why dont u say the same bout those hard school boys.. im the one attacked... he was first to say i wouldn't da this in his area i would be mugged , would shag me bla bla... if u had intelligence u would say i hate boys who think they can take on anyone , im just man doing marketing never mentioned im anything , but it was assumed that i would be mugged by some boys.. i said no dont think so... normal defensive reply , blame not on me... but its not natural to think bout it from different angle, we r naturally biased and one sided, we have to try to see things from different angle.