MOVING!!

[scotty3968 0]

IM ALMOST IN THE SAME BOAT AS YOU FRANK,,,,12 YEARS GIONG DOWN THE SWANNY,,,LIKE EVERYONE SEZ YOU HAVE TO LOOK FOR WHATS BEST,IT MAY BE AWFULL SHORT TERM BUT ALL WILL COME GOOD,HOPE ALL GOES WELL FOR YOU FELLA.

SCOTTY

[jigsaw 11,864]

\\frank best of luck and have a good think before you make any harsh decisions.Its a big step but only you'll know if its the right thing to do.I have to say I've been close to that situation too,still unsure of the future,but when kids are involved you have to put them 1st.Good luck anyway.

[Guest markbrick1]

FRANK FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCT NO POINT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IF YOUR NOT HAPPY? AND IF YOU CAN LEAVE ON GOOD TERMS ALL THE BETTER ESP WHEN KIDS ARE INVOLVED ,I HAD 12 YEARS OF BEING TOLD THIS AND THAT AND SHE HAD TO GO, THIS ONE IVE BEEN WITH 11 YEARS AND SHES GREAT NO SHIT AT ALL I CAN DO WHAT I LIKE AS LONG AS IAM HAPPY,ITS MY PLACE ANYWAY.LIKE I SAY FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCT IT WILL COME GOOD IN THE END MATE

[Guest Frank]

Your all so kind, im chuffed, thanks.

 

As i have said, its on freindly terms, so i feel better for that and the nipper will be coming to visit quiet often.

Ill have more freedom aswell and peace of mind. Its not good being un happy, lifes too short and i want to acchieave a few things before i kick the buket, like running dogs ect.

 

Looking at some nice places to rent as i type.

 

Frank.

[the fezz 44]

frank what ever you decide i wish you the best of luck mate

 

 

 

 

 

p.s how many dogs you getting :whistle:

[Guest Frank]

p.s how many dogs you getting :whistle:

 

prehaps a greyhound and a coursing lurcher pup.

 

Frank.

[wren 8]

Good luck with a tough decision, hope it works out :thumbs-up:

[conor 7]

thats a bit of a balls frank hope things work out fo the best

[Guest Ditch_Shitter]

Just read all this, Frank. Once I got over the initial shock - though why should I be shocked? I know nothing about ye home situation so why should learning it leave me anything but neutral?

 

Anyway. You're both seemingly no longer happy with eachother? Happens, mate. We all grow and develope with age. Maybe ye needed something ye each found in each other once. Now ye've taken what ye needed for ye own individual developements and have grown on, and seperately. Happens. Nothing wrong in it.

 

But now ye both need to keep moving in ye seperate directions, what's to tear yeselves up over? That boy of yours too will grow and mature and come to need His own line to follow. No one'll raise an eyebrow over that eventuallity.

 

Nice thing is that ye both seem to recognise all this. So part as friends who once shared a deeper bond. Accept that ye've been good for each other and that now it's time ye can both move on, unaided by the other.

 

Find yeself a place. Settle in. Get yeself some more Dogs. Live amongst them. Play on here. Stay up late. Grow a beard. Change ye clothes less often. Put off having a wash because it's cold. Drink ..... Ye know the way, Frank.

 

Before ye know it, ye'll only be using ye voice to talk to the Dogs. Ye'll stink so badly people won't want ye near them and that'll suit you because ye'll prefer ye Dogs company anyway. Live in self induced squallor, far away from people. Few years like that and ye'll develope ye own 'little eccentricities'. Life, I assure ye, will become comfortable again.

 

And, should we ever shamble past each other on the road? I'm sure we'll each exchange the clasp in a single, suspicious, knowing look.

 

We'll be as brothers, Frank.

 

 

 

 

Now; Isn't That something to look foreward to?

[reynardhunter 3]

Frank, sorry to hear your predicament mate, hope you can work things out with your missus, I abandoned ship several years ago myself under different circumstances i might add, the hardest part is being a parent from a distance, you know seeing them every now and again and not being there all the time for them, it f***s your head up and does them no good either, anyway i dont regret what i did and in time you wont either if you do decide to go, best of luck mate anyway

[Guest Frank]

Once again, CHEERS

 

We are still going over it.

 

Ditch , you never know, we might just bump into one another some day.

Ill try and get a place with a decent shower in it though.

Thanks though bud. :thumbs-up:

 

Cheers.

 

Frank.

[FPO 0]

She says she wants you out? If she really means it and not just an off hand, mid argument, comment then fair enough, but sometimes things said that arent ment. If holidays arent an option can you maybe not even get away for and afternoon, without kid? There was obviously something that worked in the begining and for a long time. Must admit, cant understand anyone not loveing feretts and dogs. But realise it can cause strife. Shame really.

 

What ever happens though, like you said if poss keep it amiacable.

 

And on a lighter note try and rent somewhere near a library, most have internet conection free for and hour session!!! you will still then be able to get your fix with HL and keep in touch :thumbs-up:

[Guest Frank]

Thanks FPO.

If i do get to rent a house, it will have a PH conection and i will still have Internet access, but i will be off for a wee while, but not too long.

 

As for trying to find what was in the biggining, long story, too boring to put up.

 

Frank.

[shepp 2,285]

All the best Frank whatever you choose, one saying I always remember is - Life is not a dress rehearsal.

[Guest Frank]