Same as me mate.......my son in law is off out to Afghanistan any time now i sit asking him questions just like you say to try and get an understanding........but ive realised i probably never will understand we are all made different......i look at this lad and feel all worried and protective towards him ......and here he is going away fighting to protect us !!........He,s not a hardman by any means.......but mentally he makes me look like a girl !.......Just different class these boys.
gnash put some of them pictures up of your son in law in his #2's you couldn't wait to show me lol wish