Cheers lads...just venting to be honest, been together since we were 16 and 18 and I love her too bits but she pushes my buttons...appreciate the suggestions, I'll sit her down once mothers days been and gone, don't wanna ruin it for her. And surely this is a thl first? I came on here asking for advice like a woman at a coffee morning and I've had 6 serious, well thought out resonses...Not one of ya has ripped me to shreds haha