Court this afternoon

[k99yle 53]

Good result, happy for you

 

My ex 'fought' me in court to see the kids (in reality he was just trying to get at me and make himself look good). I tucked away my own feelings and tried to be amicable and accommodating to his schedule for their sake. Within a few months he'd breeched his own order by not contacting them or seeing them and claiming it was because he didn't have any money A year since he's seen them - because I won't let him now, they deserve better than that - and he still takes every chance to make my life a misery and hurl abuse at me. He's a bitter, hateful, drunken b@stard and neither use nor ornament to my fabulous kids.

 

It can be hard to be a proper parent - as opposed to a visitor - when there are hard feelings between you and your ex. I hope the road smooths out for both of you which, in turn, will make it easier for your son.

Hi. So you think your ex took you to court just to look good. What planet are you on? Then he messed up after a few months and you decided that he can't see them anymore! It sounds like you are the bitter and hateful one. Every man deserves to see his children unless there is sexual abuse or violence to the children involved. When you say "my fabulous kid's" you seem to forget that they are actually your kid's. When you chose to make them it was between both of you. It sounds like you are just another mum using your children to get back at your ex. Shame on you. Kyle

[fazza123 517]

Well said Kyle !!!

I had to take my missis to court for being unreasonable with contact ! The judge said the laws are are now better for us men. I now have her 2 nights a week, never miss !!

Atb Marvin with your son, very good news !

[TAXI DRIVER 549]

Good result, happy for you

 

My ex 'fought' me in court to see the kids (in reality he was just trying to get at me and make himself look good). I tucked away my own feelings and tried to be amicable and accommodating to his schedule for their sake. Within a few months he'd breeched his own order by not contacting them or seeing them and claiming it was because he didn't have any money A year since he's seen them - because I won't let him now, they deserve better than that - and he still takes every chance to make my life a misery and hurl abuse at me. He's a bitter, hateful, drunken b@stard and neither use nor ornament to my fabulous kids.

 

It can be hard to be a proper parent - as opposed to a visitor - when there are hard feelings between you and your ex. I hope the road smooths out for both of you which, in turn, will make it easier for your son.

 

You remind me of my ex wife with your "my kids".Remember they`re his as well.Your children will never have any respect for their father because you have none for him.

Edited March 17, 2012 by TAXI DRIVER

[lurchergrrl 1,441]

Good result, happy for you

 

My ex 'fought' me in court to see the kids (in reality he was just trying to get at me and make himself look good). I tucked away my own feelings and tried to be amicable and accommodating to his schedule for their sake. Within a few months he'd breeched his own order by not contacting them or seeing them and claiming it was because he didn't have any money A year since he's seen them - because I won't let him now, they deserve better than that - and he still takes every chance to make my life a misery and hurl abuse at me. He's a bitter, hateful, drunken b@stard and neither use nor ornament to my fabulous kids.

 

It can be hard to be a proper parent - as opposed to a visitor - when there are hard feelings between you and your ex. I hope the road smooths out for both of you which, in turn, will make it easier for your son.

Hi. So you think your ex took you to court just to look good. What planet are you on? Then he messed up after a few months and you decided that he can't see them anymore! It sounds like you are the bitter and hateful one. Every man deserves to see his children unless there is sexual abuse or violence to the children involved. When you say "my fabulous kid's" you seem to forget that they are actually your kid's. When you chose to make them it was between both of you. It sounds like you are just another mum using your children to get back at your ex. Shame on you. Kyle

 

You don't know the ins and outs of it and I can assure you had he been putting the kids first, being a Dad to them, nothing that happened between us ever would've mattered. But he didnt bother with them when he lived under the same roof as them, and then he didn't bother with them when he had a court order, and even when I gave him chance after chance to see them he never came for them. They have never been the top of his list where they deserve to be, they've been let down and shoved aside more times than I can count. Maybe it makes me bitter? Not really. It makes me a mother who protects her kids from the hurtful nature of a drunk.

[k99yle 53]

Good result, happy for you

 

My ex 'fought' me in court to see the kids (in reality he was just trying to get at me and make himself look good). I tucked away my own feelings and tried to be amicable and accommodating to his schedule for their sake. Within a few months he'd breeched his own order by not contacting them or seeing them and claiming it was because he didn't have any money A year since he's seen them - because I won't let him now, they deserve better than that - and he still takes every chance to make my life a misery and hurl abuse at me. He's a bitter, hateful, drunken b@stard and neither use nor ornament to my fabulous kids.

 

It can be hard to be a proper parent - as opposed to a visitor - when there are hard feelings between you and your ex. I hope the road smooths out for both of you which, in turn, will make it easier for your son.

Hi. So you think your ex took you to court just to look good. What planet are you on? Then he messed up after a few months and you decided that he can't see them anymore! It sounds like you are the bitter and hateful one. Every man deserves to see his children unless there is sexual abuse or violence to the children involved. When you say "my fabulous kid's" you seem to forget that they are actually your kid's. When you chose to make them it was between both of you. It sounds like you are just another mum using your children to get back at your ex. Shame on you. Kyle

 

You don't know the ins and outs of it and I can assure you had he been putting the kids first, being a Dad to them, nothing that happened between us ever would've mattered. But he didnt bother with them when he lived under the same roof as them, and then he didn't bother with them when he had a court order, and even when I gave him chance after chance to see them he never came for them. They have never been the top of his list where they deserve to be, they've been let down and shoved aside more times than I can count. Maybe it makes me bitter? Not really. It makes me a mother who protects her kids from the hurtful nature of a drunk.

I feel very sorry for the children if what you say is true? I know that in my experience, mum's can twist the truth beyond recognition as this is the only way they can hurt the children's father. As always though. The only one's who suffer from these usually childish games are the children. Kid's need a dad's love also, even if he's not a very good dad!

[Lab 10,979]

Good result, happy for you

 

My ex 'fought' me in court to see the kids (in reality he was just trying to get at me and make himself look good). I tucked away my own feelings and tried to be amicable and accommodating to his schedule for their sake. Within a few months he'd breeched his own order by not contacting them or seeing them and claiming it was because he didn't have any money A year since he's seen them - because I won't let him now, they deserve better than that - and he still takes every chance to make my life a misery and hurl abuse at me. He's a bitter, hateful, drunken b@stard and neither use nor ornament to my fabulous kids.

 

It can be hard to be a proper parent - as opposed to a visitor - when there are hard feelings between you and your ex. I hope the road smooths out for both of you which, in turn, will make it easier for your son.

Hi. So you think your ex took you to court just to look good. What planet are you on? Then he messed up after a few months and you decided that he can't see them anymore! It sounds like you are the bitter and hateful one. Every man deserves to see his children unless there is sexual abuse or violence to the children involved. When you say "my fabulous kid's" you seem to forget that they are actually your kid's. When you chose to make them it was between both of you. It sounds like you are just another mum using your children to get back at your ex. Shame on you. Kyle

 

You don't know the ins and outs of it and I can assure you had he been putting the kids first, being a Dad to them, nothing that happened between us ever would've mattered. But he didnt bother with them when he lived under the same roof as them, and then he didn't bother with them when he had a court order, and even when I gave him chance after chance to see them he never came for them. They have never been the top of his list where they deserve to be, they've been let down and shoved aside more times than I can count. Maybe it makes me bitter? Not really. It makes me a mother who protects her kids from the hurtful nature of a drunk.

I feel very sorry for the children if what you say is true? I know that in my experience, mum's can twist the truth beyond recognition as this is the only way they can hurt the children's father. As always though. The only one's who suffer from these usually childish games are the children. Kid's need a dad's love also, even if he's not a very good dad!

Your probably right in some ways but without facts you'll never know. And kids dont need a Mum/Dad if one of them is a useless c**t!

[GRAM71 29]

Good result, happy for you

 

My ex 'fought' me in court to see the kids (in reality he was just trying to get at me and make himself look good). I tucked away my own feelings and tried to be amicable and accommodating to his schedule for their sake. Within a few months he'd breeched his own order by not contacting them or seeing them and claiming it was because he didn't have any money A year since he's seen them - because I won't let him now, they deserve better than that - and he still takes every chance to make my life a misery and hurl abuse at me. He's a bitter, hateful, drunken b@stard and neither use nor ornament to my fabulous kids.

 

It can be hard to be a proper parent - as opposed to a visitor - when there are hard feelings between you and your ex. I hope the road smooths out for both of you which, in turn, will make it easier for your son.

good for you gal,

my wife had similar trouble with her first husband, i bit my tongue and held back for a while, i understood it was difficult for him to see his kids as he was over a hundred miles away in london.

However, after a few visits, and then a few weekends where he'd take the kids away with him, we found out that as soon as he got back to london he was dumping them on his mum on the friday eve and not seeing them again until the sunday morn when he'd pile them in the car and make the run back to ours, that and a few other facts that came to our attention was what finally did for him and i had to step in and explain what was expected of him and how to behave himself while incharge of his kids.

Marvin, well done fella, i'm made up for ya,

[secretagentmole 1,701]

Lurchergirl, if he wanted to see them or speak to them he would get the money, does not take a lot to get a mobile top up on voda, even if for a few minutes, no doubt he lived fairly close so the only reason for not seeing them were his good friends J Daniels and J Smith, possibly aided by J Smiths brother Sam! What amazes me is when you write a detailed explanation, state what you had done and these fools who watch half of the notorious Mr K show leap in like him, but they forget the other half of what Mr K says, "Break that agreement and I agree with you, no access!"

 

Kids remember disappointment and it soon turns into resentment, so how would the drunk like to be remembered with hate or with sadness?

["Earth!" 503]

Good result, happy for you

 

My ex 'fought' me in court to see the kids (in reality he was just trying to get at me and make himself look good). I tucked away my own feelings and tried to be amicable and accommodating to his schedule for their sake. Within a few months he'd breeched his own order by not contacting them or seeing them and claiming it was because he didn't have any money A year since he's seen them - because I won't let him now, they deserve better than that - and he still takes every chance to make my life a misery and hurl abuse at me. He's a bitter, hateful, drunken b@stard and neither use nor ornament to my fabulous kids.

 

It can be hard to be a proper parent - as opposed to a visitor - when there are hard feelings between you and your ex. I hope the road smooths out for both of you which, in turn, will make it easier for your son.

Hi. So you think your ex took you to court just to look good. What planet are you on? Then he messed up after a few months and you decided that he can't see them anymore! It sounds like you are the bitter and hateful one. Every man deserves to see his children unless there is sexual abuse or violence to the children involved. When you say "my fabulous kid's" you seem to forget that they are actually your kid's. When you chose to make them it was between both of you. It sounds like you are just another mum using your children to get back at your ex. Shame on you. Kyle

 

You don't know the ins and outs of it and I can assure you had he been putting the kids first, being a Dad to them, nothing that happened between us ever would've mattered. But he didnt bother with them when he lived under the same roof as them, and then he didn't bother with them when he had a court order, and even when I gave him chance after chance to see them he never came for them. They have never been the top of his list where they deserve to be, they've been let down and shoved aside more times than I can count. Maybe it makes me bitter? Not really. It makes me a mother who protects her kids from the hurtful nature of a drunk.

I feel very sorry for the children if what you say is true? I know that in my experience, mum's can twist the truth beyond recognition as this is the only way they can hurt the children's father. As always though. The only one's who suffer from these usually childish games are the children. Kid's need a dad's love also, even if he's not a very good dad!

Your probably right in some ways but without facts you'll never know. And kids dont need a Mum/Dad if one of them is a useless c**t!

 

come on lab... your talking from the heart now tell us your upbringing

[salclalin 240]

Made up for you Mate.I split up with my Wife 18months ago she caused no end of Problems regarding my Grandson.Telling my Grandsons mother all sorts of Nonsense.Now it has come to Bite her on her Arse.I get to see him every Weekend,She doesn't get to see him At all.Spoil that child Rotten.

[Waz 4,274]

Wish you all the best with your son. Ive seen 1st hand the dirty tricks mothers can get away with using the children as tools of spite. Fortunately they are not all like that. & im not saying all fathers are angels either..

[Lab 10,979]

Good result, happy for you

 

My ex 'fought' me in court to see the kids (in reality he was just trying to get at me and make himself look good). I tucked away my own feelings and tried to be amicable and accommodating to his schedule for their sake. Within a few months he'd breeched his own order by not contacting them or seeing them and claiming it was because he didn't have any money A year since he's seen them - because I won't let him now, they deserve better than that - and he still takes every chance to make my life a misery and hurl abuse at me. He's a bitter, hateful, drunken b@stard and neither use nor ornament to my fabulous kids.

 

It can be hard to be a proper parent - as opposed to a visitor - when there are hard feelings between you and your ex. I hope the road smooths out for both of you which, in turn, will make it easier for your son.

Hi. So you think your ex took you to court just to look good. What planet are you on? Then he messed up after a few months and you decided that he can't see them anymore! It sounds like you are the bitter and hateful one. Every man deserves to see his children unless there is sexual abuse or violence to the children involved. When you say "my fabulous kid's" you seem to forget that they are actually your kid's. When you chose to make them it was between both of you. It sounds like you are just another mum using your children to get back at your ex. Shame on you. Kyle

 

You don't know the ins and outs of it and I can assure you had he been putting the kids first, being a Dad to them, nothing that happened between us ever would've mattered. But he didnt bother with them when he lived under the same roof as them, and then he didn't bother with them when he had a court order, and even when I gave him chance after chance to see them he never came for them. They have never been the top of his list where they deserve to be, they've been let down and shoved aside more times than I can count. Maybe it makes me bitter? Not really. It makes me a mother who protects her kids from the hurtful nature of a drunk.

I feel very sorry for the children if what you say is true? I know that in my experience, mum's can twist the truth beyond recognition as this is the only way they can hurt the children's father. As always though. The only one's who suffer from these usually childish games are the children. Kid's need a dad's love also, even if he's not a very good dad!

Your probably right in some ways but without facts you'll never know. And kids dont need a Mum/Dad if one of them is a useless c**t!

 

come on lab... your talking from the heart now tell us your upbringing

......No not at all mate. Lucky enough to have a sound Mum and Dad mate. Granted they probably hated each other since i was about 15 till my Dad finally moved out when i was about 21 and now there happier than ever.