Lab 10,979 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Jai.... First I wouldn't f**k about trying to make something work that's not there. I've learned that lately. So instead of wasting anymore time, tell her to have a good life and go it alone. Plenty more fish in the sea... Oh yes....and see where you end up. What's for you won't guy by you buddy.... Chin up!! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
paulus 26 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 when life kicks you in the gonads all you can do is pick yourself up give yourself a shake down and get ready for the next boot, make the most of the gaps as there what make life worth living makes no difference where you are or what your doing, live life to the full as your only dead once Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 first off really sorry to hear that jai,but im sure something will come to you in a euraka moment.sometimes during the odd moment of madness.i consider moving a bird in here.then i hear about other lads plight,and think f**k that,gld im on my on lol yea a kid might sound a great idea.then on the other hand it might turn out to be a proper little c**t,and cause me f**k all but hassle.no im happy enough.guess its the old cliche if you got your health and a roof over your head thats half the battle.im sure whatever you do mate you will make a go of it,and i wish you all the best mate. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
whippet 99 2,613 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 when life kicks you in the gonads all you can do is pick yourself up give yourself a shake down and get ready for the next boot, make the most of the gaps as there what make life worth living makes no difference where you are or what your doing, live life to the full as your only dead once ahhh but is there life after death.................. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 no just peace lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
fireman 10,902 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Could be worse mate,you could have woken up an anti this morning ,but chin up life goes on and use this time as a new begining rather than an end to something. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lapin2008 1,587 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 (edited) Sorry to hear of your change in circumstances I think for me it would be Aus, NZ, Canada or the US but mostly likely Oz, somewhere pretty rural but within reasonable distance of somewhere to have a decent night out In Oz for sure and probably the others, you either go rural or somewhere with decent night life. Yeah i know what your saying, I meant with a drive though and a stay over, so a couple of hours into the middle of no where as apposed to a massive drive, be a shame to be single and not be able to capitalise on that Edited December 2, 2012 by lapin2008 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nothernlite 18,083 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Sorry to hear that Jai.. Best thing you can do is let the dust settle then have a good think about the direction you want to go in.. Once the raw emotions you're experiencing now have faded you'll be able to make your choices with a clear head and move on from there. Things will get easier and and at least you won't make a rash decision and go halfway down a path to somewhere you don't really want to go.. Take care mate.. true, and maybe meet another woman when ready, because you was happy before with your (lot). there know point fecking off unless you really want to leave your home place . Ive been with my wife nearly 30 years, and its as lot of hard times, got 1 now few money probs coming up, but its better with sombody than being on your own. Just chill out Ja , carry on you never know( who) you might meet in the future, might meet another woman from off here, who likes hunting+ dogs give it time . Ray how do you work that one out BETTER WITh SOMEBODY THAN BEING ALONE rather be myself its they f--kers that give you the money problems been myself for years love it do your own thing nobody nagging at you 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
paulus 26 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 when life kicks you in the gonads all you can do is pick yourself up give yourself a shake down and get ready for the next boot, make the most of the gaps as there what make life worth living makes no difference where you are or what your doing, live life to the full as your only dead once ahhh but is there life after death.................. i use to think not but then i met simo and stabba :laugh: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
whippet 99 2,613 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 me mrs has come home from hospice, im hoping she we will be about for xmas, ...............one thing i do know,.............ive saved some money , be jesus dont they spend lol 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
paulus 26 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 me mrs has come home from hospice, im hoping she we will be about for xmas, ...............one thing i do know,.............ive saved some money , be jesus dont they spend lol mines not to bad, i have her tied up in the cellar for the last 8 years :laugh: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 they do that whippet.and on stuff thats neither needed or wanted lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
chris87 297 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 Sorry to hear that Jai.. Best thing you can do is let the dust settle then have a good think about the direction you want to go in.. Once the raw emotions you're experiencing now have faded you'll be able to make your choices with a clear head and move on from there. Things will get easier and and at least you won't make a rash decision and go halfway down a path to somewhere you don't really want to go.. Take care mate.. true, and maybe meet another woman when ready, because you was happy before with your (lot). there know point fecking off unless you really want to leave your home place . Ive been with my wife nearly 30 years, and its as lot of hard times, got 1 now few money probs coming up, but its better with sombody than being on your own. Just chill out Ja , carry on you never know( who) you might meet in the future, might meet another woman from off here, who likes hunting+ dogs give it time . Ray how do you work that one out BETTER WITh SOMEBODY THAN BEING ALONE rather be myself its they f--kers that give you the money problems been myself for years love it do your own thing nobody nagging at you :yes: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
whippet 99 2,613 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 they do that whippet.and on stuff thats neither needed or wanted lol fooking right pal...............the boys will only be getting stuff they will use this year,..............some stuff gets un wrapped and just sits in there rooms Quote Link to post Share on other sites
paulus 26 Posted December 2, 2012 Report Share Posted December 2, 2012 they do that whippet.and on stuff thats neither needed or wanted lol fooking right pal...............the boys will only be getting stuff they will use this year,..............some stuff gets un wrapped and just sits in there rooms when mine were younger we always got them the latest this or that, after a while you realise that 90% is a pile of hyped up w*nk, nowadays i tend to buy alot less but go for quality things that will hopefully last a lifetime and more to the point have some meaning/memories attached to them after all thats whats lifes about Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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