robo-christ 40 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 im splitting up with the missus,problem is i have maybe 2 grand in the bank and when i move out of here i'll be moving far away nearer to my family (couldnt afford to rent around here even if i wanted) so wont be able to keep my job and im not sure i'll be able to provide for myself. now that in itself is'nt the problem the problem is i have 2 lurchers who the now ex says cannot stay with her until im sorted,they're not going to be re-homed to anyone i dont know and i dont know anyone who cant take them,ideally i want to keep them but i dont know how it would be possible.anyone been through similar and managed to find a way to keep their dogs? sorry if this doesnt make any sense my minds still racing from trying to get other shit sorted Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tiny 7 1,694 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Someone thats looking for a loan would be handy or something along them lines..... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
asha 48 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 DO U NO ANY OLDER FELLOWS THAT USED TO RUN LURCHERS.MY OLD UNCLES BEEN MORE THAN HELPFUL OVER THE YEARS.HE KEEP TERS FOR 30 ODD YEARS SO THERE WAS ONLY ONE PLACE I THOUGHT OF WHEN NEEDING A GOOD HOME FOR MY OLD BITCH.MAY BE A LONG SHOT BUT MAY HELP Quote Link to post Share on other sites
J Darcy 5,871 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 It's during the traumatic times that you will need the dogs more than any other time. Try to work out some waay you can house them with you if possible mate. good luck Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SNAP SHOT 194 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Agree with darcy 100 % on this, the dogs will be a way foryou to get out and stop mulling over stuff, and do something you enjoy. Seems we all got our troubles, i hope you can manage to move forward from this, Nothing hurts more than things going pear shaped with the one you love.... Keep your chin up, And i hope you see some light at the end of the tunnel whenever you settle elsewhere... Snap. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
robo-christ 40 Posted October 13, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 tbh i'll probably have spend some time staying with family and i don't know how to ask them if i can bring 2 big smelly hairy lurchers along with me lol. maybe if i just give them a few extra quid. a loan would be ideal if i knew anyone who needs a loan and who i'd trust with them. thanks for the suggestion's Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ferreter.al 22 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 (edited) It's during the traumatic times that you will need the dogs more than any other time. Try to work out some waay you can house them with you if possible mate. good luck correct...in these bad times you can turn to your dogs plus free meat!! hope you get sorted mate Edited October 13, 2010 by ferreter.al Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah4181 260 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Maybe you could suggest to your family that the dogs could live outside, build yourself a cheap kennel or use some of your money to get that set up . . . .. if your family know you, they will know how important your dogs are to you . . . . especially now. All the best of luck, i hope everything works out for you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Strong Stuff 2,171 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Just been through this, telling you mate, keep a dog close, it means you've got reason to get up and get out each day. Am not one for sentiment or sympathy but I reckon if I hadn't my dog (I lost 1 in the "custody battle) then there were many days I wouldn't have made it out of bed. Keep your head up mate, wish I could help, but am just about feeding myself and my own dog at the minute. One last thing, don't for one single minute let her think she's done you any damage, they can be evil treacherous b*****ds and can't be allowed to gloat for one second. Kill her, you'll feel better for it. Edited to add: Where are you in the country and what do you do for a living? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
redeye jedi 39 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Just been through this, telling you mate, keep a dog close, it means you've got reason to get up and get out each day. Am not one for sentiment or sympathy but I reckon if I hadn't my dog (I lost 1 in the "custody battle) then there were many days I wouldn't have made it out of bed. Keep your head up mate, wish I could help, but am just about feeding myself and my own dog at the minute. One last thing, don't for one single minute let her think she's done you any damage, they can be evil treacherous b*****ds and can't be allowed to gloat for one second. Kill her, you'll feel better for it. Edited to add: Where are you in the country and what do you do for a living? yep dont let her gloat, get yourself out to thailand with that 2k Quote Link to post Share on other sites
chrissy32 13 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 the best thing i have used and tried just about everything is a yellow liquid in a bottle called friars balsum available from any chemist brilliant stuff stops bleeding straight away carefull mine because it stains really bad if you get it on you or anything else magic stuff though . Agree with darcy 100 % on this, the dogs will be a way foryou to get out and stop mulling over stuff, and do something you enjoy. Seems we all got our troubles, i hope you can manage to move forward from this, Nothing hurts more than things going pear shaped with the one you love.... Keep your chin up, And i hope you see some light at the end of the tunnel whenever you settle elsewhere... Snap. It's during the traumatic times that you will need the dogs more than any other time. Try to work out some waay you can house them with you if possible mate. good luck correct...in these bad times you can turn to your dogs plus free meat!! hope you get sorted mate Maybe you could suggest to your family that the dogs could live outside, build yourself a cheap kennel or use some of your money to get that set up . . . .. if your family know you, they will know how important your dogs are to you . . . . especially now. All the best of luck, i hope everything works out for you. well loads of advice for you there bud out of all strong stuffs takes some beating lol atb for you pal if your in the north east might be able to help you out for a few weeks just untll you get back on your feet atb chris Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest my balls your mouth Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 been in this situation my self mate, eneded up renting me house out through it, things get easier in time, although i was the opposite i couldnt look at my dogs for a couple of month, went from going out 5 times a week to nothing at all, chin up mate you will be fine Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stevolad 26 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Been through this several times, I couldn't bare to look at the dog but they will be pleased to see you every day an night even if no one else is! I pay a good mate of mine to look after my bitch when I am working away which helps both of us out. Chin up pal, know what ya going through Quote Link to post Share on other sites
robo-christ 40 Posted October 13, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 thanks for all the advice,i think i may be ok for the dogs after speaking to my old man. and thanks for the offers im not really one to take help even off people i know well,but it's good to know there's good people about. my family live in formby in merseyside,but my ex is from north yorkshire. and as for what do i do for a living,got out of the army in april and took the first job i could get,which happend to be a paki shop. so at least i can quit that now. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 My dogs have kept me sane in the last 6 weeks .. i probably was at my lowest point during that period.. but you have to bounce back ... and lifes for living So the scum bag can go & .. did me a favour really ... :toast: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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