i believe this generation are different, When i married my Mrs i was still in the forces, We got married in the July, I got posted to Germany a month later. We got a married quarter in the December, She flew over in December, In January i got sent out on deployment for 6 weeks. I was away up to nine months of the year, Now she had never been abroad before this, So there she was in a strange Country on her own with a young kid for months on end, Yes she would have the odd moan but that's only to be expected, Fast forward to one of my sons girlfriends that he has two kids with and she is one evi