dare 1,103 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 Well the whole family have decided too move. Thing is the housing states no dogs because the garden backs onto woods with badgers. We've moved so far that I've had to leave my job. Have another lined up but doesn't pay as good. Me and my brother would still be sharing a room. The moves still gone ahead because my mum seems to be a selfish c**t excuse my french. Rather than sneak the dog in and if any complaints ill accept he has to go...she's told me give the dog away. Not a chance...may sound selfish but the dogs an extremely dog aggressive stafford. No way I'd risk a new owner who don't know the dog plus I'd forever be worrying about how his doing. Anyway long story short I've spent the last 3 days at a mates with the dog...can't do this forever though. I've not even been and seen the new house yet because so pissed off and upset with the short straw I seem to have drawn in this move. My brothers staying at a friends and I'd leave the dog with him and plan to do so...I'm hoping as were moving into a close of all new builds someone breaks the rules and brings a dog...think then I could convince my mum my boys coming. Ill be popping down to see the dog on the weekends when I see my brother BUT its not the same :/ sounds selfish but I'm abit odd I guess and think how the dogs thinking ( sad I know ). Can't help but think the dogs wondering why I've left him. Do I leave the dog with my brother? But then if he changes his mind n wants too move back in the dogs put to sleep. Do I wait till all the new houses are full and if no one else breaks the rule put to sleep? Or do I just do it now rather than having the dog confused. Only good thing is the house the dogs staying with my brother is next door so he knows the garden and park opposite. Sorry for the long post just been a bloody emotional weekend for me if honest I'm not a soppy git but this dogs my first own dog and had good times together his family in my eyes. Defiantly won't be speaking with my mum have no respect for her just can't afford to move out yet and have the type of life I want too live sorta thing. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GrCh 856 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 tricky one pal. Dont envy being in your shoes. Good luck with it all. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
PlasticJock 539 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 Buy yourself a nice caravan mate, find a quiet spot, park up and leave all that s**t behind 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
johnny boy68 11,726 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 So your Mother brought you up for all these years and now SHE'S selfish for moving because it dosen't suit you and your dog BUT you can't afford to move out. You sound like the selfish fecker to me. Perhaps instead of going raving and buying pills and the like you could afford your own place. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dare 1,103 Posted March 18, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 The only one who benefits from the move is my mum. All I asked was to give the dog a chance if any complaints ill fully understand the dog has to go. As for your going out comment I'd like to think I'm allowed a life. If you think we should all be drones and work just to pay the bills and get buy then that's upto you. I work hard all week and on weekends like to go out with my pals like most 20 year olds do. I'm quite on the ball for my age to be fair and have a few grand saved as one day I'd like to buy my own place. I don't wish to rent private in london where the house rates are a joke and have all my wages paying someone elses mortgage. Been offered few hundred for the dog but have a greater love for the dog and breed than any amount of money. Can't be leaving me that skint going out on the weekends a lot would just take it and not give two shits. Like I said the dogs family to me and don't want to put him too sleep only to find every neighbour moves in with their pets. Think ill wait till they've moved in see if anyone else has brought a dog. Ill be seeing him every weekend with my brother but can he really live with his mate forever. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
johnny boy68 11,726 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 The only one who benefits from the move is my mum. All I asked was to give the dog a chance if any complaints ill fully understand the dog has to go. As for your going out comment I'd like to think I'm allowed a life. If you think we should all be drones and work just to pay the bills and get buy then that's upto you. I work hard all week and on weekends like to go out with my pals like most 20 year olds do. I'm quite on the ball for my age to be fair and have a few grand saved as one day I'd like to buy my own place. I don't wish to rent private in london where the house rates are a joke and have all my wages paying someone elses mortgage. Been offered few hundred for the dog but have a greater love for the dog and breed than any amount of money. Can't be leaving me that skint going out on the weekends a lot would just take it and not give two shits. Like I said the dogs family to me and don't want to put him too sleep only to find every neighbour moves in with their pets. Think ill wait till they've moved in see if anyone else has brought a dog. Ill be seeing him every weekend with my brother but can he really live with his mate forever. Its simple get your own place and keep the dog. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GrCh 856 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 get a pic of the dog up mate lets see what all the fuss is about. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
patterdalejoel 669 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 we have a dog here that is agressive to people and humans alike, unfortunatly he is my grandparents much loved pet, but i would not hesitate to have him put down if needed, he is a dog that is a liability and at some pint may cost us money in a law suit when he attacks another dog or worst a human or a child.... id put your dog to sleep, at least you know he died comfortably and with you next to him Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dare 1,103 Posted March 18, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 Getting my own place isn't really an option in an ideal world I would but like I said I don't plan on paying someone elses mortgage and hard to find a private landlord which allows dogs. Will stick a pic up later but he could be a mutt and wouldn't bother me his my boy. Wouldn't call his aggression a problem its what he was bred for but wrong hands its a problem. Would rather the dog put down than that. A prevention is better than a cure. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stewie 3,387 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
morton 5,368 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 Youve got a job,you want to keep the mutt,let go of the apron strings and fly the nest,problem solved for you,the dog and your mummy. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dare 1,103 Posted March 18, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 Trainee wage of 800 a month. Dought I'd find a place in london which is a 1bedroom and allows dogs. Plus with no one else indoors its not fair on the dog. I'm leaving the dog with my brother in the house next door. Waiting to see if anyone else in the close moves in with a dog. I'm down weekends and can see him. Brother knows the dog and will be fine. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
asanley 1,009 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 20 years old and still living with your mum ffs I was killing Germans at your age !!! Take responsability and stop being a whiny little prick . 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RubyTex 1,957 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 Buy yourself a nice caravan mate, find a quiet spot, park up and leave all that s**t behind Great idea! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 30,121 Posted March 18, 2012 Report Share Posted March 18, 2012 Think some of you chaps are being a touch hard on this lad.......the only thing id critisize is the type of dog he chose to own while still living at home but f**k me how many of us make the right choices when we,re kids !! If you cant put the dog in good hands then bite the bullet and get rid.......it will only give you that more determination to get things right as and when your life is more settled.......probably not the best idea to own a dog in someone elses home even if it is family.....but again,how many of us make common sense decisions when we,re that young ! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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