That IS true, it's a bit of a Catch 22, if your new to it and don't know any one, your a bit screwed, or at least it takes a lot longer.
Simple answer is, if you were not lining Gem, it'd take a lot longer for me to find the pup i wanted, but i'm sure with enough feelers out for long enough, something good would come up, it usually does (Can't beat optimism). Just might have to put in some time and miles.
Think about that guy we met at the show with the collie/greys, or that Keeper mat, with one? Or the guy with that stud dog? They are out there, and your right, they are kept quiet