socks 32,253 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 My eldest girl was getting bullied at school so I simply knocked the door of the bully's house asked for his father slapped him around and told him in no uncertain terms that every time his son bully's my daughter I will come around and slap him again .... Miracle of miracles no bullying stopped .......... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
rob190364 2,594 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 (edited) . Edited October 12, 2012 by rob190364 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
undisputed 1,664 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 Dont want to sound harsh but why would the police be knocking on her door at 4am to tell her someone had printed pics of her tits , summat dont sit right with any of this , i know from experience that if you cut all contact with online billies or stalkers they piss off after a few weeks because you dont react to there bullying , sorry but i think the kid had issues regardless of the alleged bullying If she was underage and someone reported it the Police would intervene Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 Yea but surely they would interview her at a reasonable hour. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nik_B 3,790 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 Also shows how hooked kids are on facebook etc...like kay said she ccould have got rid off those sites and they couldnt have got at her but for some reason she didnt. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nothernlite 18,088 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 lost my niece to suicide drank a half bottle of vodka and stood in front of a train through getting teased and made a fool of at school and outside school parents were f--ken drunks never noticed anything to smashed she just keep it to herself lovely we lassie to atb Quote Link to post Share on other sites
terryd 8,424 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 (edited) I made the mistake of buying a PC for my 1st daughter when we moved house. In the end I installed software called VNC which is a way of watching another computer screen on either a remote computer or even a mobile telephone. I use this a lot for work but when my daughter was 14 going on 15 I was starting to worry about what she was getting up to as she had a boyfriend and I wasn't keen on who she was hanging round with, I also logged her MSN chat messages. I hated doing it but on several occasions it gave me the chance to intervene and make sure she was not going down the wrong path. I will never buy a computer for my 2nd daughter, if she wants to use one she can use mine. Not sure about the wrong path I have 3 daughters 2 are the right path and 1 on the wrong. If that is the way they want too go there is not a lot you can do. Beleave me we have tried. I work in IT so know exactly what goes on via her facebook etc but to be honest there are some things I wish I didnt know But I guess it is better too be aware even if you can do bugger all Edited October 12, 2012 by terryd Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nik_B 3,790 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 I made the mistake of buying a PC for my 1st daughter when we moved house. In the end I installed software called VNC which is a way of watching another computer screen on either a remote computer or even a mobile telephone. I use this a lot for work but when my daughter was 14 going on 15 I was starting to worry about what she was getting up to as she had a boyfriend and I wasn't keen on who she was hanging round with, I also logged her MSN chat messages. I hated doing it but on several occasions it gave me the chance to intervene and make sure she was not going down the wrong path. I will never buy a computer for my 2nd daughter, if she wants to use one she can use mine. Not sure about the wrong path I have 3 daughters 2 are the right path and 1 on the wrong. If that is the way they want too go there is not a lot you can do. Beleave me we have tried. I work in IT so know exactly what goes on via her facebook etc but to be honest there are some things I wish I didnt know But I guess it is better too be aware even if you can do bugger all Yeh no kidding. Raising kids is a nightmare once they get to the teens especially girls. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
vixen 528 Posted October 12, 2012 Report Share Posted October 12, 2012 Also shows how hooked kids are on facebook etc...like kay said she ccould have got rid off those sites and they couldnt have got at her but for some reason she didnt. The wee soul probably went on those sites because she had nothing better to do,she didn't have many friends if any, she was extremely withdrawn and let down by the few people she trusted, this would have given her major confidence issues and being a young girl in todays society an easy target for bullies,yes she done things she regretted (who hasn't?), young people don't think before they do some things, all part of growing up and learning, the big wide world is a cruel place full of cruel people, and people who dont take time to notice others in trouble or just dont want to notice! lost my niece to suicide drank a half bottle of vodka and stood in front of a train through getting teased and made a fool of at school and outside school parents were f--ken drunks never noticed anything to smashed she just keep it to herself lovely we lassie to atb sorry to hear that NL , tis such a shame and a waste of a young life, wee soul, how can these bullies live with themselves? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mr scent 665 Posted October 13, 2012 Report Share Posted October 13, 2012 that really hit me.what waste of a young life.i banned my young lad off facebook for the simple reason if that happened to him il be jailed myself Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hodgypig 74 Posted October 13, 2012 Report Share Posted October 13, 2012 one of my teachers kids hung himself with his tie over facebook i had a assembly on it and the police came i to to talk with us very sad poor girl :cray: :cray: :cray: :cray: :cray: :cray: :cray: :cray: :cray: :cray: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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