Oh , it was banter , that's ok then , I,m only just beginning to understand how this banter lark works , as far as I can see , you call complete strangers ( who are trying to help you ) offensive ,insulting names , then you drag that persons mother into it and make repulsive comments about her , then when , incredibly , nobody has laughed at your witty remarks , and you have sobered up or put the crack pipe down , you shout " it was only banter " and everything is ok , in fact people feel a bit silly because they "bit " good stuff this banter