All that depend's on how big your heart is.. If your hearts big enough, you learn pretty quickly to protect it.
that's probably the gayest thing I've ever seen a man post.
But on topic,I had to learn to be more objective,I wanted people to be decent and honest.
now I just try never to put myself in a position where I depend on anyone and realise I don't need any more friends,which makes me more discerning and unbiased.
doesn't mean you can't be generous and help people out,just realise they owe you nothing for it.
and thats probably the 2nd gayest thing iv read on here hah