Feck me 18, 16 and 15 you sould be coming home to a clean house and a cooked meal at least once in a while. My son is only six and his mother and me are fine but he still has chores has small responsabilities, he is also given goals, he wants a dog but he will have to work for it, he will get feck all for nothing. If you are on your own then come on, your kids are not babys, christ two of them could have babys of there own. We are not straying from the point but it is exactly the point people taking notice of what they are doing, what they are eating, the way they are living. It's not about cu