I am very much the same, To the point my family don't even bother sending me an invite anymore Lol its not that i don't give a shit but more like i just don't want to go, if you can understand that. The same with funerals, The person has gone, what's left is just early stage compost or soon to be ash, The last funeral i attended, i kind of upset a few people, The cars were late at the crematorium, i asked someone if they knew why. I was told they had taken a detour down some country lanes he liked. Apparently my answer of "what the f**k for, he wont be able to see anything" Upset a few. I don