alot of times where you prob better off , but 1 think i do know both my parents are dead now, when my mother was ill dying hospital , i used to go and see her there. They were few people there same as my mother, not long left ,but they were on there own( never) any vistors.What a way to leave this earth, when nobody gives a feck about you ye somtimes you better off on your own, if you meet the wrong one , but (if) you can meet the right 1 got to be better . not saying iam happy, but i know there is lot worse than me .!! i think lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hedz31 1,308 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Cheers for all the ideas and advice lads, i've realised now my biggest mistake was taking it too much for granted that she loved me, and not putting enough effort into fixing the little problems here and now, but always just thinking, we would sort them out once the bad patch was through etc. Eventually there was one thing too much, and she just snapped, and it changed the way that she had felt about me for years, pretty much in an instant. Now there is nowt much that i can do, other than wait and see if once she has a little space and time, she will decide that she feels like she did before, but it doesnt look likely. But being a wreck isnt going to help. So i guess i wait and see for a bit and just get my head down, and if it doesnt work out, take the dog and do one somewhere exciting! Cheers for all the ideas and advice lads, i've realised now my biggest mistake was taking it too much for granted that she loved me, and not putting enough effort into fixing the little problems here and now, but always just thinking, we would sort them out once the bad patch was through etc. Eventually there was one thing too much, and she just snapped, and it changed the way that she had felt about me for years, pretty much in an instant. Now there is nowt much that i can do, other than wait and see if once she has a little space and time, she will decide that she feels like she did before, but it doesnt look likely. But being a wreck isnt going to help. So i guess i wait and see for a bit and just get my head down, and if it doesnt work out, take the dog and do one somewhere exciting! Man up ffs it could be worse ye could own a whippet 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest bigdaddylongchopper Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 kill yourself that will show her 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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Guest bigdaddylongchopper Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 if me and my other 1/2 argu i take a knife and start to cut myself,she soon sees things my way,i also use the empty pills bottle trick it never fails. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
long dogs 580 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 if me and my other 1/2 argu i take a knife and start to cut myself,she soon sees things my way,i also use the empty pills bottle trick it never fails. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Born Hunter 17,783 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 if me and my other 1/2 argu i take a knife and start to cut myself,she soon sees things my way,i also use the empty pills bottle trick it never fails. Playing Russian roulett with a semi auto gets the message across pretty quick too...... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hedz31 1,308 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 if me and my other 1/2 argu i take a knife and start to cut myself,she soon sees things my way,i also use the empty pills bottle trick it never fails. if me and my other 1/2 argu i take a knife and start to cut myself,she soon sees things my way,i also use the empty pills bottle trick it never fails. Always best to put a wobble on and act drunk when ye leave empty pill bottles about Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 47,346 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Go and stand in the garden of her parents house night after night, follow her about, send letters made of bits of cut out newspapers until she learns that she must love you again ! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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